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badazzwhitedude

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I met this married chick. She is nice looking, in good shape, and she is Hispanic (has an accent and everything). She approached me and all. She is 32, and I am 23. She said she wants to get together from time to time to have some fun. After we initially met, we kept in touch by e-mail, and we were making plans to meet up. I e-mailed her my cell number. Not long after, somehow her husband found the e-mails, and he called me. Of course, he was pissed as hell. But I explained to him that she approached me, and if it weren't me, it would have been someone else, and that she is looking somewhere else to get her satisfaction.

Well that was about 3 weeks ago. All of a sudden, she called me last night, and she apologized for what happened. She said that her marriage is not good, and that after things cool down a little bit, she still wants to get together and have sex. I am dying to do this married chick, as I have never done it before, as well as her being older than me. And she would be a consistant partner too. And you guys know how it is: Hispanic with a nice accent, good looking, long dark hair, nice smile, olive skin. Just great. I want to see what you guys have to say about this, and what you would do.

I posted this here on the chat board (for ALL non-body-building talk) as this is not a raunchy thread, and many more people will see this thread here. Thanks for any advice.
 
Wow, I say Wow because I have been in this situation before, I didnt go through with it for the following reasons:
1. Its actually against my faith.
2. I put myself in her husbands place and would not want someone to do that to my wife if I had one, its all about respect.
3. I would think when I was finished and my Nut was over I would feel quite shitty.

I say don't do it but the addiction of sex is no fucking joke whatsoever, now I have cheated on my girlie before but I am not married , I'm no saint, thats for sure, however I would just attempt to find a woman that isnt married, I understand the older, more mature, accent thing is an interesting and luring aspect. If anything don't bang her, 69, do oral, all of that but dont stick your dick in. peace
 
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I don't know man I am 20 I would probally do it because I am young and stupid. Just remember what would you do if you caught a guy throwing the high hard one 2 your old lady?? Just don't want 2 hear about ya getting your ass shot up just because of a potential piece of ass. I don't know man its your decision but when you play with fire you are bound to get burned.

Drizz
 
Totally agree with havoc about this one.
 
My advice would be to stay away from her, it is the most horrible feeling in the world to be cheated on.
Every marriage has it's problems, if she can't handle being married then she needs to get a divorce.
Would it be worth it for you to get in the middle of their problems and give her husband a reason to come looking for you?

Trust me a gun will bring any man down to size and sometimes people do things out of and act of rage and then it's too late the damage is done.

I am telling you something from my own experience,so if you want good advice stay away from her.
And if you want to DO HER just because she is married, then i hope her husband finds your punk ass.
 
dude bang the crap out of her for at least6 hours. if you want to make sure she will be a consistent lay then your first time with here will have to blow her mind.:D I would jump all over an offer like that. :D
 
You know that she is frustrated and that she wants it.... So give it to her then run from the husband cause you might as well get another workout...

"Anytime that you pass up sex you are cheating on yourself"
 
Any time you get involved with someone who is already in another relationship, you are telling teh Universe that you don't respect the bonds of a relationship. Therefore the Universe feels free to throw you a partner who will not be faithful to you.
IMHO.
 
Agree with Havoc, if I caught em in the act, there would eb a crime of passion to report. No joke!
 
Tell her husband that she wants to have sex with you and ask him if you can bring popcorn to watch him beat her.

No joke - bitch deserves it. I have no respect for such whores.

-Warik
 
trust me.....

he'll find out about it one day, and she'll drop you right in it, he'll need to kick someones ass and she'd know it and say 'u seduced her' blah blah blah.....

fuck it...seriously not worth it :rolleyes:
 
What comes around, goes around.

Listen to Havoc.

That would a terribly stupid idea. I'm 24. I know how you feel, what you want, etc... but that's fucked up. Plain and simple. There are plenty of single ho's that have the same qualities as the married one you described. Find one, or a couple of 'em. But, avoid the married shit. Trouble, trouble, trouble.
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Hey dude, Im not saying that this chick doesn't really want you or anything, but ALOT of women who cheat are looking for ways to get their partners attention. My ex used to be that way. When the relationship slowed down, and I didn't drool every time she entered the room, she started to try to look to make me jealous by doing this or that. When you respond to those types of things with jealousy, that would reinforce to her that I still cared. Now lets just say in your case that this chicks hubby isn't the kind of guy who gets jealous easily, and thats why she has had to take it to the extreme of actually fucking you to get his goat........Dont you think that if she is looking to make him jealous that she will tell him she is fucking you in a heartbeat? I know you feel like the stud & all now, but consider for just a minute that she is using you as a pawn to extract some sort of "caring response" out of her hubby without the slightest concern for how it may affect your life. I mean maybe you dont care(some guys wouldn't), but is it worth the shit thats gonna come your way to get some guy you dont even know jealous???
 
Married women = trouble

Pissed off, jealous husband = bigger trouble


Put yourself in his place. If I were him, I would have shot your ass by now........

Happens everyday, my man...........
 
MommaKin said:
Married women can only bring trouble.
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ALL women are an unbelievable amount of trouble. That is from personal experience.

For right now, I really feel like I have no respect for any kind of relationship. I feel I have not been treated with respect, so how can I treat others the same way?

I am leaning towards going for it though. I am so sick of lying bitches, I am out to get mine, and love the idea of just having sex and getting attention with no strings attatched.

I did want to see what some of you would do though, out of curiosity. I don't know. I will see what happens...
 
I have a much younger friend of mine who is in some relationship problems that started with just having sex with the girl. Now he is kind of caught in a relationship that is difficult. He told me that in his teens he thought having sex was everything and he would have hitch hiked across country and slept in a ditch to get laid. Now he would not be so over anxious.

He is 25 and I am 40 (almost). I told him that when I first got married 12 years ago I was with my wife usually several times a day, and now if I am watching re-runs of Bugs Bunny cartoons and she stands naked in front of the TV I would ask her to move. Sex, although always fun, at some point no longer is the only reason for living.

Right now just having sex has to be an exceptionally powerful drive for you, especially if it would be a first. But at some point it will take its proper perspective - and you will continue to find time for sex - in between commercials....LOL

I say, resist this temptation. I had a remarkably similar experience a few months back. Married hispanic girl came in the office, we were caught alone, she grabbed my hand and started carressing it, she said she wanted to kiss me. My wife and I have been married 12 years and I have never even kissed another woman, but I almost did this one. She was hot, it seemed VERY exiting - kind of the exitement I remember when I was young. But in my mind I knew however exiting it seems now, it will be essentially the same as every other sex. What makes it exiting is in your head. I knew that at some point I would be facing a lawsuit, an angry husband, my own divorce, huge expenses, and who knows what else. So I wisely refrained. For a few days I sort of kicked my self for not 'going for it", but now I am sooooo glad I did not.

Your first time will be exiting no matter what. Wait for something safer. Or as mentioned above , let her swallow the evidence. Do not have intercourse. If she is angry at her husband, getting pregant (with YOUR baby, traceable by DNA) would be the perfect thing to throw in her husbands face. Don't let her do it. If you can't resist, feed this hispanic chick the burrito and let it go. But I gaurantee you, she won't let you walk away easy once you have any form of sex. Girls are needy people and estrogen makes EVERYONE crazy. I do not believe in roid rage, I truly think it is the estrogen that aromatizes from the testo that causes problems. Estrogen is insanity in a bottle.

My number one choice for you is walk away, take it as a compliment that someone finds you attractive, let it build your ego ................
 
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WA by your own admission the excitement of sex is 'all in your mind' so why don't you take responsibility for creating a more exciting sex life within your marriage???

Then you won't have to be so stoic when attractive young women try to kiss you. You won't be so tempted if your sex life at home is more fulfilling...not being a guy I daren't say you won't be tempted at all but it surely would have to help...

love
Helen
 
I agree w/ Havoc on all 3 aspects, and I'm one horny motherfucker. Wouldn't want my girl cheating on me, so I wouldn't tag some other guy's girl.
 
How do you know my home sex life is NOT exiting?

My wife is a great cook, but if I am in a 7-eleven, I still sometimes want a candy bar. just because you are getting satisfied one place does not mean your will never have an appetite elsewhere. I think every man, even if he was banging someone like Jennifer Lopez would still occassionally notice some other woman.

I think the fact that I have been married 12 years without straying at all says something. I doubt you have been married as long.

This guy asked strangers advice and I gave it. The ironic thing is just before you offered your advice to me - I thought to myself "I don't give a damn about HelenSL's opinion, I hope she keeps her big yap shut". Isn't that a coincidence? You offer your advice to me, uninvited, and I think you ought to shut up.


LOL
 
If you are looking for trouble then go for it.
Because that is all you will get.

I met this woman this past spring, at first she was divorced,
then she said she was getting divorced, then she admitted
that she was looking for some fun on the side.
That was when I left the scene.

Put yourself in her husband's place, what would you do to
the guy screwing your wife on the side, for just fun, no
emotional feelings at all.

I know what I would do, and I'm not a violent person.
 
Wow!!! and I say wow cause I am totally amazed with your responses... Don't do it man, just listen to all the trouble some people went thru here. Temptation will kill you, specially beeing a " mami latina", but you'll get over it, or under it who knows!!!
 
Don't do it. The thing is that she's got issues that she doesn't want to deal w/. Shame on her for trying to get someone else involved before she either commits to or terminates her situation w/ the husband. She will dump on you all her frustrations about her husband and never deal w/ them.

I had a friend who did this -- when they got caught and he broke it off w/ the girl the girl got all "fatal attraction" on him and then the husband started calling him too. Shit. It took him 6 months and some help from one of his state trooper buddies to get these two sorry ass people away from him.

Just don't do it. There's more to than just sex.
 
My friend you say that you are sick of lying bitches, what has she been doing to her husband. How many other guys just liked you has she fucked in the last few weeks. I would stay clear of this one, she can only bring you problems. She could even get you killed. Women like this are real bad karma.:confused:
 
Don't tell her husband

Warik said:
Tell her husband that she wants to have sex with you and ask him if you can bring popcorn to watch him beat her.

No joke - bitch deserves it. I have no respect for such whores.

-Warik
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You could say no to her and that's it. Why interfere by telling the husband and make him unhappy. Don't make things worse
Is it so hard to say no, i am not interested in married women?
 
don't do it

all feelings of the husband aside,(we know it's a shitty thing to do to him even if they are having problems) it's not a good move for YOU. if she's cheating on him then what would EVER make you think she would be faithful to you. not to mention the fact that she could be messing around with other guys already and there's the risk of STD's. have enough respect for yourself to resist the temptation. keep yourself out of danger of any diseases, unwanted pregnancies, or jealous husbands.

there's a million women out there with spanish accents bud.
 
Woody Allen said:
How do you know my home sex life is NOT exiting?

You said if your wife stood naked in front of the TV you'd ask her to move out the way...you said it...:rolleyes:

Why don't you look up how to spell "exciting" in a dictionary??? Oh I just told you...never mind...or did you really mean exiting as in 'leaving'? :rolleyes:

My wife is a great cook, but if I am in a 7-eleven, I still sometimes want a candy bar. just because you are getting satisfied one place does not mean your will never have an appetite elsewhere. I think every man, even if he was banging someone like Jennifer Lopez would still occassionally notice some other woman.

Well I have a pretty good picture of you now, but I'm not nearly as ready as you to infer from that what every other man is like.

I think the fact that I have been married 12 years without straying at all says something. I doubt you have been married as long.

14 years as of a couple of weeks ago actually. So much for YOUR intuition, sir...

This guy asked strangers advice and I gave it. The ironic thing is just before you offered your advice to me - I thought to myself "I don't give a damn about HelenSL's opinion, I hope she keeps her big yap shut". Isn't that a coincidence?

No not really.

You offer your advice to me, uninvited, and I think you ought to shut up.

Gee thanks so much for sharing...:rolleyes:
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Jeff it doesn't seem to be true of the one who started this thread that he's not interested in married women. Are you suggesting he lie to get her off his back? (I mean, it could work...was that what you meant?)

love
Helen
 
fuck her in the ass!!

j/k

Married not a good thing. Just let her be. Don't let the little head control your life. Have some morals.
 
all i can say is, if it were my wife, you and her would be in a shallow grave somewhere. have you no morals? are you that desperate and weak minded that you have to sleep with someone elses wife? fucking pathetic.
 
Woody Allen said:
I have a much younger friend of mine who is in some relationship problems that started with just having sex with the girl. Now he is kind of caught in a relationship that is difficult. He told me that in his teens he thought having sex was everything and he would have hitch hiked across country and slept in a ditch to get laid. Now he would not be so over anxious.

He is 25 and I am 40 (almost). I told him that when I first got married 12 years ago I was with my wife usually several times a day, and now if I am watching re-runs of Bugs Bunny cartoons and she stands naked in front of the TV I would ask her to move. Sex, although always fun, at some point no longer is the only reason for living.

Right now just having sex has to be an exceptionally powerful drive for you, especially if it would be a first. But at some point it will take its proper perspective - and you will continue to find time for sex - in between commercials....LOL

I say, resist this temptation. I had a remarkably similar experience a few months back. Married hispanic girl came in the office, we were caught alone, she grabbed my hand and started carressing it, she said she wanted to kiss me. My wife and I have been married 12 years and I have never even kissed another woman, but I almost did this one. She was hot, it seemed VERY exiting - kind of the exitement I remember when I was young. But in my mind I knew however exiting it seems now, it will be essentially the same as every other sex. What makes it exiting is in your head. I knew that at some point I would be facing a lawsuit, an angry husband, my own divorce, huge expenses, and who knows what else. So I wisely refrained. For a few days I sort of kicked my self for not 'going for it", but now I am sooooo glad I did not.

Your first time will be exiting no matter what. Wait for something safer. Or as mentioned above , let her swallow the evidence. Do not have intercourse. If she is angry at her husband, getting pregant (with YOUR baby, traceable by DNA) would be the perfect thing to throw in her husbands face. Don't let her do it. If you can't resist, feed this hispanic chick the burrito and let it go. But I gaurantee you, she won't let you walk away easy once you have any form of sex. Girls are needy people and estrogen makes EVERYONE crazy. I do not believe in roid rage, I truly think it is the estrogen that aromatizes from the testo that causes problems. Estrogen is insanity in a bottle.

My number one choice for you is walk away, take it as a compliment that someone finds you attractive, let it build your ego ................
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Dude, it would be my first time with a married chick, not my first time having sex. Good god...:rolleyes:
 
havoc said:
If anything don't bang her, 69, do oral, all of that but dont stick your dick in. peace
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Wait a minute. So fucking is out but having her suck your cock doesn't constitute cheating?

Let's look at this again. Your girl sucks some guy off and gets a mouth/eye/nose/cleavage/etc.... full of goo and that is ok?

What is the line for cheating? Kissing? Petting? Grinding on the leg? Dry humping?
 
rushx79 said:
all i can say is, if it were my wife, you and her would be in a shallow grave somewhere. have you no morals? are you that desperate and weak minded that you have to sleep with someone elses wife? fucking pathetic.
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Morals? That is such a quiant word. But I think it is also outdated and old-fashioned.

Don't get me wrong. People that I genuinely care for (very good friends, or my last girl, who ended up doing me wrong), I will do anything I humanly can to help them out. But people are no longer genuine or whole. People just don't give a shit about anyone else anymore. And because of some things that I have experienced in my relatively short life, I have changed. I never would have thought about doing anything like this before. But when people fuck over other people enough, it can make them cold-hearted bastards, which is what is happening to me. I am getting to where I just don't give a fuck. That's the bottom line.

I haven't made up my mind yet, anyway. I am still thinking about it. But I assure you that if I don't do it, it's not because I don't want to hurt her husband.
 
badazzwhitedude said:


Morals? That is such a quiant word. But I think it is also outdated and old-fashioned.

Don't get me wrong. People that I genuinely care for (very good friends, or my last girl, who ended up doing me wrong), I will do anything I humanly can to help them out. But people are no longer genuine or whole. People just don't give a shit about anyone else anymore. And because of some things that I have experienced in my relatively short life, I have changed. I never would have thought about doing anything like this before. But when people fuck over other people enough, it can make them cold-hearted bastards, which is what is happening to me. I am getting to where I just don't give a fuck. That's the bottom line.

I haven't made up my mind yet, anyway. I am still thinking about it. But I assure you that if I don't do it, it's not because I don't want to hurt her husband.
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Pretty soon you'll qualify to be a terrorist-hijacker, by the sounds of it...:rolleyes: I'm sure they care for 'their own' as well as hating a bunch of other people...
 
kharma applies to everyone you know and dont :D
 
HelenSL said:


Pretty soon you'll qualify to be a terrorist-hijacker, by the sounds of it...:rolleyes: I'm sure they care for 'their own' as well as hating a bunch of other people...
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I agree with you on one thing WoodyAllen.

If there was one person I could keep out of just this particular thread....:think:
 
Woody Allen said:

This guy asked strangers advice and I gave it. The ironic thing is just before you offered your advice to me - I thought to myself "I don't give a damn about HelenSL's opinion, I hope she keeps her big yap shut". Isn't that a coincidence? You offer your advice to me, uninvited, and I think you ought to shut up.


LOL
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This is what I was talking about...
 
She's a whore. There's no reason for cheating. Leave the fucker if it's bad but I know it's easier said than done. Regardless I would run and never look back. Let it be, ok maybe a blow or a lick here and there.
 
Yeah, right, like a gun will help (some people are soooo stupid)

First of all the dude knows you, has e-mail, and confronted you. A bullet in your head worth some tired ass 32 year old pussy? You think this fucker hasen't followed you and knows your crib? Yeah get a gun, when your sitting in your car or coming out of the gym, will do you good when he sneaks up and puts a cap in your ass. It is nothing but trouble, that and BAD NEWS. Unless you like that type of "High" go for it. But I wouldn't NO pussy is worth being dead for......
 
You are grown and will do as you please. HOWEVER, remember that there just may be SERIOUS RAMMIFICATIONS for your behaviour.

I am not going to go the whole "morality route". But let me give you just a few things to think about:

She did NOT say that she was in a failing marriage and getting divorced (which could be a lie anyway). She said that she was not so happy and would like to fuck you when things cooled down between her and husband. In other words: YOU ARE JUST A PIECE. Which could quite possibly mean that there are OTHER PIECES. And if you are not going to become a piece, then SURELY, THERE WILL BE ANOTHER - PERIOD - END OF STORY.

Now if that sits well with you, go to town.

Me, personally, I consider myself MUCH MORE THAN JUST A PIECE.

.....also the fact that her husband will probably cut you into ribbons if he ever gets a hold of you. Do you honestly believe that she gives A SHIT ABOUT YOUR PHYSICAL WELL-BEING and isn't just USING YOU to PISS HIM OFF?!

....just my .02
 
rudedawg said:


Wait a minute. So fucking is out but having her suck your cock doesn't constitute cheating?

Let's look at this again. Your girl sucks some guy off and gets a mouth/eye/nose/cleavage/etc.... full of goo and that is ok?

What is the line for cheating? Kissing? Petting? Grinding on the leg? Dry humping?
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Welcome to the Clinton era
 
Helen:

Sorry about mispelling ecxiting. I do not spell check or proofread my posts here because they are not that important to me. Its like idle chit chat so I do not put my best into them. If someone has the time to pour alot of energy into them (such as yourself) then more power to you.

If your husband has not looked at another woman in 14 years, what the hell is wrong with him...... I mean if you are the ugly chick holding the kids in the photo. Every guy (every normal guy) looks at other girls. You see guys like Hugh Grant who is engaged to Elizabeth Hurley (Maybelline model) and gets caught with some black prostitute. Every guy looks, although some guys (like myself) do not act on it.

I have some friends who are married. I have known her for about 16 years and him for about 15. They had been married 10 years when he announced that he had a secret gay life and had anonymous liasons (you can spell check that word for me since the posts here are so important to you) with over a hundred guys. His wife always thought he was so virtuous since he never looked at another woman. maybe your husband of 14 years, whom you imply does not look at another woman because he finds you so attractivce is really gay.
 
Helen:

The idea that I would shoo my wife out of the way of the television if she was standing there naked was a humorous attempt to get the idea across that at some point in life, all people realize that sex with strangers is not the summum bonum (i.e. primary reason for existence. Also see Raison D'etre - you might need to spell check this, but you have plenty of time and are a needy person spending alot of time here seeking validation from bulltein board friends). It is humor based on exaggeration. If you get a World Book Encyclopedia or other child text book and look up humor, you might grasp the wimsy of it. But that is the reason I put "LOL" by the comment - so even the dumb and ugly would perhaps get it.
 
Re: Don't tell her husband

Jeff_rys said:


You could say no to her and that's it. Why interfere by telling the husband and make him unhappy. Don't make things worse
Is it so hard to say no, i am not interested in married women?
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He has the right to know that he married a trashy whore.

-Warik
 
Woody Allen

Are you thinking you can insult me out of here? :D It didn't work for anyone else who tried...or were they all you anyway, but different usernames? ;)

That's hilarious that you think my husband is gay.

Maybe he's just...normal??? :rolleyes:

love
Helen
 
I know about 5 minutes ago helen had some picture of her kids, hre husband and herself on her post. What the heck happened to it?
 
yeah...pffff.... its normal to be married to an ugly chick and not look at other women.

I use to come here a year or so ago using another name, but closed the account. I recently signed up again so I could respond to a post about calcium-d-glucurate.

I am not trying to insult you out of here. I come here so rarely I could hardly care less. I do find some sick fun in insulting you though, so I really don't want you to leave....then I could not continue to insult you.
 
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Woody Allen said:
yeah...pffff.... its normal to be married to an ugly chick and not look at other women.

I use to come here a year or so using another name, but closed the account. I recently signed up again so I could respond to a post about calcium-d-glucurate.

I am not trying to insult you out of here. I come here so rarely I could hardly care less. I do find some sick fun in insulting you though, so I really don't want you to leave....then I could not continue to insult you.
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Well, exactly. :D

love
Helen
 
That is so funny that alot of people apparently come here and insult you helen. that speaks volumes. As well as the fact you keep coming back for more. N-E-E-D-Y. V-A-L-I-D-A-T-E M-E

I hardly come here. This is probably the third time this year, and I probably have posted 14 posts just today. But the fact you state that there is alot of people insulting you is funny.
 
Woody Allen said:
That is so funny that alot of people apparently come here and insult you helen. that speaks volumes. As well as the fact you keep coming back for more. N-E-E-D-Y. V-A-L-I-D-A-T-E M-E

I hardly come here. This is probably the third time this year, and I probably have posted 14 posts just today. But the fact you state that there is alot of people insulting you is funny.
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Well if you say so Woody :)

They might all be the same person except you though...I can't be sure there are 'a lot' really. I mean, this IS the Internet :)

So are you "Mr No Needs" then? :D

love
Helen
 
What goes around comes around. Be prepared for that when you get married. I'm realy saddened by the measures people will stoop to to get laid.
 
Well Helen, I am going to concede this to you. You do seem to stay bouyant even when you get insulted. Also your kids look happy in the family photo - good for you as their mother.

Adios on this thread
 
badazzwhitedude said:


Morals? That is such a quiant word. But I think it is also outdated and old-fashioned.

Don't get me wrong. People that I genuinely care for (very good friends, or my last girl, who ended up doing me wrong), I will do anything I humanly can to help them out. But people are no longer genuine or whole. People just don't give a shit about anyone else anymore. And because of some things that I have experienced in my relatively short life, I have changed. I never would have thought about doing anything like this before. But when people fuck over other people enough, it can make them cold-hearted bastards, which is what is happening to me. I am getting to where I just don't give a fuck. That's the bottom line.

I haven't made up my mind yet, anyway. I am still thinking about it. But I assure you that if I don't do it, it's not because I don't want to hurt her husband.
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morals outdated? because some girl fucked your weak little heart over, you see the need to not give a shit about other peoples feelings? what you think the world should be nice to you all the time? like i said, FUCKING PATHETIC. grow some balls, learn about honor and morals, and quit acting desperate.
 
rushx79 said:



morals outdated? because some girl fucked your weak little heart over, you see the need to not give a shit about other peoples feelings? what you think the world should be nice to you all the time? like i said, FUCKING PATHETIC. grow some balls, learn about honor and morals, and quit acting desperate.
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Rush, you have no place to say anything like that. It is quite presumptuous to say something like you know it as fact, when, in fact, you know dick about me. I mentioned just one small episode in my life, and have had other people do me wrong, as well as people cheat my father, cheat my mother as a widow after my father passed away, among many other things. How is that for morals? Moreover, how do you feel about what you posted now, you arrogant fuck? I simply asked for opinions and insight, and what people would do if they were in my shoes. I didn't come here for smart-ass know-it-alls like you to give their .02.

I appreciate everyone else's thoughts though.
 
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badazzwhitedude said:


Rush, you have no place to say anything like that. It is quite presumptuous to say something like you know it as fact, when, in fact, you know dick about me. I mentioned just one small episode in my life, and have had other people do me wrong, as well as people cheat my father, cheat my mother as a widow after my father passed away, among many other things. How is that for morals? Moreover, how do you feel about what you posted now, you arrogant fuck? I simply asked for opinions and insight, and what people would do if they were in my shoes. I didn't come here for smart-ass know-it-alls like you to give their .02.

I appreciate everyone else's thoughts though.
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it doesnt take a smart-ass-know-it-all like me to realize that sleeping with a married woman is something you shouldnt do and then have the strength of mind to not do it. fucking pathetic.
 
rushx79 said:


it doesnt take a smart-ass-know-it-all like me to realize that sleeping with a married woman is something you shouldnt do and then have the strength of mind to not do it. fucking pathetic.
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No, but it takes a smart-ass-know-it-all to imply that I am doing this just because some girl "fucked my weak little heart over." It goes much further than that. I realize that this would not be morally correct. But the harsh reality is this: where are morals today? Who has them, really? Who wouldn't slit your throat for a nickel if they had the chance and absolutely knew they could get away with it? Probably 95% of anyone you would meet on the street. Welcome to the real world.

Besides, I have not yet decided if I am going to go through with this or not. I am simply contemplating it. If you are going to put in your .02 next time, I suggest you use a wiser choice of words and not be so presumptuous, jumping to conclusions.

If you are a genuine person, then I applaud you. But if you don't think that what I have just said really and honestly describes the real world, then you are decieving yourself and living a fantasy. Now THAT, is "fucking pathetic."
 
Helen quote you:

"Jeff it doesn't seem to be true of the one who started this thread that he's not interested in married women. Are you suggesting he lie to get her off his back? (I mean, it could work...was that what you meant?) "

Well as i see it, it is up to him. He should make up his mind what he wants. Anyway if she wants him, and he says no, then it will be someone else.
You know the saying: "what you don't find at home, you will find somewhere else".

I don't think Badazz only wants married women. Sometimes it is hard for a man to say no to a woman, certainly when she is a knock out. Bottom line is : it isn't his problem, her being married.
 
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Warik said:


He has the right to know that he married a trashy whore.

-Warik
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Look Warik life is not that simple.
I am not addressing this to you personally, but i feel that in situations like this, younger people should have no say over it.
And it is not because she is married, that she is trash.
 
YOU HAVENT EVEN VIOLATED THIS CHICK YET AND HER HUSBAND IS CALLING YOU!!!

DUDE, SAVE YOURSELF THE HEADACHES AND LEAVE HER ALONE!!!


KAYNE
 
likewise Jeff :)

Jeff_rys said:
Well as i see it, it is up to him. He should make up his mind what he wants.

Hi Jeff :)

That makes a lot of sense to me.

I hope that he takes all the warnings on this thread into consideration in making his decision. People are serious in making them, as best I can tell, and they seem wise, to me.

I don't think Badazz only wants married women. Sometimes it is hard for a man to say no to a woman, certainly when she is a knock out. Bottom line is : it isn't his problem, her being married.

Do you mean:

a) Her being married and looking for sex outside her marriage is her problem not his (and therefore her husband ought to focus his attention on her not her lovers that she seduces)
-- or --
b) He has a problem and it is not that the woman he wants is married
-- or --
c) none of the above/all of the above/some of the above/something else entirely? :)

Call me stupid if you like but I really didn't understand what you meant by your 'bottom line' and since it's the 'bottom line' I would like to know...:) (if you would be so kind as to say more about it...)

love
Helen
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Hey, bigman. Just found this thread as I wasn't at work much this week.

It looks like you got some temptation of your own. She sounds great. Beautiful, dark, and she wants to be with you in the most personal of ways. Sounds like something to jump at. I mean why not? What could possibly happen? Regret? Resentment? What happens if you end up really caring for her, and she won't leave her husband? Then what?

I know you got your ass kicked before, man. You and I are in similar boats on this one.

I personally think if you have the testicular fortitude to walk away from a gal that was very important to you, then you can handle anything.

Now I agree that people don't much give a damn about anyone anymore. But you yourself said you hate that, right? Why are women the way they are? Why do they need attention from other people? If you have that type of mindset... then how could you join that side of things?

What if you slept with her, then found out she was MY gal? And I posted saying she told me she slept with someone else? Would you feel bad then?

You've been very supportive with me through my whole ordeal. You really seem to understand my situation. I really don't want to see you do something you'll regret. I also don't want to see you join that side of the population. From telling me it has to be heartbreaking for my gal to treat me like that, yet destroy another guy by doing something worse than my gal is doing to me.... it's self-contradiction.

If she's going to leave her husband... wait until she or he moves out, and the divorce process is started. If not... you're just asking for a shitty situation.

I appreciate all your help and support, my friend. But don't be that guy. Don't be the guy that I fear. Don't be the guy that doesn't care. Whatever you do is your choice... I just hope you make the right one.
 
I see it like this Helen

She is the one wanting him and she is the one married.
If he should go for it, is up to him. Sometimes it can be very hard to say no even to a married woman.
Obviously she needs something more then just being married.
That does not mean she does not love her husband.
Now saying he should refuse is easy for us, we are not involved.
It is really not his problem, it will become his problem when the husband finds out afterwarts and cannot handle it. By that i mean, we don't know if it is her first time and we don't know if the husband knows all she does and has been doing. Afterall, the husband found the emails too easy. Also they already did come together doing what?
 
fair enough

thanks for explaining more Jeff. You are right. There is a lot we don't know. I hope, as I said, that the initiator of this thread will be able to make a more informed decision now. It certainly is his to make and not anyone else's.

Woody thanks and peace to you sir :)

love
Helen
 
You make a good point Big Bro'. Like I said before, I always go out of my way big time for my good friends, and would never do anything like that. But when you are in a bad situation, and feel down, and shit happens time and again, it really gets to you man. I know it's kind of like quick fix, and that morally it's not correct.

I know I said I hate it the way women are and stuff in your thread. Playing games and whatnot. But if you are the nice guy, like I have been for the last while, you just lose man. I remember you said you have only been with 2 girls the past several years, as you stayed with each for quite some time. Man, I have dated several girls, and since I have been the nice guy, at least towards my girl (but I tend to have a fairly tough rep overall with a lot of people), you just lose. That's why "joining the ranks" of other people, so to speak.

Even Jeff Rys said it can be hard to say no, and it is. Especaily that I am a young guy (23), she is 32, which I would love to have her show me a few things. On top of that she is quite nice looking to boot. I have had sexual freinds before, and that is what I really feel like I need right now. I wish she wasn't a married chick, but that's how it worked out for me.

I wouldn't allow myself to develop any feeling for her. She is married, and I want someone around my age. You just have to "close your heart" to someone it isn't going to work out with long-term. Like I said, I have had a couple of sexual friends before, and it is a good find to have such a thing if you are single.

I have some time to think about it. I may end up feeling the urge and in need of some attention and go ahead and do it. But then again, I may just walk away from it. I will see how I feel and how things go in the next little while.
 
I hear you, man. Hopefully I didn't come accross as insulting or anything. And I totally agree with you and Jeff... it's ONE HELL of a temptation. Who wouldn't be tempted by it? ESPECIALLY when you're feeling down like you are.

I get tempted to get attention also. You know how I feel. I sometimes want so bad to feel appreciated. That's why I almost hit up the blond and her friend. Not because I cared for them... but because I wanted so bad to be appreciated... even if just in a physical way. So hell yeah... I'd be tempted too.

But I'm also tempted to rob a bank when my financial difficulties get really bad. I actually sometimes think of ways to get away with it. Not to be evil. Not to start a life of crime. But because it would help. But I don't because it's wrong... and I could go to prison. Good reasons not to do it.

And it sucks that nice guys finish last. Being nice and caring usually gets you stepped on, and wondering how the other person could care so little.

I'm sure the sex would be great. The attention would be great. Feeling good knowing that even though she has a man... she still wants you. It's a difficult internal conflict.

But in my opinion, unless the man is your enemy, you HAVE to consider him. Imagine what it would do to you if it was your wife. I know deep down you don't want to damage anyone. But you also don't want to be damaged. It's hard.
 
man are you people that inconsiderate?

don't bust up her marriage for nookie... the fuck is wrong with you?
 
Big Brother Val said:
Don't be the guy that I fear. Don't be the guy that doesn't care. Whatever you do is your choice... I just hope you make the right one.
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I think that sums it up really well...if the husband was your friend and you know he wanted his marriage to work, would you have sex with his wife? (By any definition, not just the Clinton one :rolleyes: )

Or even if you didn't know?

*sigh*

I'd say please don't get involved sexually with anyone whose heart is less shut up than yours because you will really hurt them.

Even if you've been hurt by others whose hearts were more shut up than yours...that still doesn't make it ok to do it to an innocent person who had nothing to do with your past hurts...

love
Helen
 
Re: I see it like this Helen

Jeff_rys said:
She is the one wanting him and she is the one married.
If he should go for it, is up to him. Sometimes it can be very hard to say no even to a married woman.
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This is very true man. She hit on me initially. After a short time of us keeping in touch, her husband called me. Then I thought, "Oh well. That's the end of that." But then she called me back again the other night. She is persuing me big time. She wants it, is persuing me, and is quite nice-looking. It is very hard, to resist such a temptation, especially when she seems to be so nice, wants me in that way, and her marriage is not good. For all I know, she may be planning on getting divorced. I haven't dicussed that with her yet. It's very hard indeed.
 
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badazzwhitedude said:


This is very true man. She hit on me initially. After a short time of us keeping in touch, her husband called me. Then I thought, "Oh well. That's the end of that." But then she called me back again the other night. She is persuing me big time. She wants it, is persuing me, and is quite nice-looking. It is very hard, to resist such a temptation, especially when she seems to be so nice, wants me in that way, and her marriage is not good. For all I know, she may be planning on getting divorced. I haven't dicussed that with her yet. It's very hard indeed.
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If it's that hard maybe it's already too late for you heart-wise.

If it's not a heart-thing how come you can't take care of it otherwise than being with her...?! There are other ways if you just want an orgasm :rolleyes:

Why does it have to be HER in other words???

I'm just asking...and the reason I'm asking is that if you've created some dream around her, then having sex with her isn't going to fulfill it...and if your getting attached to her emotionally then the more contact you have the worse it will get...AND NO COMMITMENT FROM HER...

I'd be very careful about assuming you could get her to leave her husband...

Oh and if she's cheating on him, then she won't stop cheating just because she's with you...even if you DO get her in the end...don't kid yourself about that...she'd have to change.

It could be you down the road that she's cheating on...how would you feel about that...?

I'm concerned that mentally you've got some dreams about her that aren't much like the reality :( and you ARE going to get really hurt if that's true...

love
Helen
 
Helen, I am not persuing a relationship with this woman. I just want my own nice girl, really. But I cannot stand females many times. Most are the devil's right hand. They are crazy. And besides, I want a female around my age. She is 9 years older than me. This would only be for some attention and sexual gratification.
 
I think you should just load up about 6 sustanons and bang her pussy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! The sun will still come up the next day, and you will still be in the same situation.........you get your piece and she gets hers!
 
badazzwhitedude said:
Helen, I am not persuing a relationship with this woman. I just want my own nice girl, really. But I cannot stand females many times. Most are the devil's right hand. They are crazy. And besides, I want a female around my age. She is 9 years older than me. This would only be for some attention and sexual gratification.
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Well, no offense but the situation seems rather ironic to me because evidently both of you have your own reasons for wanting to come together that aren't especially to do with the other person.

If physical intimacy DOES kinda bond people then you might both be in for a bit of a shock, perhaps - I mean, you might both get more than you bargained for, planned for.

Don't you have any dreams of someone to LOVE you??? That seems kinda weird to me. Or are you saying you've given up on that and this is the best you'll get -- for now at least -- so, may as well have a few orgasms care of some attractive hispanic woman since she is offering them to you???

It all sounds horribly unsatisfying to me...:confused:

love
Helen
 
HelenSL said:

Don't you have any dreams of someone to LOVE you??? That seems kinda weird to me. Or are you saying you've given up on that and this is the best you'll get -- for now at least -- so, may as well have a few orgasms care of some attractive hispanic woman since she is offering them to you???

It all sounds horribly unsatisfying to me...:confused:

love
Helen
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Absolutely. But like I said, most women are the devil's right hand. And that is the best I feel I will get for right now, at least 'till I get to the age when perhaps a few more women actually have a brain: late 20's, early 30's.

It's not what I really want. Some people would think this is great and they live for this shit. Not me, but it's better than nothing.
 
CN1 said:
I think you should just load up about 6 sustanons and bang her pussy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! The sun will still come up the next day, and you will still be in the same situation.........you get your piece and she gets hers!
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I am currently on Test/EQ. ;)

By the way, Helen. I am curious. How do you feel about the use of anabolic steroids? Do you think it is wrong just because the government says so? Or do you belive it is better to able to make your own EDUCATED decisions on such matters? I know this is off topic, but I am just curious.
 
This really sucks, man. You have all these reasons to go after it... and a lot of reasons not to.

As you say... it's not really your thing... but it's helping you to feel good at least in SOME way. And that's better than feeling all around shitty.

The equation would be simple if she wasn't married.

I just can't respect a gal who would do that to her husband.... and I can't sleep with a gal I don't respect. If she had it so bad... she'd leave him. So it can't be THAT bad. She just may need some release. Get some nudie videos, whack it... and see what you think for the first half hour afterwards, when you aren't needing the attention.

If your interest is purely the sex, then I'm sure all parties involved would end up being hurt in one way or another. And I can't imagine sex being worth that. But at the same time, when you're really feeling down... ANYTHING seems better than feeling that way. Hard situation to be in, man.
 
badazzwhitedude said:


Absolutely. But like I said, most women are the devil's right hand. And that is the best I feel I will get for right now, at least 'till I get to the age when perhaps a few more women actually have a brain: late 20's, early 30's.

It's not what I really want. Some people would think this is great and they live for this shit. Not me, but it's better than nothing.
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I'm glad you believe there's more to life...

Well, it's your decision...seems like this woman may have met her perfect match in you...


BBV actually, people who are really depressed don't feel up to sex. And that may be good because I'm sure it could be dangerously anticlimatic/discouraging to have sex with someone who cares nothing for you. And seems there's no evidence this woman cares any more for BAWD than he cares for her.

I reckon one or both of them will get what they deserved if they do it...:(

love
helen
 
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