Tips for Women in Convesation w/Men..

[barnes3]

Just some tips from my personal view about what you should not talk about to a guy and some things that you should not do when talking with them...

1. Do NOT and I say do NOT say how fat you think you are!!
2. Do not be self-centered. ie) When he is talking about something, and you interupt to talk about something about you that has nothing to do with the topic. THis is a no,no. Big Turn-Off.
3. Do not look around the bar/establishment unless you think you can achieve a better man than you are talking to.
4. Exceptions do apply to rule 2&3, which is the guy you are talking to is a loser (in your opinion), or just does not fit your type.

Anybody else want to add to this....

(I am really bored and thought that I would start a thread for kicks...)

barnes3

 

[LeviathanX]

Definitely #1. Don't brag about your looks, but don't spend the entire night complaining how you could lose a few pounds. You're either fishing for compliments, or insecure about yourself - both are turn-offs.

Just be real, and the rest will follow.

 

[barnes3]

to the girls with boyfriends...

Girls, if you have a boyfriend and your friends say something that upsets you, do not hide it from them. Us guys (if you have been with a girl for awhile) notice that shit!

Sorry, just got in an arguement because my girlfriend has been acting shitty all week, and she just now told me why and she thought that she could solve things by herself when it was something that affected both of us. It is kinda like if something effects my girlfriend then it is gonna affect me too, and vise versa. Anyone feel me on this notion??

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[velvett]

I totally agree - great post!

 

[MaGilicuti]

be real talkative and just keep talking all cheery with eye contact. that way i just nod and keep drinking my alcohol or whatever and don't have the problem of thinking up what to say next cus all have to do is smile and nod in agreement

 

[barnes3]

Here is another one...

Do not lie to your friends to make you look good and make us look good.

Example:
Last night my girlfriend drove drunk to my work (a bar) where some of her friends were at. They got really mad at her for driving drunk, so did I, and she said it was my fault that she drove drunk and that I made her drive drunk to the bar when I said no such thing. And I did not pressure her! It's Bullshit!!

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