two dilemmas...

[cindylou]

OR OR OR

you could say that you are at the point where you dont want boys in the house with your daughter with out you there??? I dont know. Just trying to think of a good lie thats a half truth, maybe lol.

 

[jh1]

I can relate, I'm really close w/ all of my neighbors. tho I dont have any kids, I've had to get out of some sit. where they were getting a little too close for confort but I like them and want to keep their friendship ; but something was making me uncomfortable.

when I get into situations where I feel uncomfortable with something, I just lie. I know it sounds bad, but a little white lie and some distance between you two for a month or so works. They get the hint, but its not enough for them to feel justified on being ticked off at you.

Tell her that you nor the kids will be there, then every time she calls, dont answer. Just for a couple weeks. That way, you are still close enough to be neighbors, but not close enough for her son to be coming over when you are not there.

Maybe???

Oh what a tangled web we weave......

 

[Mavafanculo]

Make fistfullofsteel shove a glass serving piece up the neighbor kids ass next time he comes over. All problems solved.

1) neighbor kid will avoid your house at all costs
2) one less glass serving piece means no decision to make
3) fistfullofsteel will be changed by the glass piece adventure and start flirting with AAP instead.


K for me.

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[alien amp pharm]

well i haven't really said a clear set of rules because i'm usually home, and if he comes over when i'm not home... i'm not there to give him the rules.

but mostly, it's just common sense stuff that i couldn't list.
"don't play hide and seek in the closets and knock down everything on the shelves", "don't let the cats out", "don't hold the puppy in one hand"

my daughter is very mature for her age- i'm not used to 11 year old hyperactive boys

When you are around this kid again make sure he knows the rules.

Most grown-ups don't have common sense, what makes you think an 11 yr old kid does?

Can I come over and hang out?

 

[fistfullofsteel]

1. i flirt with everybody, AAP testified to that
2. you should sleep with her husband, that will teach her a lesson, take pics and post them on ef
3. everybody is going to throw your present in the garbage a week later so it doesn't matter
4. stop asking me what part of new jersey i'm from, cause you know you want me
5. i bought some pills from a dirty magazine that supposedly adds 2 inches. i'm hoping it was worth the $50

 

[stilleto]

I can relate, I'm really close w/ all of my neighbors. tho I dont have any kids, I've had to get out of some sit. where they were getting a little too close for confort but I like them and want to keep their friendship ; but something was making me uncomfortable.

when I get into situations where I feel uncomfortable with something, I just lie. I know it sounds bad, but a little white lie and some distance between you two for a month or so works. They get the hint, but its not enough for them to feel justified on being ticked off at you.

Tell her that you nor the kids will be there, then every time she calls, dont answer. Just for a couple weeks. That way, you are still close enough to be neighbors, but not close enough for her son to be coming over when you are not there.

Maybe???

well, i COULD say that I think my boys are going to their gf's houses, because that actually does happen. She knows I won't let her son come over if it's just him and my daughter, and if she tries, i think i'm strong enough to say "i'm not comfortable with that".

 

[alien amp pharm]

Don't lie. Confront the problem and solve it like the real man you are.

 

[cindylou]

well, i COULD say that I think my boys are going to their gf's houses, because that actually does happen. She knows I won't let her son come over if it's just him and my daughter, and if she tries, i think i'm strong enough to say "i'm not comfortable with that".

You could say that. If they dont go over there and she finds out, just tell her that plans changed at the last minute. She will feel like a dumbass for even prying into your private info so much too. lol. Win win situation. Then, just dont answer the phone for a couple weeks (still wave if she is outside) and then it should all be ok hopefully. lol.

I've had to do it. My hub has been out of town for a month, and everone I guess feels like I cant make dinner on my own. I lie to get out of lots of stuff because telling the truth (no, I dont want to come over, or no I dont like your crazy ass son at my house when I'm ot there) DOES hurt people's feelings.

Lying keeps friends. lol. The friendish ones anyway. You cant lie to your close friends, but the close ones you would probably tell her that her son is a pain in the ass no?

Oh well, thats just what I'd do. lol.

 

[alien amp pharm]

Women are so shady, as being proven here.

 

[stilleto]

Don't lie. Confront the problem and solve it like the real man you are.

more than you are, nancy.