Theoretical relationship question

[jerseyart]

Occured to me by something Scotsman posted

How long does a person have realistically to say I love you after his or her partner has come out and said it first?

Conversely how long would you wait after feeling in love before you kick the other person to the curb. Or doesnt matter to you at all?

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[spongebob]

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your questions are very complex.

if she says it first and i havnt unloaded, then i'll say it right away. if i already unloaded, im probaly sleeping if she say's it first.

i hope that helps.

 

[GrandMaster]

is the chick says it first,.. say it RIGHT AFTER and smile! lol like you weren't sure
if it was safe to say it or something

if u said it first,.....


lol its a tough question man

 

[jnevin]

Just get drunk, that way it can be played off as an "I love you man" moment. Seriously, that's impossible to generalize about. Love and infatuation feel so similar.

 

[Smurfy]

how can you realistically put a time limit on such a thing? there are way too many variables to consider. every relationship is different.


ps. I love you

 

[*MissFit*]

I never say it first

 

[Smurfy]

I never say it first

Now that i think about it, I have never said it first either. I may have FELT it first though.

 

[spongebob]

I may have FELT it first though.

i always feel it first then fall asleep, that way i get out of saying it.

 

[jerseyart]

how can you realistically put a time limit on such a thing? there are way too many variables to consider. every relationship is different.


ps. I love you








Damn, the clock is ticking

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[jackangel]

it should be easier if you bust out with some weak-ass variation like

"i have this love for you..."

or

"how could i not love the person you are..."

LMAO

hypothetically speaking

 

[The_Ghost]

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There is no timetable bro, these aren't words to be used lightly, never say them unless you know you mean them.

 

[jerseyart]

There is no timetable bro, these aren't words to be used lightly, never say them unless you know you mean them.





I agree.

But realistically there is a timetable with people man. My experience its less than 2 months form the time she says it before either she gets annoyed and feeling rejected, or I get annoyed at her constantly asking why I dont.

I can tbe the only one.

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[geoboy]

your questions are very complex.

if she says it first and i havnt unloaded, then i'll say it right away. if i already unloaded, im probaly sleeping if she say's it first.

i hope that helps.

 

[geoboy]

I never say it first

Why?

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[Griz1]

I never say it first

Yeah, why?

Is it a relationship control/power thing?

Or are you insecure/nervous/fearful/speech impediment/etc?

 

[LoneTree]

Don't play any games.
If you are really into that girl/women, tell her.
If you are not, move on.

 

[Griz1]

Why is everyone afraid of saying "I love you" to someone?

I think alot of folks see that as a weakness or something.

"WHAT? You mean you have the capability for feelings? EMOTIONS? OMFG what is the matter with you!"

I loved her, she didn't love me back...whooopeee doo! Welcome to "life".

Probably alot of missed opportunities in this old world cause someone was afraid to say 3 stupid little english words. Hell we'll sing em in a song over and over, but we won't say it to a person we just put a part of our body inside theirs repeatedly.

Go figure!

 

[mountain muscle]

Damn if you really love the girl tell her you do.

How complex do we have to make everything?

 

[Meantime1]

I never say it first

HAHAHAHHA and why I'm i NOT surprised, u are NOT the kind of girl to put herself out there and be vulnerable, due to fear of been hurt or rejected, so u would rather ALWAYS have the upper hand

 

[mountain muscle]

HAHAHAHHA and why I'm i NOT surprised, u are NOT the kind of girl to put herself out there and be vulnerable, due to fear of been hurt or rejected, so u would rather ALWAYS have the upper hand

I guess all of us could say the same thing about everyone. Who wants to be hurt and vunerable. But then again she has posted more pics of herself than 99% of ef so she must not be that afraid.
If I know I love some girl without a doubt, I will tell her. Fuck the games. Hurt may follow sometimes, so what I am resilient.

BTW bro women ALWAYS have the upper hand.

 

[Carmen]

Damn if you really love the girl tell her you do.

How complex do we have to make everything?

yup.
if you feel it, say it.

 

[mountain muscle]

yup.
if you feel it, say it.

Must spead some karma around blaha blah.

What she said. How many times are you truely in love with someone?

 

[*MissFit*]

I dunno.. i guess im better at showing my feeling sthen saying them

Why?

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