Two weeks ago, I had a friend from Oregon down for a 6 day visit. Ok, we all know what the weather is like there, so you can imagine how nice it was here for him to come.
Gave him the key to my house and I stayed at my BF's house, thus ensuring he had complete privacy. I loaned him my car to drive. (now he kept my house clean and my car immaculate, no probs there)
Took him out to dinner a couple of nights and hung out with him on the beach twice.
He is incredibly shy, so I helped him meet people and he had some hot times with them.
Ok, so he goes back two Saturdays ago. And I call and leave a message Mon and Tues. No reply. I email and call again. I get an email from him this morning. About 2 sentences that oozed sarcasm. The message I am getting (reading) is that he found it resentful that I did all this for him. He thinks it was like I was rubbing it in his face.
I thought I was being nice. Saving him money and helping him have a delightful time, but apparently my good intentions made me the bad guy.
Fuck being nice.
Gave him the key to my house and I stayed at my BF's house, thus ensuring he had complete privacy. I loaned him my car to drive. (now he kept my house clean and my car immaculate, no probs there)
Took him out to dinner a couple of nights and hung out with him on the beach twice.
He is incredibly shy, so I helped him meet people and he had some hot times with them.
Ok, so he goes back two Saturdays ago. And I call and leave a message Mon and Tues. No reply. I email and call again. I get an email from him this morning. About 2 sentences that oozed sarcasm. The message I am getting (reading) is that he found it resentful that I did all this for him. He thinks it was like I was rubbing it in his face.
I thought I was being nice. Saving him money and helping him have a delightful time, but apparently my good intentions made me the bad guy.
Fuck being nice.

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