The Boards, narcs, DEA and you...

[Bikini Mod]

Hehehehehee

I hid NOTHING from the judge. I even brought a private artist nude that I did pose for that my ex rifled through my computer to find... don't feel the need to disclose what he did with it as it would portray him in an extremely negative light and this brings me no pleasure. Suffice it to say, it didn't matter in the end. At the end of the hearing I was awarded FULL CUSTODY, the house, the car, and he had to pay ALL the bills and weekly support in addition (I NEVER asked for ANY OF THOSE THINGS, but only that he be removed from the home that I be protected. I NEVER kept the children from him and let him have the them WAY ABOVE what the courts allowed.) Several weeks after this we again returned to court and custody was shared (as I offered it) and because my lawyer screwed up and didn't bring my earning statement I was told to pay all the bills with the exception of the mortgage and water/electric. So there I was with a ton of debt (he out and out refused to pay many of the bills and still does though they are legitimate marital debt) and NO REAL JOB.

But guess what? It WAS A GOOD THING! I did and continue to support myself AND my children with NO ASSISTANCE from him (Yes, I am NOT bitching because my children and I have a place to live which is A LOT MORE than MOST of the women in my situation have.) and this fact ALONE has given me the strength to carry on. I showed my girls and MYSELF that I DON'T NEED A MAN to take care of us and will continue to do so. I am no longer afraid of ANYTHING.

As for whether or not the judge thought I was beautiful or not is wholely irrelevant. If I was the selfish, cheating, conniving, neglectful whore that my ex tried and is still trying to paint me out to be, I wouldn't have gotten JACK SHIT. And even when I DO GET JACK SHIT it doesn't matter to me anymore.... I can get my own. All I care about is the well-being of my children. The rest is NO BIGGIE.

 

[addickt]

..I leave for a few and hell breaks loose.

My .02
Ar ehtere members and mods in a "special" profession such a law enforcement??

YES.

Is it a secret or conspiracy??

NO.


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Are ther narcs or DEA or Police lurking on the board.

YES. And you should be more concerned about the lurkers at this point.

This is a public domain - keep that in mind when discussing certain topics..

I think everyone is aware that, statistically, when you have a site as large as this.......... You will unavoidably have law enforcement officers on it..

HOWEVER, Having law enforcement officers as members is substantially different than having them as mods who threaten members.


I honestly cannot understand why a law enforcement officer would be allowed to be a mod... Especially when members often come to mods with questions that are not always within the bounds of the law.

I suppose all of your sarcasm and light heartedness would quickly dissipate if the shoe was on the other foot and you are being threatened. It is easy to make light of others when you, yourself are not the one being threatened.

Too bad that it has to come to that before you stand up and take notice.


( This is not directed at anyone in particular but group collectively who has made light of this)

 

[The Shadow]

I respect that D.

 

[b fold the truth]

So, guess what? Though this is cyberspace and there is some sense of anonymity. Anyone with even A LITTLE BIT of internet savvy CAN FIND YOU.

If I had A DIME for everytime some pimply faced internet ASSHOLE with too much time on his hands thought that it was funny to try and "fuck" with me, I would have been able to thumb my nose at my ex a long time ago.....

Gosh girl...if you wanted me to stop emailing and calling...all you had to do was ask.

B True

 

[aurelius]

Find me. I dare you.

Law enforcement on this board? HA HA HA HA HA HA!!!
Only in America. Anyone ever read any George Orwell?

Sweet land of liberty...
HA HA HA HA HA HA

 

[Bikini Mod]

I would like to resurrect this thread as my ex threatened me today on the telephone.... please print this out - THE ENTIRE THREAD along with EVERYTHING I TYPED and have your lawyer read it before the court. PLEASE, I AM BEGGING YOU.

I am so weary of all of this superfluous nonsense. You obviously care VERY LITTLE for the children.....

PUH-LEASE - you cheated on your income tax - you can not afford us. I can and have earned my own money. By your own admission YOU CAN NOT AFFORD TO SUPPORT OUR CHILDREN YET YOU REGULARLY PAY SITTERS TO WATCH THEM NEVER RINGING MY PHONE ONCE TO ASK IF I, THIER MOTHER, WAS WORKING OR NOT... Ah yes, it is because I am SUCH a whore. I forgot. See, I don't have the every-other-daily reminder of you calling me that anymore so I'd forgotten.... but sadly you continue to remind the children... Yea, you care soooooo much for them.

Shame, shame.

I apologize to the board for my outburst. Please forgive me.

I still say that my ex is not a bad guy. He isn't. He is just fueled by anger and venom. I have never doubted for a second that he loves our children, BUT it is painfully obvious that HE HATES ME MORE.

We have been riding the divorce merry-go-round 16 months. You think that he would tire of it?

Dear, I told you in front of your unscrupulous lawyer two months ago: HATE IS A VERY STRONG GLUE. Let it go and get over yourself already.