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[Robert Jan]

basically just, trying to word my feelings on people and social relationships at this point...

I`m just curious, as most people my age are, if this is a standard phase of maturing, or a constant throughout life, or something thats special, because i dont know.

I feel clumsy... clumsy socially. things i want to say dont come out the way i want to and im unable to reckon with the other persons thoughts while talking on the spot. I stumble before i say something sometimes even if its not a person i am in any way shy, impressed scared or anything towards.

I have a hard time connecting with anybody and i keep feeling I dont take part in anything, theres just this group of people that i hang with but im not part of them.

I constantly second guess the relevance, kindness, timing and reason of anything i say to anybody.

I always have this feeling when im with people that i feel out of place.

I`m a very absent minded person and i feel i often dont succeed to mingle in.

I also have this feeling that im not sure of who i really like and who i dont. I`m always second guessing that, especially I always seem to find people naive

 

[VooDoo Lady]

How old are you?

 

[Robert Jan]

haha take 1 guess- 16.

i got totally shitfaced yesterday night and stayed out till 7 am so i am maybe more negative than usual right now...

 

[VooDoo Lady]

Why are you shitfaced at age 16?

 

[DigitalKyle]

because "drugs and drinking are cool man!"

 

[flex123]

because "drugs and drinking are cool man!"

:havoc:

 

[Imnotdutch]

Why are you shitfaced at age 16?

I was thinking the same...........kinda sad that so many young people think it is cool to get drunk / high.

In the school that I teach at the kids think it is cool to draw hemp leaves all over there books and role spliffs outta paper. Then if you ask them what they want to do when they leave schol they firstly say a barrister (lotsa money) and if they fail at that........wait for it........a drug dealer!! Notably, the kids that perform well steer clear of this type of behaviour.........go figure.

 

[Robert Jan]

Let me remind you that drinking is legal at my age in Holland and that last night was new years eve

I went out to all these bars and clubs and places all night with all my friends.

I`m not sure what "shitfaced" exactly means it wasn`t like i wasn`t present or something...

Can we not talk about that? Its not even a habit of mine I drink only on rare occasion.

 

[Imnotdutch]

Shitfaced means drunk.........from what I know about dutch people (I have known a few) they are more controlled than most when it comes to drinking etc.

You know if you are 16 you aren't meant to be on this board.........when you joined you signed a disclaimer saying you were 18

Let me remind you that drinking is legal at my age in Holland and that last night was new years eve

I went out to all these bars and clubs and places all night with all my friends.

I`m not sure what "shitfaced" exactly means it wasn`t like i wasn`t present or something...

Can we not talk about that? Its not even a habit of mine I drink only on rare occasion.

 

[Robert Jan]

Really?

but theres lots of members who arent 18.

I`m sorry to bother you with my repetitive worn adolescent mental issues tho.

If there were 12 year olds on here sprouting their shit i wouldn`t like it either so i can see where your coming from.

 

[Imnotdutch]

Oh your not really bothering me.........I figured you were substantially older than 16.

Really?

but theres lots of members who arent 18.

I`m sorry to bother you with my repetitive worn adolescent mental issues tho.

If there were 12 year olds on here sprouting their shit i wouldn`t like it either so i can see where your coming from.

 

[WarriorPL]

I'm not 18.... will i be banned?

 

[chrisoh]

you're confused... most teens are, it'll take until you're 20's to know what you really want.

 

[Imnotdutch]

I'm not 18.... will i be banned?

The quality and tone of your posts show that you are under 18..........on the other hand it was tough to tell that RJ was so young. I couldn't give a damn whether you get banned or not........I don't even bother to read what you write.

 

[Robert Jan]

Thats kind of harsh