Umm...did i miss something Frackal?

[HelenSL]

Yeah me too. This is brill advice BD...

If you wanna be truly happy with someone else again, you have to first be able to be happy on your own. Deal with this, get over it and then move on. Be with someone cause you want to not cause you need to.

love
helen

 

[Slopain]

Hey frack whatdya know I broke up with my girl as well this weekend. My story is a lot more annoying and nervewracking than yours. I didnt like the two of you together and voiced it a few times for this reason (although I didnt want this to happen, dont get me wrong) - but the truth is this: you are young, this shit will probably happen a few more times in your life, its never easy, and the best thing to do is get busy doing something else. 1 mistake I often make I jump into the next girl and keep going with it, I think its better (maybe not funner though) to take time and heal up. But keep busy and re-direct your hurt and focus that energy to something positive, or at least neutral.

 

[Frackal]

You guys were together for quite along time huh Slopain?

For me and Kartchick, I feel that our ten days could be described as Sara Connor does in Terminator, "We were only together for a few hours but we loved a lifetime."

Except I'm still alive of course.

 

[Hannibal]

Except I'm still alive of course.

Yes you are Frack and dont forget that. Believe me I have been where you are at when I didn't know what to do. I didn't even know how I would make it through the day. Life goes on whether we want it to or not. I managed to pick myself up and have been knocked down several since. It just takes time. Right now you are obviously very emotional and you just KNOW that KC is the one, and that you just have to convince her of that. Give it some time and you will see why it had to go down like this. You are very YOUNG brotha...this love thing is a learning experience. Without failure you cannot appreciate victory. Take the time to heal. Get back to where you love yourself and then go out and try to find someone that loves you.

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"The major obstacle to love...is a premature walling off of the personality that results in a falseness or inauthenticity that other people can feel. Love, after all, requires a person to be open and vulnerable, able to tolerate and enjoy the crossing of ego boundaries that occurs naturally under the spell of passion... When someone is so uncomfortable with his own sense of emptiness that he struggles to keep it at bay, there is no way he will be able to be open with another person. He will simply be too ashamed to reveal himself..."


GOOD LUCK FRACK!!!!