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Some Sad news on wed. for Miss Kittie and I...

Dakotah

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Well one week ago today a close friend of ours killed himself over his wife leaving him. Miss kittie and I just happened to see and visit with him and his woman 2 tuesdays ago, she left him that thursday he called us the next nite asking if we knew where she was - she told us when we were visiting that she was going to leave him and take his 2 year old son with. He couldnt get ahold of her and shot himself after destroying the house. He was in his home for two days with the dog before anyone found him.
 
Damn,

Im so sorry D.

Sometimes the pain seeems to much to bear. My heart goes out to all fo you, as does my prayers
 
Wow. I'm so sorry for your loss and also that a situation like that even occurred. Prayers and condolences to all involved. :(
 
HumorMe said:
Wow....that's horrible.

What about the wife? How is she handling it?
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well actually the whole story and situation is horrible and sad. we havent really talked to her a whole lot she has had very short and non emotional words with us. It is hard for me to put into words exactly everything - they had a weird and somewhat crazy of a relationship. Miss Kittie and I were unable to attend the funeral due to short notice and shortage of money for the trip there and back. We havent talked to his wife since the day of the viewing and she was pretty much not wanting to talk alot.

He will be missed thats for sure - his closest friend was miss kitties husband and he wasnt even able to go to the funeral- he was driving his truck and was too far away. Its so depressing - we never would have guessed he would have ever done something like that mostly because of his 2 yr old son whom looks alot like him.
 
Dakotah said:
well actually the whole story and situation is horrible and sad. we havent really talked to her a whole lot she has had very short and non emotional words with us. It is hard for me to put into words exactly everything - they had a weird and somewhat crazy of a relationship. Miss Kittie and I were unable to attend the funeral due to short notice and shortage of money for the trip there and back. We havent talked to his wife since the day of the viewing and she was pretty much not wanting to talk alot.

He will be missed thats for sure - his closest friend was miss kitties husband and he wasnt even able to go to the funeral- he was driving his truck and was too far away. Its so depressing - we never would have guessed he would have ever done something like that mostly because of his 2 yr old son whom looks alot like him.
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Very sad.

Desperate times calls for desperate measures when thinking isn't clear.

Hope the best for everyone involved.
 
Sorry to hear that...:rose:
If I was ever to off myself over a women, she'd get it first...
 
OMG so sorry
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the sad thing is that his whole family and even hers is blaming her --- she was always leaving and coming back alot so they knew she was just repeating her same pattern.
 
Dakotah said:
the sad thing is that his whole family and even hers is blaming her --- she was always leaving and coming back alot so they knew she was just repeating her same pattern.
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Right now really isn't the time or place to lay blame. I'm sure she feels responsible for this. But she did plan on leaving though.

The real concern should be about the son.

My condolences for you guys and your friend and son.
 
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I am so sorry to hear this.
Has the wifre returned?
Does she feel guilty now??


I would never kill myself for a man!
 
Killing yourself over a woman.

How pathetic.

Guys like him shouldn't procreate. Now some poor 2 y/o now has to grow up without a father in his life cuz his father was an emotional basketcase idiot.
 
as a mortician
most(~66%)of my suicide cases involve a spouse
and/or a significant other,which is obvious if you think about it
it's those other third that cause me pause and reflect
i.e. successful professionals at 42
?
 
4everhung said:
as a mortician
most(~66%)of my suicide cases involve a spouse
and/or a significant other,which is obvious if you think about it
it's those other third that cause me pause and reflect
i.e. successful professionals at 42
?
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you are a mortician?? wow :worried:
i got goosebumps on me now...

how do you cope?
 
You know what he really wasnt the type to do such a thing seriously - he really wasnt a depressed person really - he really appeared strong charactered and as if he never took crap from anyone including his wife. Everyone who knew what was going on thought he would have went and talked her into coming back or else just let it go and go get another woman or even just go to the stip club one of his favorite things to do. As far as his 2 yo son the day will come when he finds out what happened and decides for himself how to feel and deal with it. I dont believe it was pathetic I believe it was a mistake that couldnt be taken back. The only people who really know what happened is him and his wife no one else.
As far as being a emotional basketcase idiot well that is your opinion but those that knew him believe different. Some things are just unexplainable.


as far as his wife feeling guilty - it is hard to say right now she is a very indrawn person shows no emotion whatsoever. almost cold actually but we believe it is her way of dealing - she even moved the next day. We really dont think anyone will hear from her again. I feel horrible for her but at the same time i feel angry towards her. Some things are just unchangeable she had her mind made up the day before she actually left and didnt even tell him she was leaving. She at frist didnt even want to take her son she wanted to leave him and then Misskittie talked to her and told her she would never forgive herself for not taking him with and so she did take him.

There is nothing that we could do I believe that would have changed anything.
 
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