Unloved or Disrepected?

[-Ariel-]

Which is worse to go through in life... I read a research article last night that had some interesting statistics... However, I just wanna confirm this informally? Which is worse to be disrespected... I mean like, U have low social status in society... Or is it worse, that no one cares about U, and you are utterly alone?

 

[Grumpy Old Man]

Which is worse to go through in life... I read a research article last night that had some interesting statistics... However, I just wanna confirm this informally? Which is worse to be disrespected... I mean like, U have low social status in society... Or is it worse, that no one cares about U, and you are utterly alone?

Don't worry I like you.

 

[Smurfy]

not possible to comment. Love and Respect go hand in hand IMO. They are mutually inclusive. kthxnext

 

[Bikini Mod]

^^ What she said.

Although if one thinks about the caste system in India that is not necessarily true. But even members of the lowest caste have those who love and care for them... right? I mean don't they have families and stuff?

 

[Bikini Mod]

PS - I've felt BOTH. Not a feeling in my head. It was factual. To be honest, I don't know which circumstance beget which but they both went hand in hand. I know why it happened with my head, but it still hurts in my heart... to this day, most probably because I never did anything to make that circumstance happen (I didn't deserve it) but it happened anyway... didn't it?

Welcome to "Life Ain't Fair 101"

 

[Stock69]

IMO, you cant do much about being unloved, but you can do something about being disrespected... Other than that, I really dont think about it much.

 

[Cutiebaby]

It is better and easier to be disrespected socially etc. than to be unloved. Surely you can be poor and low class yet still be loved by someone out there.

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

The world is too complicated to choose between one of those without alienating yourself from it.

 

[-Ariel-]

Don't worry I like you.

LOL, I like U too.

What kinda car does GOM drive?
Just curious.

 

[-Ariel-]

not possible to comment. Love and Respect go hand in hand IMO. They are mutually inclusive. kthxnext

Yeah, I hear ya...

I guess I'm talking degrees. Like U can love someone, and they have a low social status.
Or U can like respect someone much... and not love them.

I mean like there are so many people I respect, but do not love.

I'm also starting to realize the older we get, and the more conditioned we get, the less we are actually able to love.

 

[-Ariel-]

^^ What she said.

Although if one thinks about the caste system in India that is not necessarily true. But even members of the lowest caste have those who love and care for them... right? I mean don't they have families and stuff?

This is what I"m talking about.
Degrees...
I mean with respect, I mean social status I guess....
With love, I mean being accepted, understood, embraced, connected.
U can be low on the social ladder, and loved by your S O, and fam.
U can be high career wise, social status wise, and live with mad respect from others... however, alone and unconnected.

 

[-Ariel-]

The world is too complicated to choose between one of those without alienating yourself from it.

That can be said about me asking directions, your favorite color, U should post this as every answer to a question.

Except for when asking about cheat codes on Call of Duty 19.

J/K
Everything is complicated.
We are just conversing.

 

[Grumpy Old Man]

LOL, I like U too.

What kinda car does GOM drive?
Just curious.

The last 5 vehicles I had were 355F1, Z06,Chevy Z71 4X4 ext cab pickumup, big dog mastiff, road king PI.

Now I drive a Navigator cause the old lady didn't want an escalade or suburban, the bros drive the escalades and the hispanics the suburbans.

 

[walliwalibus]

I don't feel anymore. Kinda sad in a way. I miss it. Ah, oh well....... must do my own thing and move on...
Oh, WTF! Sorry dude. I can't answer as I haven't felt either in a while. Sorry. Read my PM beotch!

 

[walliwalibus]

The last 5 vehicles I had were 355F1, Z06,Chevy Z71 4X4 ext cab pickumup, big dog mastiff, road king PI.

Now I drive a Navigator cause the old lady didn't want an escalade or suburban, the bros drive the escalades and the hispanics the suburbans.

Navigators are nice man.... roomy and all....

 

[Grumpy Old Man]

Navigators are nice man.... roomy and all....

I like it. Sitting up there is like riding on a comfy leather chair. Plus it can pull a house. We towed the harley to CA for the holidays and big ass enclosed trailer the damn navigator didn't even know it was pulling anydamnthing.

Course it ain't a Ferrari.

 

[-Ariel-]

I like it. Sitting up there is like riding on a comfy leather chair. Plus it can pull a house. We towed the harley to CA for the holidays and big ass enclosed trailer the damn navigator didn't even know it was pulling anydamnthing.

Course it ain't a Ferrari.

My dad keeps talking about getting a Ferrari someday.
I mean he can't afford it. However, he's thinking when he flat out retires.
He won't ever, cause its too damn expensive.
Wow an F1...
Is it red?
What were the other options other than a Ferrari?

I just like the Ferrari Clothing line...LOL

 

[-Ariel-]

I don't feel anymore. Kinda sad in a way. I miss it. Ah, oh well....... must do my own thing and move on...
Oh, WTF! Sorry dude. I can't answer as I haven't felt either in a while. Sorry. Read my PM beotch!

I did walli, however, I am trucculent watching the shining, cause I could not sleep for a week when I was 24 watching that movie.
That shit stays in my head...

 

[Grumpy Old Man]

My dad keeps talking about getting a Ferrari someday.
I mean he can't afford it. However, he's thinking when he flat out retires.
He won't ever, cause its too damn expensive.
Wow an F1...
Is it red?
What were the other options other than a Ferrari?

I just like the Ferrari Clothing line...LOL

Until I married BM all my vehicles were black and tan. I had a couple other exotics over the years. I find now I have no desire for another one. I want something that gets me from one place to another in comfort.

There are many used vehicles that are affordable. Just stay away From Barrett-Jackson. Not many cars there normal peeps can afford.

Look on ebay motors there are some great older Ferraris under 50k.

Take care
D