Talk about double standards

[chesty]

yeah, more in the saga. Okay, so she thinks because I asked her if an earing that I found in my house 3 weeks ago after a party was hers and I thought it was in the bedroom, that I automatically was cheating on her, cause it doesn't look right and the earing wasn't hers.

I told her it could be my moms, and she is like you better ask her and if it is not well.

I told her I don't do cheat and she was like, let me call you right back.

Now mind you, I blocked her number on my cell which she called and of course I didn't get. So then she callls me at home at 11:45 pm tonight and starts off with I am so mad at you, what am I going to do with you? Your so aggravating? I was like, okay? About what, that was when she brought up this whole earring thing.

Is this woman a nut or what? I mean really? Why the hell would I ask my fiancee of an earring I found was hers if I was cheating on her? I think she is insecure and needs some major psychological help.

Anyway, this is getting good and Chesty is good. She is so beside herself for no reason it isn't even funny!

 

[Sassy69]

C --- RUN FOR THE HILLS. The nuthouse has been breached and its not even a full moon out.

 

[chesty]

Yes, and now it is just plain fun seeing how she reacts to her imagination! I mean really, I was paranoid, and insecure and threatened her with my letter that we either communicate or call it off and of course this is after weeks of her disappearing for days at a time with no communication?

I ask an innocent and simple question is this yours or not? I mean come on, who would ask their fiancee that question if they were banging someone else?

I think it is she that is insecure, feels threatened by and imaginary girl friend of mine, and is paranoid?

I find this rather hilarious and enlightening.

 

[Sassy69]

I honestly don't even know what to say at this point....




... get that ring back tho...

 

[chesty]

Nothing really, I am done with her, I am just playing it out and letting her see what it is like t receive.

I am currenlty looking for other women who are grown up. I am here now for the entertainment value she is providing.

I am getting the ring back. The best part is if she refuses, she will be guilty of felony theft and fraud. And courts have unanimously reiterated that an engagement ring is a conditional gift and that if the condition of marriage is not met, they do not own the ring and must by law return it to the giver.

 

[Razorguns]

yeah, more in the saga. Okay, so she thinks because I asked her if an earing that I found in my house 3 weeks ago after a party was hers and I thought it was in the bedroom, that I automatically was cheating on her, cause it doesn't look right and the earing wasn't hers.

I told her it could be my moms, and she is like you better ask her and if it is not well.

I told her I don't do cheat and she was like, let me call you right back.

Now mind you, I blocked her number on my cell which she called and of course I didn't get. So then she callls me at home at 11:45 pm tonight and starts off with I am so mad at you, what am I going to do with you? Your so aggravating? I was like, okay? About what, that was when she brought up this whole earring thing.

Is this woman a nut or what? I mean really? Why the hell would I ask my fiancee of an earring I found was hers if I was cheating on her? I think she is insecure and needs some major psychological help.

Anyway, this is getting good and Chesty is good. She is so beside herself for no reason it isn't even funny!

did she get the letter? if so, big help that was. Told ya so.

 

[reno240]

yeah, more in the saga. Okay, so she thinks because I asked her if an earing that I found in my house 3 weeks ago after a party was hers and I thought it was in the bedroom, that I automatically was cheating on her, cause it doesn't look right and the earing wasn't hers.

I told her it could be my moms, and she is like you better ask her and if it is not well.

I told her I don't do cheat and she was like, let me call you right back.

Now mind you, I blocked her number on my cell which she called and of course I didn't get. So then she callls me at home at 11:45 pm tonight and starts off with I am so mad at you, what am I going to do with you? Your so aggravating? I was like, okay? About what, that was when she brought up this whole earring thing.

Is this woman a nut or what? I mean really? Why the hell would I ask my fiancee of an earring I found was hers if I was cheating on her? I think she is insecure and needs some major psychological help.

Anyway, this is getting good and Chesty is good. She is so beside herself for no reason it isn't even funny!

Dude - I feel for you man, I was there - I was 6 months away from being married to this biggest jealous psycho I have ever known. Why it got that close I STILL don't know, but I just took the ring, whatever furniture was mine and got the fuck out of there. Now, I am married to the perfect woman for me and couldn't be happier.... So - I guess I tell you my story to let you see the light at the end of the tunnel. Good luck!

 

[heatherrae]

That is nutty! It is just her way of pointing the finger back at you to try to get you on the defensive because she has been the one messing up. Get her some lithium and send her on her way.

 

[mrplunkey]

my 2 cents.

Step 1) Get the ring back now... I don't mean at lunch today... or tonight after work... I mean NOW

Step 2) Decide it's done. No more "playing it out" or any of that other bullshit you're doing. It's done. You dodged a bullet. You almost got stuck with a crazy one, but you survived.

Anything else you do, including analyzing the relationship, blocking numbers, hiding in MSM, going back to your old "favorate" restaurant -- all that is bullshit. Move on.

 

[blueta2]

Nothing really, I am done with her, I am just playing it out and letting her see what it is like t receive.

I am currenlty looking for other women who are grown up. I am here now for the entertainment value she is providing.

I am getting the ring back. The best part is if she refuses, she will be guilty of felony theft and fraud. And courts have unanimously reiterated that an engagement ring is a conditional gift and that if the condition of marriage is not met, they do not own the ring and must by law return it to the giver.

Sounds like with all the head games you are playing with her, you need to do the growing up!
Not cool..if you are letting her go, then let her go!
You are playing this out b/c you are obviously hurt....be a man and let her go! The drama is draining!
She is entitled to keep the ring. You gave it to her, it's her's. She will not be guilty of anything except NO CLASS if she does not return it! Yes she should give the ring back.
Sounds all so immature!

 

[EnderJE]

Sounds like with all the head games you are playing with her, you need to do the growing up!
Not cool..if you are letting her go, then let her go!
You are playing this out b/c you are obviously hurt....be a man and let her go! The drama is draining!
She is entitled to keep the ring. You gave it to her, it's her's. She will not be guilty of anything except NO CLASS if she does not return it! Yes she should give the ring back.
Sounds all so immature!

New chick:
That ring is dang expensive. If I were him, I'd get it back. Fuck the class. She's going all psycho. Who's the one without the class?

C-maing:
I've got to agree with the people here. Just let it go. You want entertainment? Go find the country singer again. Or start cozing up to Sassy.

 

[blueta2]

New chick:
That ring is dang expensive. If I were him, I'd get it back. Fuck the class. She's going all psycho. Who's the one without the class?

C-maing:
I've got to agree with the people here. Just let it go. You want entertainment? Go find the country singer again. Or start cozing up to Sassy.

No I meant if she had class she would give it back! If she doesn't return it, consider it an expensive lesson...I had a few of my own expensive lessons, but walked away b/c my sanity and health were more important than something monetary!

 

[PBR]

she is simply using the earring deal to distract you from the other real important issue- her disappearence for three days, on more than one occassion. she might have taken care of the other guy by now (?) and is ready to start playing you back into the fold....OR : she is using the earring as an excuse to blow your plane out of the sky...

unfortunately, i predict you will fall under an evil spell cast by her and you two will be together for a short while....its your life- not EF's or anyone on here...you know what you can handle and what you cant...

good luck bro...

 

[heatherrae]

Nothing really, I am done with her, I am just playing it out and letting her see what it is like t receive.

I am currenlty looking for other women who are grown up. I am here now for the entertainment value she is providing.

I am getting the ring back. The best part is if she refuses, she will be guilty of felony theft and fraud. And courts have unanimously reiterated that an engagement ring is a conditional gift and that if the condition of marriage is not met, they do not own the ring and must by law return it to the giver.

From a legal standpoint, you are correct. The ring is a conditional gift that is dependent upon marriage. She should give it back. Definitely.

 

[alien amp pharm]

Turn gay like Razorguns and you won't have to deal with these female problems anymore.

 

[The Shadow]

IMO - court ruling or no....if the man breaks it off - the ring is hers.


She should return it....but I'm not so sure that she HAS to.

At any rate - good luck

 

[Razorguns]

Turn gay like Razorguns and you won't have to deal with these female problems anymore.

OH STOP!

 

[stilleto]

IMO - court ruling or no....if the man breaks it off - the ring is hers.


She should return it....but I'm not so sure that she HAS to.

At any rate - good luck

she does have to. the ring is in leau of marriage. if the marriage doesn't happen, the ring has to be returned.
chesty, run.

 

[chesty]

Sounds like with all the head games you are playing with her, you need to do the growing up!
Not cool..if you are letting her go, then let her go!
You are playing this out b/c you are obviously hurt....be a man and let her go! The drama is draining!
She is entitled to keep the ring. You gave it to her, it's her's. She will not be guilty of anything except NO CLASS if she does not return it! Yes she should give the ring back.
Sounds all so immature!

I am a former deputy sheriff and yes, she will be guilty of theft and fraud if she does not return it. I know exactly what I am talking about. I am not playing head games at all. I tell her exactly like it is and nothing less. I am not mad at her, or anything. I do not need to grow up.

 

[chesty]

chesty is running and looking. I don't play games and I told her like it is, you either start communicating, come clean etc or it is over. She obviously on some nutty plane is communicating and I think she just doesn't know how to act, except for the fact that she feels guilt over many things or insecurities over her past relationships and is taking it out the only way she can.

I rather enjoy this. It helps tremendously knowing I can walk away at anytime and not feel guilty over it. Not my loss but hers.

 

[chesty]

she is simply using the earring deal to distract you from the other real important issue- her disappearence for three days, on more than one occassion. she might have taken care of the other guy by now (?) and is ready to start playing you back into the fold....OR : she is using the earring as an excuse to blow your plane out of the sky...

unfortunately, i predict you will fall under an evil spell cast by her and you two will be together for a short while....its your life- not EF's or anyone on here...you know what you can handle and what you cant...

good luck bro...

I took my medicine for the day, no evil spells, but hell, why not tag it one more time if she offers?

 

[chesty]

New chick:
That ring is dang expensive. If I were him, I'd get it back. Fuck the class. She's going all psycho. Who's the one without the class?

C-maing:
I've got to agree with the people here. Just let it go. You want entertainment? Go find the country singer again. Or start cozing up to Sassy.

I still hang out with the country singer, she got a bf now and has actually got sensible.

Cozing up to Sassy? I don't think she would like that. But her avi is kinda sexy! Actually she is a very cool person from what I can tell.

 

[Sassy69]

I still hang out with the country singer, she got a bf now and has actually got sensible.

Cozing up to Sassy? I don't think she would like that. But her avi is kinda sexy! Actually she is a very cool person from what I can tell.

 

[slat1]

If she is accusing you of cheating the chances are she is cheating or has thought about it. I would not be surprised to find out she had been spending some time with another guy.

 

[The Shadow]

she does have to. the ring is in leau of marriage. if the marriage doesn't happen, the ring has to be returned.
chesty, run.

that HAS to be a state property law then.

 

[mkazzbmf]

Its the bitches that'll getches


Kaz

 

[HiDnGoD]

So, you told her you didn't cheat. The question we all wanna know is, did you cheat?
j/k Not really
Say bye bye.

 

[GrandMaster]

Sounds like with all the head games you are playing with her, you need to do the growing up!
Not cool..if you are letting her go, then let her go!
You are playing this out b/c you are obviously hurt....be a man and let her go! The drama is draining!
She is entitled to keep the ring. You gave it to her, it's her's. She will not be guilty of anything except NO CLASS if she does not return it! Yes she should give the ring back.
Sounds all so immature!

Gotta Agree with this one!!^^^^^

 

[GrandMaster]

so wait... after a few days its over and shes with someone else?! am i the only one catching this... or am i am idoit?

 

[chesty]

so wait... after a few days its over and shes with someone else?! am i the only one catching this... or am i am idoit?

? I'm confused on this one? I would not be surprised at all to hear from her she has been banging the ex or another dude

 

[Trojan Horse]

You need to start chanelling that bad energy elsewhere. This problem of yours is taking too much out of you and you know it. Stop fooling yourself. The mere fact that you are still posting about this dillema tells us that it's fucking eating away at you. You need to get her out of your life immediately. If you could, get the ring back and move on as soon as possible. You know you really don't want to be with her so do it. Mayb you just are addicted to the sex that she provides. This drama isn't for your entertainment. Why would someone want such entertainment? I don't really know why you are still involved at some capacity. You've articulated your position and what you think about this relationship. Now, it's time to put your thoughts into action. Forget about all the energy draining activities going on between the two of you. Move on and give it time. You'll be fine in the long run. There are plenty of women out there to consume your energy. Let's hope that it's good energy and not bad energy like the one you are still dealing with.

 

[blueta2]

You need to start chanelling that bad energy elsewhere. This problem of yours is taking too much out of you and you know it. Stop fooling yourself. The mere fact that you are still posting about this dillema tells us that it's fucking eating away at you. You need to get her out of your life immediately. If you could, get the ring back and move on as soon as possible. You know you really don't want to be with her so do it. Mayb you just are addicted to the sex that she provides. This drama isn't for your entertainment. Why would someone want such entertainment? I don't really know why you are still involved at some capacity. You've articulated your position and what you think about this relationship. Now, it's time to put your thoughts into action. Forget about all the energy draining activities going on between the two of you. Move on and give it time. You'll be fine in the long run. There are plenty of women out there to consume your energy. Let's hope that it's good energy and not bad energy like the one you are still dealing with.

<<<standing ovation>>>>> great answer!

I agree......so much negative energy, but some ppl just are caught up and love drama!
This dude is obviously still hurting big time and there is ONLY one way to move on from any obsessive relationship....NO CONTACT!!!

Deputy Sheriff or not, forget the ring, move on and get your head on track. I've been there dude, I know how painful this can be....but when you finally move on, you feel so free!