SLAT need stripper advice please

[GoldenDelicious]

oh and sorry to hear about your bung leg btw

k. simple question. when you first break into stripper circles and she introduces you to her friends/workmates and youre someone like me (who can be a smartarse on the surface but really, i like to spoil girls) do you go with your usual smartarse self with the friends, or let them see the softer side that the one youve been sleeping with gets to see

i dont want to sleep with the rest of them btw, id rather just have 1 girl per social group and just chill with the rest in comfort than deal with drama

cheeeers bigeeears lol

 

[bigmann245]

bro i worked in a strip club for over a year. these girls have low self esteam and usually have drug problems. they like to use men to get more money, they are always looking for a sugar daddy. most of them have one and then you on the side. DO NOT GET ATTACHED TO THEM, they will rip your heart out. i dated one going against my better judgement and she broke up with me because i didnt like the fact she did coke. believe me bro its a world of heartache and games. not to mention a lot of them have kids and no babies daddy. just be careful bro, keep your guard up and again do not get attached. treat them like you dont care and dont be a pussy they hate that. they like to be treated like shit because its all they know. i for one can never treat a woman like shit no matter who she is i just dont talk to the shitty ones. good luck

 

[GoldenDelicious]

its ok

she knows i have 3 other girlfriends and pick up randoms on the side

plus she has a gazillion more dollars than me

i just want the relationship to stay as it is - no committment, no fuss, she just brings over a bottle of wine after her shows, eat some sweet, then...pounce! lol

 

[jh1]

If you treat her / her friends like a stripper when they aren't in a strip club, she'll get sick of the antics real quick...

Just chill out and treat her / her friends like you do anybody else...

 

[Scotsman]

GD if you haven't worried about what anyone else thinks why should her friends be any different? Besides if you approach with a false front it's more of a shock when your true personality comes through.

Cheers,
Scotsman

 

[dead_reggin_storage_fashi]

its ok

she knows i have 3 other girlfriends and pick up randoms on the side

plus she has a gazillion more dollars than me

i just want the relationship to stay as it is - no committment, no fuss, she just brings over a bottle of wine after her shows, eat some sweet, then...pounce! lol

man dont date strippers and this is coming from me and ive fucked whores. they will get attached to you and then leave you in a second. Plus dating a stripper she will come home just think how many guys where all over that shit 20 minutes before she is in your bed sleeping?

strippers are one and done hook ups etc and maybe at her place here and there.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

If you treat her / her friends like a stripper when they aren't in a strip club, she'll get sick of the antics real quick...

Just chill out and treat her / her friends like you do anybody else...

i dont know what game face to put on around strippers and so tahts what ive been doing - its just that i dont want to blur into the crowd of leg humpers that tries to get in with them

my current tactic is to be myself, which usually means coming to my house and being spoiled ("sit your tush down THERE, eat THIS, drink THAT, and shush youre a guest dammit!"), but making sure she gets the occasional reminder that there are another gang of girls on the sidelines waiting their turn - but she earned that by just being a really cool chick. the rest of them...they have to work to be treated like that, and i dont want to fuckup just yet

GD if you haven't worried about what anyone else thinks why should her friends be any different? Besides if you approach with a false front it's more of a shock when your true personality comes through.

Cheers,
Scotsman

cos her friends are used to oodles of attention and automaticlly devalue a guy who is genuinely nice as being supplicative. its why strippers usually go for really alpha guys who fuck ALL of them, or they pick a poodle type guy and lead him round by the nose

i could do the first one but...i always feel like a prick

 

[GoldenDelicious]

man dont date strippers and this is coming from me and ive fucked whores. they will get attached to you and then leave you in a second. Plus dating a stripper she will come home just think how many guys where all over that shit 20 minutes before she is in your bed sleeping?

strippers are one and done hook ups etc and maybe at her place here and there.

date?

 

[Tytan]

just bone w/ her and don`t worry about impressing her friends and getting serious w/ this broad. There`s a reason she`s stripping, She likes all the drama that goes w/ the job.

 

[Creepusmaximus]

oh and sorry to hear about your bung leg btw

k. simple question. when you first break into stripper circles and she introduces you to her friends/workmates and youre someone like me (who can be a smartarse on the surface but really, i like to spoil girls) do you go with your usual smartarse self with the friends, or let them see the softer side that the one youve been sleeping with gets to see

i dont want to sleep with the rest of them btw, id rather just have 1 girl per social group and just chill with the rest in comfort than deal with drama

cheeeers bigeeears lol

Most of them end up hating guys and becoming lesbians. If you look like their father your in.