Sucks to be me.

[Zerxes]

So I'm at the club last night, and ran into some women from my gym. I was chatting it up with them, and they both told me that they always thought I was a stuck-up snob, who thought he was "the shit" before they talked to me that night. You see, when I'm at the gym, I really don't bother with anyone, other than to say "hi" maybe. I'm no asshole by any means(like I said, I do say "hi", and will smile), but I just am into my workout quite frankly. I mean, that's what I'm there for. If I were there to pick up women, then I'd concentrate on that, but that's not the case. Also, I tend to be on the quiet side to begin with, which(I guess, from what they said last night) only adds to peoples' preception(because I am a well-built quiet guy--I guess) that I am some huge asshole. This really got to me kinda. I don't want people to think I'm an asshole, but I'm just not the kind of person who is very chatty for one, and for two, doesn't go macking on every damn piece of trim he sees either. I guess, for that I'm a snob/asshole who thinks he's the shit, which is totally not the case. I only wish I were that confident actually. Wtf?! Is it me, or is it them?? It's them, isn't it?

Anyone else have this dilema by chance?

 

[decem]

same thing here. i'm actually quite reserved in real life.. (unlike the persona i play out on this queer board).. and being (1) good looking, (2) somewhat smart and (3) in better shape than 90% of the population.. people automatically take my reservedness as hubris.. then after like a month or two when i finally come out of my shell everyone loves me..

it's always been that way.. probably always will..

ah well.

 

[Y_lifter]

It's been months Decem, and I'm not in that "Everyone" group...

 

[PolishHammer1977]

Them

 

[Y_lifter]

LOL @ George S

 

[bullett]

its them, but I will give you a little advice..

Try to be a little more outgoing, and you will have A TON more fun... It doesn't need to interfere with your primary objectives. This is something that I learned as I aged, and if I could change anything from my younger days, it would be to learn to relax (just a little) let more people inside my bubble, and to relax and be myself, and open up a little..

I was so focused, that I missed a lot of friendships, and or opps for relationships.

 

[MassiveGunz]

and being (1) good looking, (2) somewhat smart and (3) in better shape than 90% of the population.. people automatically take my reservedness as hubris

Bro we have the same problems butu Im huger than about 98% of people.
I dont know hwat hubris means but i know what hugeness means and its me.
People jsut think i am full of myself but IM nice actually as long as you are a hot bitch or a bro who trains.

 

[decem]

It's been months Decem, and I'm not in that "Everyone" group...

whassup y_lifter? how ya been?

is that you in your avatar?

 

[-SD-]

Bro we have the same problems butu Im huger than about 98% of people.
I dont know hwat hubris means but i know what hugeness means and its me.
People jsut think i am full of myself but IM nice actually as long as you are a hot bitch or a bro who trains.

I am recovering from a shoulder surgery but I can still do a little at the gym, but I will be training all out in a couple months, so that makes me a bro who trains.

 

[Nathan]

same thing here. i'm actually quite reserved in real life.. (unlike the persona i play out on this queer board).. and being (1) good looking, (2) somewhat smart and (3) in better shape than 90% of the population.. people automatically take my reservedness as hubris.. then after like a month or two when i finally come out of my shell everyone loves me..

it's always been that way.. probably always will..

ah well.

You forgot to mention how terribly gay you are.

 

[MassiveGunz]

I am recovering from a shoulder surgery but I can still do a little at the gym, but I will be training all out in a couple months, so that makes me a bro who trains.

Cool bro!!
We are like 2 peace in a pod.

Like I always say: Bros that train togehtr get stacked together.

 

[trimtan1]

Zerxes,
Any male here that's enjoyed the success that comes along with diligent work in the gym is JUST LIKE YOU.

I don't "chat" in the gym. It's all business..............."and if you're not going to use that bench, will you please get the fuck out of the way"? LOL