Update on situation with my girlfriend

[-SD-]

I had a thread about my girlfriend and how she thought she didnt have to think rationally about life or whatever because she is "only" 22. At that time she also explained how she sometimes feels like packing up and leaving for like 2 months (just to go and adventure or some shit). She didnt have a definite time but she sounded serious and stuff. So I saw her this weekend and she was her usual depressed self (cant find a job, has to live with folks) and we were supposed to meet my family for dinner saturday night but she ended up leaving since she said she didnt feel good (I didnt argue about it since she was depressing to be around actually). She said she would see me Wednesday (today) before she left this coming weekend. So now its Wednesday and I havent heard from her at all since I saw her on saturday, Ive called twice, gave email and instant messaged but got nothing from her at all. We are used to talking every day, either I call her or she calls me but we always at least talk on the phone since she is aan hour away. When I called her today her dad answered and just said she wasnt home but she hasnt done anything like pack up and leave. Sounds like shes just blowing me off and ignoring me, which I wont put up with so unless she calls me and said someone died or she was in the hospital Im going to have to dump her ass for this blatant disrespect of me.

 

[DcupSheepNipples]

Didnt you listen to what I posted in the original thread

Besides, I predicted all of this! It's almost like I can travel in time or something!

 

[MFMan]

That is disrespectful. There is no exuse for not calling. Well maybe a good one but thats absurd. Dumping her may be the only viable alternative. Theres always more fish in the sea. I would just advise steering clear of the EF personals.

 

[theoak01]

dont fucking give up over stupid shit work through it man,people get in slumps and want to get away for a bit,let her go and she will come back the person she was once before

 

[vinylgroover]

Just leave her be Dave.

The more you push, the more she will pull away. She's obviously very confused now. Just go about your business and let her call you when and if she's ready. Otherwise, just get on with your life.......don't put your life on hold for anyone.

 

[-SD-]

Vinyl, Ive called only twice, once monday and once today, and left one email the other day and one IM saying hello. The call today was the last attempt I will make and now I will let her be. Its still disrespectful and I dont know what I will do if she calls and apologizes and gives excuses.

 

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