Such thing as "chemistry"?

[DoseOfTruth]

Ever feel that you and a girl share a "chemistry" without ever saying a word. Trouble is you are not sure if it is just you OR it is a mutual feeling.

A STORY

Sophmore year highschool, chick in my class is hot as fuck. I felt a "vibe" like she was into me, and I knew I was into her. However, the year passed and we never exchanged more than a smile if that.

Well over the next few years I saw her around and always had a huge crush on her, but never said a word. I figured the "chemistry" was obviously in my head.

Long story short, senior graduation party I show up with a new girlfriend...AND for the first time in 3 years the chick I had been infatuated with is at the party. Obviously at this point I was with my girlfriend and so much time had passed I really had completely given up on ever talking to this girl. Then literally out of the blue - she walks up to me and says "Hey, are you here with _____". I was totally confused since this was the first words she had spoken to me ever, but I said "Umm yah" Then she said "I just wanted to let you know that I have had a crush on you since our sophmore year and was always to nervous to say anything. Since we'll probably never see each other again, I figured I had nothing to lose" She stood there for a second and I said "wow thanks" she gave me a kiss and walked away. That was the last time I saw her.

So back to the question...any other stories that prove the "chemistry" theory - good or bad??

 

[Drunken_Weasel]

Hello, my name is Stupid.

 

[DoseOfTruth]

you dick, this is an interesting topic.

 

[Drunken_Weasel]

you dick, this is an interesting topic.

I'm not insulting you.. I'm looking back at myself during high school. Realizing that I may have had some opportunities.. therefore, I am stupid.

 

[flexygrl]

Hey,

Good thread. I can't even remember anymore. I have been with my husband for almost 7 years. I was 18 when I met him. If I think really hard I can remember a couple of times in class or in a store where I saw a guy and thought he was hot and wondered if he felt the same about me. I believe that there is such a thing as "chemistry". Scientist have said that what attracts us to each other is not anything magical at all, it's all about phermones. I don't like to think of it that way. It takes the magic out.

I met my husband on a blind date. When I saw him, it was literally love at first sight. But I often wonder if we didn't tamper with fate the way we did, if we came across each other, would it have worked out....who knows. I am a firm believer in taking chances and risks. If you are into someone you gotta go for it, because you only live this life once.

 

[DoseOfTruth]

oh lol, me too....sorry.

 

[slobberknocker]

The chemistry you're talking about sounds like sexual chemistry, and yes I believe in that. I think there's different kinds of chemistry though. In a relationship, when people say they have good chemistry a lot of the time they mean they have good communication.

 

[velvett]

The chemistry you're talking about sounds like sexual chemistry, and yes I believe in that. I think there's different kinds of chemistry though. In a relationship, when people say they have good chemistry a lot of the time they mean they have good communication.

WHat he said.

 

[biteme]

That sux. And yes that has happened to me. I met this girl when she was waitressing at El Chico's. She was about 16 and I was 21 at the time. It was lust at first sight. I didn't see her again until a few years later when I was taking some courses at a community college. She was in my English class, she was a striking beauty. I approached her and she kind of blew me off. Later in the semester, she approached me and told me that she had had a boyfriend b4 and didn't want to give me the wrong impression. I asked her out, went over to her house b4 the date to do homework together. Everything seemed to be going well. We went to a movie on our date. I will never do this again. You can't communicate during a movie. Anyway, neither one of us spoke a word during the movie and hardly at all afterwards. I just figured she didn't like me. The price I have paid for being shy. She would have made a wonderful wife. I called her a few years later out of the blue and asked her what went wrong. She thought that I didn't like her because I hardly talked to her. Man that sux. We both were into each other but we were both shy. Had I not screwed that up, I might not be in the mess I am today.

 

[casavant]

I think that there is mutual "chemistry" like that. It can happen without a lot of words being exchanged because of the different way you act around each other than you would normally act around a person you're not into. It may not even be a conscious thing, and the other person may not consciously be picking up on it, but your brain and body still recieves and sends signals on a subconscious level.

 

[biteme]

I think that there is mutual "chemistry" like that. It can happen without a lot of words being exchanged because of the different way you act around each other than you would normally act around a person you're not into. It may not even be a conscious thing, and the other person may not consciously be picking up on it, but your brain and body still recieves and sends signals on a subconscious level.

I don't know Cas. I'm attracted to about 20 women where I work. I probably just imagine that they are attracted to me.

 

[casavant]

I don't know Cas. I'm attracted to about 20 women where I work. I probably just imagine that they are attracted to me.

That there is good old fashioned horniness, my friend. I've got plenty of that to go around too. Especially working on a college campus.

 

[biteme]

That there is good old fashioned horniness, my friend. I've got plenty of that to go around too. Especially working on a college campus.

Oh yeah. I wouldn't be able to concentrate. I lived in co-ed dorm at NTSU. Very beautiful women in Texas colleges. It was too distracting for me.

 

[casavant]

Oh yeah. I wouldn't be able to concentrate. I lived in co-ed dorm at NTSU. Very beautiful women in Texas colleges. It was too distracting for me.

We get a nice sample of the Texas girls up here too. Damn, can't say I blame you.


Man, speaking of horny, I think my test levels are jacked up right now. I'm 283 and feeling more edgy all the time. I worked out last night, came home and ate 14 ounces of beef and went to sleep. Two hours later I wake up with a grumbling stomach and have to go fix half a dozen eggs. Today, I have some zits on my upper back and I haven't had zits there for a long damn time, and I'm still hungry all the time. And I want to fuck like a madman.

Just thought I'd share.

 

[Lift Chief]

Moral of the story... you regret the things you dont do much more than the things you do.

 

[Frackal]

you guys are a bunch of fuckups!!!!

damn the missed opportunities

I'm a fuckup too