I agree. Imitating a good dancer though, works best when you are sort of dancing by yourself--be cool, ie no props, poles, chairs, Saturday night fever moves, etc.--you'll really hate yourself and everyone WILL be laughing.
If you're dancing with some chick, just try to do what she's doing only don't be so femine about it--she already knows you are at least minimally equipped and of course, willing. These things are a given. Synchronizing yourself to her moves makes it seem like if she ever gave you the chance, she might not be disappointed.
And for the love of god if things are going well, don't start grinding all over her--work toward getting closer and closer, you'll probably need to buy a few drinks and make some converstation and dance a little more--even go on a date or two. Of course if all that's too much just find someone else to dance with until you get to the one that starts grinding all over you--she is the closest thing to a sure bet or a fight (if she's trying to piss off her boyfriend).
If you're dancing with some chick, just try to do what she's doing only don't be so femine about it--she already knows you are at least minimally equipped and of course, willing. These things are a given. Synchronizing yourself to her moves makes it seem like if she ever gave you the chance, she might not be disappointed.
And for the love of god if things are going well, don't start grinding all over her--work toward getting closer and closer, you'll probably need to buy a few drinks and make some converstation and dance a little more--even go on a date or two. Of course if all that's too much just find someone else to dance with until you get to the one that starts grinding all over you--she is the closest thing to a sure bet or a fight (if she's trying to piss off her boyfriend).