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Valentine's Day

Dougly

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I'm stressing too much here. The relationship (w/woman) is about a month old. I dig her and this could be long term thing, but who knows? I figure I'll go the traditional route with the roses, but what else? Being the man I am, roses dosen't seem to be that much of a gift. Help me out here. Ladies especially. The rest of you cock smokers feel free to chime in with your "I'll give her the high hard one for ya," or "Get her a strap on, something you both can enjoy."
 
I think roses IS enough..

But if you really want to give something else, maybe a scented candle, chocolates or some nice bubble bath .... the best is if you can think of something that has to do with her.. does she have a particular favourite fragrance.. colour?

To me, the best gift shows a little thought went into it.
 
I agree with Seashell....a candle would be nice or something from bath and Body works that smells good. Anything kind girl like but not really personal....
 
box of flavored condoms?
 
can you cook?

cook her a nice meal at home. it's more personal and it shows you've put a lot of thought and effort into the night.
 
dont over do it.....just give her some roses take her out to dinner and a movie or something.....my girl fucked up...she has to work valentines day and the day after so i told her valentines day cancelled to fuck off....her bad for picking up extra work
 
Shak said:
can you cook?

cook her a nice meal at home. it's more personal and it shows you've put a lot of thought and effort into the night.

I think this is the way I'm going to go. The only problem is she has to work Sat. night. A nice midnight dinner might be fun.
 
get her the rabbit...

on a more serious note.. i'm kinda in your boat... i've been hooking up w/ this chick and i dont know if she thinks we are more than that but i dont want a relationship w/ her and i think the best way to convey that would be to do nothing for vday... as shitty as it sounds.
 
ZKaudio said:
get her the rabbit...

on a more serious note.. i'm kinda in your boat... i've been hooking up w/ this chick and i dont know if she thinks we are more than that but i dont want a relationship w/ her and i think the best way to convey that would be to do nothing for vday... as shitty as it sounds.

That's going to suck when she springs a gift or something on you.
I think I'm going the candle route. If I were you ZK I'd have one on hand just in case. Even if you don't have to give it to her, it may come in handy someday.
 
flowers or chocolate...and a card. thats what im getting, i already said i aint getting a lot and she better not get me much or i'll get pissed

and its a small box of chocs...about the size of a large hand
 
Seashell said:
But if you really want to give something else, maybe a scented candle, chocolates or some nice bubble bath ....

To me, the best gift shows a little thought went into it.

you just totally contradicted yourself. then again you are a woman.
 
Robert Jan said:


you just totally contradicted yourself. then again you are a woman.

You just totally misunderstood my post. But then again, you are a man.

How do you figure?
 
No thought goes into a candle? If you know her favourite fragrance is gardenia (for example), and you search around and find a really cool gardenia-scented candle....that's not thoughtful? I wasn't talking about the white long candles y'know... :rolleyes:

Bubblebath, same thing. Sure, you can be thoughtless and pick up the first one you see.. but I'm obviously not talking about that.. maybe she has a favourite kind or she collects "Hello Kitty" stuff.. so get her the Hello Kitty bubblebath...

A gift is as thoughtful as you want it to be...
 
Seashell said:
No thought goes into a candle? If you know her favourite fragrance is gardenia (for example), and you search around and find a really cool gardenia-scented candle....that's not thoughtful? I wasn't talking about the white long candles y'know... :rolleyes:

Bubblebath, same thing. Sure, you can be thoughtless and pick up the first one you see.. but I'm obviously not talking about that.. maybe she has a favourite kind or she collects "Hello Kitty" stuff.. so get her the Hello Kitty bubblebath...

A gift is as thoughtful as you want it to be...

Hey, I was just trying to justify RJs post. No need to get all rolly eyed on me, Seastone.

Be my valentine? :)
 
LOL.. the rolly-eyes weren't really at you Zero... well mabye a tiny bit.. I take them back.

:friends: And I thought you'd never ask..

(PS. I do like gardenia) :D
 
Does anyone ever care that those who are alone on V-day feel really fucking lonely and depressed? St. Valentine can go fuck himself... at least I am not bitter.
 
I'm taking my gal to a strip club
she's bi
I'll give her cash to tip with
 
ChewYxRage said:
You should have made your own thread for that
we have a blast
as some guy mentioned on another thread
the dancers get more involved in their dance for another chick
 
roses are nice but its ALWAYS roses,
go 4 something different (but that is just me, the unconventional woman!)

i am not trying to complicate matters here for you

oh what the heck buy the roses if you must and a nice card where you write and original poem for her!
 
saint808 said:
Does anyone ever care that those who are alone on V-day feel really fucking lonely and depressed? St. Valentine can go fuck himself... at least I am not bitter.
Good post...
 
Yasmina said:
roses are nice but its ALWAYS roses,
go 4 something different (but that is just me, the unconventional woman!)

i am not trying to complicate matters here for you

oh what the heck buy the roses if you must and a nice card where you write and original poem for her!
LOL@ a poem...
Who does that?
 
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Forge said:
Nothing wrong with a poem, I've done that before. Usually just out of the blue though, not really for V-day.
To each his own, I wouldn't....
 
Dougly said:
I'm stressing too much here. The relationship (w/woman) is about a month old. I dig her and this could be long term thing, but who knows? I figure I'll go the traditional route with the roses, but what else? Being the man I am, roses dosen't seem to be that much of a gift. Help me out here. Ladies especially. The rest of you cock smokers feel free to chime in with your "I'll give her the high hard one for ya," or "Get her a strap on, something you both can enjoy."


1 month......


advice - roses are cliche'






try lilacs or even an orchid





....and send it to her work........not for scoring brownie points but for lavishing attention on her in her "world"



...get tickets to see a stage production


...go to a shooting range together


...plan something physical - rock climbing or other outdoorr activity....if weather permits


...cook dinner together...light some candles, open some wine, and just pretend you two are the only souls in the world..


...play erotic games


...watch the surise or sunset together



...the possibilites are only limited by your creative ability
 
Life
Oh life
The pain and suffering
How shall I bear thy dreary, wretched world
Where the nought try to take down the ought
For it is thee
The joy of life
Who gives me life
My love












(Yo, I just wrote this off the top of my head (time elapse 15 seconds). Some people are probably thinking it is Shakespeare, Melville, or Byron or some other great poet, no it is not, just me (i.e. Dirk Howat) :worried: )
 
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