The "Worlds Theory"

[KillahBee]

from Seinfeld. So true. I have lived my life (in regards to relationships) this way and I can't imagine any other way. Does anybody know what I am talking about?

 

[alien amp pharm]

That reminds me, I need to shave my balls when I get home from work.

 

[KillahBee]

That reminds me, I need to shave my balls when I get home from work.

You are on a thread-ruining crusade today aren't you, slappytits?

 

[alien amp pharm]

You are on a thread-ruining crusade today aren't you, slappytits?

'Tis just a routine day for me.

 

[KillahBee]

'Tis just a routine day for me.

So, you still in love, you goddamn fairy?

 

[alien amp pharm]

So, you still in love, you goddamn fairy?

Why yes I am. Thanks for asking.

Back to the original topic, you obviously watched Seinfeld last night, as did I.
This hold very true throughout time. The worlds collide theory.

I also hate it when a guy has to bring his girlfriend to every event and gathering. This has happened to a lot of my guy friends. They seem to be attached at the hips with his significant other which in returns ruins everyone else's fun. My woman knows her role and that's just one of many things I love about her.

Let's hear some of your thoughts on the subject at hand.

 

[KillahBee]

Why yes I am. Thanks for asking.

Back to the original topic, you obviously watched Seinfeld last night, as did I.
This hold very true throughout time. The worlds collide theory.

I also hate it when a guy has to bring his girlfriend to every event and gathering. This has happened to a lot of my guy friends. They seem to be attached at the hips with his significant other which in returns ruins everyone else's fun. My woman knows her role and that's just one of many things I love about her.

Let's hear some of your thoughts on the subject at hand.

My last 2 long term girfriends hated it, but that is the only way I operate. I will never let worlds collide and girls generally don't like that cause they want to be immersed in you and your life. In college I would never ever mix the two worlds, at times going to extremes to avoid it. I needed that safety zone where I could be independent KillahBee. It is one of the most important factors to a relationship's success in my eyes.

 

[jerseyart]

Don't know it, but I am assuming from what you are writing that it means keeping your girls and friends seperate? Is that right


You guys must be young

 

[KillahBee]

Don't know it, but I am assuming from what you are writing that it means keeping your girls and friends seperate? Is that right


You guys must be young

You are a real jackass, bor. I am 25 years old. Do not equate "being young" with having a different view on things. Yes, I have always tried to keep my friends and girlfriends seperate. I see no reason why those worlds should have to collide just because I am dating her. And I sure as hell do not want to have to take on a whole new set of friends (hers) just b/c I like her. Fuck that. Why would should I have to hang around people I would never normally hang around just because I am dating a person.

 

[jerseyart]

You are a real jackass, bor. I am 25 years old. Do not equate "being young" with having a different view on things. Yes, I have always tried to keep my friends and girlfriends seperate. I see no reason why those worlds should have to collide just because I am dating her. And I sure as hell do not want to have to take on a whole new set of friends (hers) just b/c I like her. Fuck that. Why would should I have to hang around people I would never normally hang around just because I am dating a person.

LOL

First watch your mouth bitch. You're close enough for me to get to

Second, you have to be young is not an insult. Enjoy your youth. If you make your "plan" work for the remaionder of your life, more power to you. Most everyone else I know who has shared that view has ended up divorced. It isn't just about keeping your friends seperate, its about leaving your girl at home alone on the nights you should be with her. A person doesnt need to mesh the two every single time, but if you try to keep her in a seperate little box in your life, eventually she is going to get tired of the isolation and move on

 

[KillahBee]

LOL

First watch your mouth bitch. You're close enough for me to get to

Second, you have to be young is not an insult. Enjoy your youth. If you make your "plan" work for the remaionder of your life, more power to you. Most everyone else I know who has shared that view has ended up divorced. It isn't just about keeping your friends seperate, its about leaving your girl at home alone on the nights you should be with her. A person doesnt need to mesh the two every single time, but if you try to keep her in a seperate little box in your life, eventually she is going to get tired of the isolation and move on

A) check your karma messages you bitch ass ho.
B) I don't think it will work for the rest of my life. I go through stages, as priorities shift in my life, and I hope that my attitude towards relationships change when I am ready to settle down, if that happens.
C) It is not about leaving my woman home when I should be with her. It's just the way I view it. I have very few close friends b/c I cannot stand that many people. This is all by design. If I meet a girl I dig, I DO NOT want to have to take on her friends just b/c I like her. That's bullshit. That is a reason for me to not be with her. And that is not cool - on her part.
D) How old are you, anyway?

 

[alien amp pharm]

JerseyArt = Hallmark Card Writer

 

[alien amp pharm]

D) How old are you, anyway?

I think he's like 35 or something.

and I must be more mature than you KB because I am 28.

Killahbee owned by aap 8/3/04

 

[jerseyart]

36 Bor

And I'm trying to help you pup.

When you find the "one" be careful. All I'm saying is a lot of older guys have been there/done that, and it rarely turns out well. Men and women (obviously) are different, and if you have a girl naturally inclined to want to be with you, and not out all the time with her "gf's", dont pass it up. She isnt the one you need to worry about. Worry about the ones who say I agree, lets keep it seperate, and spend most nights out with the "girls"

 

[KillahBee]

36 Bor

And I'm trying to help you pup.

When you find the "one" be careful. All I'm saying is a lot of older guys have been there/done that, and it rarely turns out well. Men and women (obviously) are different, and if you have a girl naturally inclined to want to be with you, and not out all the time with her "gf's", dont pass it up. She isnt the one you need to worry about. Worry about the ones who say I agree, lets keep it seperate, and spend most nights out with the "girls"

I hear ya, you old fat bastard. As I said, I would not enter a relationship (serious one) with my attitude right now. It would not be fair to her or me. I hope that I change my outlook somewhat at some point.

 

[jh1]

LOL @ this whole fucking thread...


the three little bitches... or I mean one.. JerseyFarts....


I am 28 too... most of my g/fs come from going out and being with my friends... it is unavoidable...

Unless I go to dating service... the girls I meet are automatically part of my friends. I wouldn't have it any other way...

 

[alien amp pharm]

and if you have a girl naturally inclined to want to be with you, and not out all the time with her "gf's", dont pass it up. She isnt the one you need to worry about. Worry about the ones who say I agree, lets keep it seperate, and spend most nights out with the "girls"

Sheesh nigga, I gots my bases covered. I keep that ho chained up with a pad lock whenever I go out a pimpin' on the bitches. She knows not to tell anybody about this or else she gets another black eye.

 

[KillahBee]

Sheesh nigga, I gots my bases covered. I keep that ho chained up with a pad lock whenever I go out a pimpin' on the bitches. She knows not to tell anybody about this or else she gets another black eye.

translation = I make her breakfast every morning and clean the house while she hands out handjobs to all my friends. and I wear an apron.

 

[alien amp pharm]

translation = I make her breakfast every morning and clean the house while she hands out handjobs to all my friends. and I wear an apron.

Ha! I don't have any friends, so jokes on you pal!

KB owned by aap again 8-3-04

 

[Dunk]

"stinks like sex in here"

 

[jerseyart]

I hear ya, you old fat bastard. As I said, I would not enter a relationship (serious one) with my attitude right now. It would not be fair to her or me. I hope that I change my outlook somewhat at some point.

LOL

When posting I was thinking of one friend in particular. Even when we brought our girls, he wanted to go solo. Married, and after a few years, his wife decided she liked going out solo with the girls as well. When he hit 30 (they had been married 4 years) she left him for some 24 year old she met in a club. two kids and all.

Then he was all like "I don't know what happened" Still doesnt get it. Shmuck

 

[KillahBee]

LOL

When posting I was thinking of one friend in particular. Even when we brought our girls, he wanted to go solo. Married, and after a few years, his wife decided she liked going out solo with the girls as well. When he hit 30 (they had been married 4 years) she left him for some 24 year old she met in a club. two kids and all.

Then he was all like "I don't know what happened" Still doesnt get it. Shmuck

Yeah, tell him I'm sorry about that, but she was all over my nutz.

 

[the nature boy]

Back on topic. To a degree I agree with the "worlds" theory. But at some point, if you really like the person, then you have to introduce her to your other groups of friends. Otherwise she'll let you hear about it over and over again until you go apeshit. I'm not saying you have to have her hang out with your guy friends on Sunday watching football, but if you really care about your g/f, you would WANT for her to hang out in your other worlds. This especially applies to when you get married. You really don't have a choice.

 

[KillahBee]

Back on topic. To a degree I agree with the "worlds" theory. But at some point, if you really like the person, then you have to introduce her to your other groups of friends. Otherwise she'll let you hear about it over and over again until you go apeshit. I'm not saying you have to have her hang out with your guy friends on Sunday watching football, but if you really care about your g/f, you would WANT for her to hang out in your other worlds. This especially applies to when you get married. You really don't have a choice.

This is true, unfortunately. And you are right about the "wanting" part. I just can't imagine that happening right now.

 

[the nature boy]

This is true, unfortunately. And you are right about the "wanting" part. I just can't imagine that happening right now.

Good. And you shouldn't be in any hurry.