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NJjuice22
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Guys, share your stories about the one that got away that coulda been the one.
I was thinking last night about this girl I was talking to last year. I had met her at this stripjoint in my area , she was bartender not a stripper so keep the comments to yourself..lol...welll anyways this girl was my perfect type, tall like 5'9 longggg brn hair down to her butt, tan skin, cute butt, but it was her gorgeous face that made my heart stop. well i had seen her at this stripjoint like 3 or 4 times and she would always joke around with me and bug me (in a really cute way) the entire time, but she would never really flirt with me, she had a boyfriend that had just moved to Cali to pursue an acting career, but she was still faithful even though she wasnt sure of their future together. well finallly like the 4th time i seen her I made my move, she told me she didnt give out her # but she gave me her aol screeename, the next day we chatted for hours and we wound up going to the movies and out for a drink the following friday, it was probably the best date I ever had....we were like two little kids goofing around with each other and just clicked so good. So we had gone out a few times and kissed each time, but i didnt try anything sexual because i really respected this chick. so after going out a few times she starts talking to me about a relationship and asks me if im gonna break her heart, i told her never i could see myself being with her forever. Then later that month she goes to see her boyfriend(kinda ex by this time) in california, this had been planned before i even met her, they dated for 7 years so they were like best friends as well as a couple. after that damn trip things were never the same , i dont know what that fucker said to her but she was feeling guilty when she got back, now im not one to over-pursue so i stop calling and tried to forget about her, than one night a few months later im at this club in jersey dancing with some girl just as friends, not bumping and grinding, and i feel this tap on my shoulder and i turn around and there is that beautiful damn girl, alll the feelings came back within a second, i talked to her for a few minutes but her cock-blocking friend kept pulling her away to walk around. So now im stressing the next day, pissed off i saw this girl because i had almost forgetten about her. Well a few months go by and i finally decide to email her, she emails me back with the shittiest non-interested "hi, how have you been" response....and we never talk again.
....im curious as to why she wants nothing to do with me now...im guessing it could be one of these three....1.She really had feelings for me and the fact i stop talking to her upset her and she took it personal, 2..she was pissed i didnt calll her on her birthday,(which i didnt think was necessary since we hadnt talked in months ) or 3...she just doesnt want anything to do with me because she feels i jeapordized her 7 year relationship with her boyfriend ( i dont even know if they are still together or what).......well i just had to let all those suppressed feelings out and thats my "one" that got away, im pretty much over it now but she does pop into my head every now and then because she was like a beautiful angel sent to torture my soul..lol
Guys, share your stories about the one that got away that coulda been the one.
I was thinking last night about this girl I was talking to last year. I had met her at this stripjoint in my area , she was bartender not a stripper so keep the comments to yourself..lol...welll anyways this girl was my perfect type, tall like 5'9 longggg brn hair down to her butt, tan skin, cute butt, but it was her gorgeous face that made my heart stop. well i had seen her at this stripjoint like 3 or 4 times and she would always joke around with me and bug me (in a really cute way) the entire time, but she would never really flirt with me, she had a boyfriend that had just moved to Cali to pursue an acting career, but she was still faithful even though she wasnt sure of their future together. well finallly like the 4th time i seen her I made my move, she told me she didnt give out her # but she gave me her aol screeename, the next day we chatted for hours and we wound up going to the movies and out for a drink the following friday, it was probably the best date I ever had....we were like two little kids goofing around with each other and just clicked so good. So we had gone out a few times and kissed each time, but i didnt try anything sexual because i really respected this chick. so after going out a few times she starts talking to me about a relationship and asks me if im gonna break her heart, i told her never i could see myself being with her forever. Then later that month she goes to see her boyfriend(kinda ex by this time) in california, this had been planned before i even met her, they dated for 7 years so they were like best friends as well as a couple. after that damn trip things were never the same , i dont know what that fucker said to her but she was feeling guilty when she got back, now im not one to over-pursue so i stop calling and tried to forget about her, than one night a few months later im at this club in jersey dancing with some girl just as friends, not bumping and grinding, and i feel this tap on my shoulder and i turn around and there is that beautiful damn girl, alll the feelings came back within a second, i talked to her for a few minutes but her cock-blocking friend kept pulling her away to walk around. So now im stressing the next day, pissed off i saw this girl because i had almost forgetten about her. Well a few months go by and i finally decide to email her, she emails me back with the shittiest non-interested "hi, how have you been" response....and we never talk again.
....im curious as to why she wants nothing to do with me now...im guessing it could be one of these three....1.She really had feelings for me and the fact i stop talking to her upset her and she took it personal, 2..she was pissed i didnt calll her on her birthday,(which i didnt think was necessary since we hadnt talked in months ) or 3...she just doesnt want anything to do with me because she feels i jeapordized her 7 year relationship with her boyfriend ( i dont even know if they are still together or what).......well i just had to let all those suppressed feelings out and thats my "one" that got away, im pretty much over it now but she does pop into my head every now and then because she was like a beautiful angel sent to torture my soul..lol
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