Update: She's missing....

[Austin316]

ummm well whoever read my other thread knows the situation, and yea I just got a call from my gf's mother and she hasn't spoken to her since friday night which is last time I did. SHe told me her best friend hadn't heard from her since then, nor her sister, her phones off goes straight to voicemail, and yea they are about ready to call the police. fuck what do I do........ this is a LD thing so I can't like be there or anything, I dunno Im freaking out wtf do I do..... prolyl shouldn't be wasting my time on here but god just I dunno

 

[awittyusername]

Just relax bro. She is probably OK, and there is nothing you can do anyway.

How old is she? Where was she last seen?

 

[AAP]

What can you do? You are away. Not much you can do anyway.

Just relax. We are all crayons in God's hands. Just calm down and let Him finish the picture.

 

[KillahBee]

I was right - there was a good explanation. Is this chick all there? probably not. while there is always a chance this could be serious. 9 times out of 10 it is a cry for attention. does she shows signs of this behavior?

 

[Austin316]

if this doesn't turn out to be serious Im gonna kill her.......well you know what I mean, but fuck I dunno million things in my head atm

 

[spongebob]

what do you think happen? is this normal for her to not speak with her mother and friends? does she do drugs? is this the mother of your kid and if so where is the kid?

 

[Austin316]

no this isn't like her, we lost the child at 5 1/2 months into the pregnancy, it would have been born last week

 

[AAP]

no this isn't like her, we lost the child at 5 1/2 months into the pregnancy, it would have been born last week

Here's the first clue. She may just need a bit of time. If you feel bad about this, imagine how she feels.

 

[danielson]

good luck

 

[spongebob]

no this isn't like her, we lost the child at 5 1/2 months into the pregnancy, it would have been born last week

sorry about the child bro.

well whats your first thought on this?

 

[jerseyart]

no this isn't like her, we lost the child at 5 1/2 months into the pregnancy, it would have been born last week

That is a traumatic time for a woman maing

I know a number of women who go through hell when that anniversary occures, and this was her first time dealing with the reality.

 

[pitbullstl]

Just relax. We are all crayons in God's hands. Just calm down and let Him finish the picture.

Interesting.

 

[AAP]

Interesting.

My picture is X-rated.

 

[pitbullstl]

My picture is X-rated.

And full of bunny's, ducks.............................and rainbows.

 

[The_Ghost]

Hope all turns out well bro!!

 

[hardrock]

That's pretty strange dude. I hope she's ok.

Keep us posted.

 

[Lestat]

can someone get me up to speed in two sentences?

 

[wtlftr]

I hope she is not cheating on you and on a sex fest. But I hope all is well.

 

[EnderJE]

can someone get me up to speed in two sentences?

Austin pissed that gf didn't say happy bday on bday. Turns out she's missing...

 

[Austin316]

and guess what, she turned up, perfectly fine, her service didn't work all weekend bc she was at a cabin camping......her mom called to tell me, she called her sister, still not me yet, she knows Im pissed as hell if she checked her text messages or vmail, now the question is what am I gonna do about it, Im extremyl mad

 

[wtlftr]

she was cheating on you. i am sorry

 

[Dakotah]

I know I said this before but seriously though she is going through alot of emotions and I would bet that she is hiding to try to deal with the fact that her baby would have been here at this time. I know it sucks that she isnt in contact with anyone so she is freaking everyone out; but im sure she is just hurting whereever she is as far as emotionally.

Although she could be just out screwing around(and i dont mean sexually) and still have the grief of the baby as her motives. Just dont be too hard until you get a proper excuse from her mouth. Maybe you both need a good heart to heart and see whats really up between you bith so you both arent hurting or just one is getting hurt.

I wish you the best and hope that helps a little.

Keep us posted.

D.

 

[EnderJE]

what am I gonna do about it

fuck her sister, then mother...that will show her!

 

[NJjuice22]

"cabin camping " = spent the weekend at tyrones house with him and his homies.

 

[jerseyart]

and guess what, she turned up, perfectly fine, her service didn't work all weekend bc she was at a cabin camping......her mom called to tell me, she called her sister, still not me yet, she knows Im pissed as hell if she checked her text messages or vmail, now the question is what am I gonna do about it, Im extremyl mad

Kid, move on. I promise in a couple of months it won't hurt anymore and you'll be better off for the experience.

She was cheating on you maing. Believe it, and not a word that comes out of the bitches mouth

 

[Daisy_]

hmmm...I wouldnt say that she was cheating on you. Coming from a female and also miscarrying. I havent quite got to the day I would give birth quit yet. But its going to be really hard, and I think everyone has differant ways of dealing with it. I am sure this was her way. Take it slow let her explain herself. You guys have gone through worse. Good luck hun.

 

[EnderJE]

Listen to a song from the Eagles..."GET OVER IT"

 

[hardrock]

and guess what, she turned up, perfectly fine, her service didn't work all weekend bc she was at a cabin camping......her mom called to tell me, she called her sister, still not me yet, she knows Im pissed as hell if she checked her text messages or vmail, now the question is what am I gonna do about it, Im extremyl mad

I don't care what her emotional state was. She could have at least called you to let ya know she's ok.

If it were me, I'd tell the bitch to kick rocks.

 

[Daisy_]

I don't care what her emotional state was. She could have at least called you to let ya know she's ok.

If it were me, I'd tell the bitch to kick rocks.

Totally. She should have called or let you know she was going away.

 

[Devastation]

glad she's ok bro

 

[danielson]

dont do anything mad, if it were me i would send her no more messages as she has enough, and wait for her to at least apologise for scaring the shit out of you

 

[Seashell]

Even if her cellphone didn't work, there are pay phones. If she'd wanted to call, she easily enough could have, she just chose not to. And it has yet to kill a person to say "You know what, I'm upset, I just need a day or two". I'd be done with that person.