Sometimes......

[Bullit]

You have a wife & kid, therefore I wonder the same.

'Specially if u are considering gear.

 

[beastboy]

I wonder why I care what I look like. Why I diet...Why I workout...why I spend a fortune on food and supps.

In the end does it matter? Do the people around you love you any less?

All of these questions, and I have no answer to what drives me.

 

[Chester_Copperpot]

Good thoughts, you're on the right track, go with your thoughts, you have a wife, friends, child, solid family, career, just relax homes. peace

 

[PoyeBoy]

I wonder why I care what I look like. Why I diet...Why I workout...why I spend a fortune on food and supps.

In the end does it matter? Do the people around you love you any less?

All of these questions, and I have no answer to what drives me.

you do it for yourslef, becuase you enjoy it, you need no other reasons

 

[Y_lifter]

What drive me to only eat Ice Cream 2 times a week and in small portions
is the desire to walk my Daughter down the isle, and
hold my grand kids.

 

[Y_lifter]

When I was really pushing myself hard physically, I was sore all the time and tired.

Now I have cut back and am on more of a Maintenance program
of lifting and am going the other direction. AKA FAT-ASS

I need to find a happy medium level..

 

[beastboy]

I'm hot at hell, but sometimes I think I feel worse than I did when I was fat, but mentally I feel much better, but at the same time I feel so much further from my goal. I think I am more self conscious now than before.

 

[Nathan]

It's a disease. Get used to it. You say to yourself one day, "I'm going to take control of myself and get into shape." The next thing you know, you're swinging wildly in the opposite direction with just as little control over yourself as before you started. BUT, at least now you're stronger and more fit. There is nothing you can do about your personality. Have you not figured this out yet? It's all or none with you my man, as it is with most of us here. If you quit with this, you'll just turn to something else anyways.

 

[beastboy]

It's a disease. Get used to it. You say to yourself one day, "I'm going to take control of myself and get into shape." The next thing you know, you're swinging wildly in the opposite direction with just as little control over yourself as before you started. BUT, at least now you're stronger and more fit. There is nothing you can do about your personality. Have you not figured this out yet? It's all or none with you my man, as it is with most of us here. If you quit with this, you'll just turn to something else anyways.

You're right....seems like I only do this for me. Even though you like when others take notice, but it mainly comes in the form of jealousy.

 

[MarthaStewart]

I'd just like to say that I think Bullits avatar is fucking disgusting.

 

[the nature boy]

you do it because you secretly hate yourself.

 

[FreeballinDC]

I do it so when I take my shirt off at the bar, all the old trolls come out of the woodwork and start feeling on me.

I'm all about old trolls and cheap feel ups!

 

[MarthaStewart]

I do it so when I take my shirt off at the bar, all the old trolls come out of the woodwork and start feeling on me.

I'm all about old trolls and cheap feel ups!

I must be going to the wrong bars. if I took my shirt off in any bar I've been to, they'd ask me to leave.

although, to be fair - if I take off my shirt at the beach, people ask me to leave.

 

[lucidblue]

Re: Re: Sometimes......

you do it for yourslef, becuase you enjoy it, you need no other reasons

Exactly. I workout because it makes me feel good about myself and it has significantly reduced my headaches. Looking good is for me, not someone else.

Of course it is nice for others to think you look good too... but it shouldn't be your driving force.

 

[FreeballinDC]

I must be going to the wrong bars. if I took my shirt off in any bar I've been to, they'd ask me to leave.

although, to be fair - if I take off my shirt at the beach, people ask me to leave.

True story.

I was out one night at a bar, wearing a black polo shirt and jeans. Nobody noticed me, or paid any attention to me. I attempted to make conversation with a couple of guys, but they blew me off (no pun intended).

I run into a friend, and he convinces me to take off the shirt, so I do. Within 10 minutes, I had advances from 3 different guys. One of them happened to be a guy that had blown me off earlier.

Moral of the story: Shallow bitches love shirtless men.

 

[rnch]

standards must be a LOT lower in D.C. than in nawlinz!!!!!!!



but......then again, look who's in the big house!

 

[vixenbabe]

Freeballin...I sooooo can relate.....lol

 

[FreeballinDC]

rnch - is that a good thing or a bad thing? But you have a point, Clinton was banging cottage cheese-ass Lewinsky.

Vix - I KNOW you'd get some play if you showed up shirtless, talk about Raid on Entebee!