Tomboys

[hardrock]

Ever dated one? I'm talkin about chicks who have more guy friends than girl friends. Not likr a slutty chick who bangs a bunch of dudes either. just the type that gets along better with men. Purely platonic.

What do you think about dating one? Could you handle it? Would you constantly be wonderng what she's doing? Could you trust her?

 

[Moderate_THIS]

Ever dated one? I'm talkin about chicks who have more guy friends than girl friends. Not likr a slutty chick who bangs a bunch of dudes either. just the type that gets along better with men. Purely platonic.

What do you think about dating one? Could you handle it? Would you constantly be wonderng what she's doing? Could you trust her?

The only chicks I know like this are fag hags, so I needn't worry.

 

[the nature boy]

Ever dated one? I'm talkin about chicks who have more guy friends than girl friends. Not likr a slutty chick who bangs a bunch of dudes either. just the type that gets along better with men. Purely platonic.

a lot of the women I know are like this. women are bitches, that's why many times women will befriend men instead. guys are a little more upfront with stuff.

as for if they are trustworthy, you have to take it on a case by case basis. everyone is different.

 

[Dial_tone]

I am involved in one now. Matter of fact she just spent 2 weeks in Australia with a guy friend, so I guess I can handle it. I have zero doubt nothing happened; I even gave her free reign for the trip. I won't say thoughts never cross my mind, but the bottom line is I trust her to tell me. She hasn't been w/many gusy so I have no doubt that nobody has even remotely come close to hittin like I do. it

 

[ZKaudio]

it sux b/c they have a million guy friends... and they really think all these guy friends are just "friends".... sorry girls. 2/5 are your friends... the other 3 want to bang you and you will never see it until it's too late...once this happens you lose them as a friend.

 

[supersizeme]

i'd say even 3/5 is lowballing it. and the guy friends who don't want to hit are either gay or not attracted to her and thus she's probably attracted to them.

i can't stand dating girls like that. it's nothing but a headache.

 

[hardrock]

it sux b/c they have a million guy friends... and they really think all these guy friends are just "friends".... sorry girls. 2/5 are your friends... the other 3 want to bang you and you will never see it until it's too late...once this happens you lose them as a friend.

Thats exactly the way I see it.

What about them getting drunk together? Would you allow this? How do you tell someone they can't have certain friends? Can you?

 

[PHATchik]

Ever dated one? I'm talkin about chicks who have more guy friends than girl friends. Not likr a slutty chick who bangs a bunch of dudes either. just the type that gets along better with men. Purely platonic.

What do you think about dating one? Could you handle it? Would you constantly be wonderng what she's doing? Could you trust her?

You're describing me right there, but I don't consider myself a tomboy. I'm very girly, but I can get down and yell at a football game with the best of them. Especially when UT is playing like dumb asses.

BTW, Chaos, I'm no fag hag either.

 

[the nature boy]

the way I look at it is, if she's going to fuck around on you, then she's going to fuck around on you. if you keep her isolated and it's in her nature to cheat on you, then eventually she's going to cheat. why prevent it from happening if it's going to happen anyway?

 

[hardrock]

i'd say even 3/5 is lowballing it. and the guy friends who don't want to hit are either gay or not attracted to her and thus she's probably attracted to them.

i can't stand dating girls like that. it's nothing but a headache.

It's like that Seinfield episode. A guy wont be friends with a chick he doesn't wanna bang, unless he's gay.

 

[Moderate_THIS]

BTW, Chaos, I'm no fag hag either.

I'm just referring to the ones I know. Not sure how this applies to bots.

 

[the nature boy]

It's like that Seinfield episode. A guy wont be friends with a chick he doesn't wanna bang, unless he's gay.

I guess I disagree. at some point if I realize I can't get with a pretty woman, and if she's cool, I'll become friends with her. I can never have enough friends IMO. The main perk is that I can hook up with her friends.

you get a girl "friend" to put the good word in for you, you're in dude.

 

[PHATchik]

You shouldn't try to limit her friends. Just as you wouldn't expect her to limit yours. How would you like it if your best friend was female and she said, "Hell no, stay away from her." You gotta have trust in her or the relationship is screwed.

 

[Dial_tone]

It's like that Seinfield episode. A guy wont be friends with a chick he doesn't wanna bang, unless he's gay.

I agree with this 100%; I just don't think the reverse is true. She (meaning the one in my avatar) does have one guy friend who has claimed, several times, he's not the least bit attracted to her yet they do quite a bit together. I don't buy his story a-tall. No straight guy hangs around a girl he thinks is ugly....besides, just look at that ass! LOL

 

[juve]

Unacceptable. These 'tomboys' have more male friends than I do

 

[the nature boy]

I guess I'm talking to myself here. oh well.

 

[PHATchik]

I agree with this 100%; I just don't think the reverse is true. She (meaning the one in my avatar) does have one guy friend who has claimed, several times, he's not the least bit attracted to her yet they do quite a bit together. I don't buy his story a-tall. No straight guy hangs around a girl he thinks is ugly....besides, just look at that ass! LOL

I disagree. My best friend is a guy, and he and I have no interest in each other whatsoever. And he's not gay either.

 

[jenscats5]

Most of the women I know & have known are bitchy & catty.......I'm friends with them for a while but get tired of the BS......it's draining to be friends with people like that.....toxic or whatever......I have a couple of guy friends & I know they are my "true" friends while the women "friends" I have I wouldn't trust as far as I could throw them..........

 

[juve]

I disagree. My best friend is a guy, and he and I have no interest in each other whatsoever. And he's not gay either.

Yes, he's your male girlfriend, afraid to step up - vaginized male
Man and women can't be just friends

 

[Dial_tone]

I can be friends with girls. I have had alot of close female friends, but I would've screwed all of them given the chance. jenscat & phatchik, I'm just tellin y'all straight up.....if we ever become friends offline you need to know I'm thinkin about hittin it with both of y'all. I probably wouldn't try anything (unless alcohol is involved) but I'm thinkin it.


(phatchik, I won't have to be drunk to try gettin your panties off; jenscat is married so she'd have to pass out naked in my room)

 

[PHATchik]

I can be friends with girls. I have had alot of close female friends, but I would've screwed all of them given the chance. jenscat & phatchik, I'm just tellin y'all straight up.....if we ever become friends offline you need to know I'm thinkin about hittin it with both of y'all. I probably wouldn't try anything (unless alcohol is involved) but I'm thinkin it.


(phatchik, I won't have to be drunk to try gettin your panties off; jenscat is married so she'd have to pass out naked in my room)

LOL! Something to remember then.

 

[jh1]

it sux b/c they have a million guy friends... and they really think all these guy friends are just "friends".... sorry girls. 2/5 are your friends... the other 3 want to bang you and you will never see it until it's too late...once this happens you lose them as a friend.

or they fuck them and loose you as a boyfriend....

 

[Sebby]

Never have. If i did, obviously it would depend on the girl. Know her, know what she is like with the guys. If she has had a lot of boyfriends, or if she is real flirty, who knows, that could be trouble. I prefer my internet girlfriends.

 

[hardrock]

Never have. If i did, obviously it would depend on the girl. Know her, know what she is like with the guys. If she has had a lot of boyfriends, or if she is real flirty, who knows, that could be trouble. I prefer my internet girlfriends.

She's not flirty and has had only a few boyfriends. I totally trust her, except when alcohol comes into the picture. Last weekend she was drunk as hell and started flirting with my friend right in front of me. She did't even remember it and felt really bad the next day.

 

[Pamela]

I had 3 older brothers!
I loved being a tomboy!