How many times have you found out about a mans sexual past and actually gave a damn? You and I both know his promiscuity doesnt matter, but just to refute my argument you will sit here and tell me you dont deal with guys like that even though he may be a great guy, attractive, successful, etc. Views about men and womens sexuality will not change and heres why: Men and women dont have the same standards for each other, just to state the other side of the coin, a reasonably attractive woman doesnt have to lift a finger to get laid, while a guy has to take certain steps to get laid. Since the woman has what is in demand and can dole it out whenever she sees fit with no effort, she has the potential of abusing this and thus is subject to names like slut, skank, instead of being selective. Just like guys abuse womens emotions by being assholes or what not, then they too are subject to names.