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slobberknocker
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biteme said:
Well, at the risk of being ostracized, I'll answer truthfully.
For me, it seems to be a combination of two things that's keeping me single right now:
1. My life is so chaotic and unsettled right now, that finding a good relationship just isn't a top priority; and
2. There just aren't a whole lot of "good" girls left. I'm not really into the clubbing/partying scene, and most of the girls my age (college age) just aren't looking for a serious relationship with a good guy and would rather sleep around.
OK, ostracize away.
vinylgroover
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biteme said:
unfortunately, i've fallen into the trap of liking my freedom/independance too much. Anytime i start to get into a relationship, my head starts spinning at the thought of having to be accountable to someone, of not doing the things i love doing etc etc.
I really don't know how i'm going to get out of that mindset to be honest.
vinylgroover
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I'm the same. I'll find any excuse i can NOT to take a relationship further for fear of losing my freedom.
I don't like the situation i've got myself into.
biteme said:
I hear ya. I've been out with lots of nice women since my divorce. But unless it's someone that totally rocks my world, after a month or so, I'm ready to flee. I don't think I'll ever find a person like that again.
I'm the same. I'll find any excuse i can NOT to take a relationship further for fear of losing my freedom.
I don't like the situation i've got myself into.
PHATchik
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biteme said:
That's a good question...
To be perfectly honest, I wish for that sometimes and want it pretty badly. But then there are those times when I simply remember everything that has happened in the past when I have made attempts at opening up or falling in love. And the results from those attempts are not something that I wish to go through again. So I suppose I can say yes to all of the above.
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I know, I know. When you have loved someone with everything you have and you get burned, you may have the courage to try it again, but if it happens another time, if makes it really difficult to believe in love or that maybe even you are not worth loving. (Speaking for myself)
PHATchik said:
I know, I know. When you have loved someone with everything you have and you get burned, you may have the courage to try it again, but if it happens another time, if makes it really difficult to believe in love or that maybe even you are not worth loving. (Speaking for myself)
vinylgroover
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Babe, you're still very young and you have plenty of time ahead of you for love. Get things like your education finished off and set your career up before worrying about that.
PHATchik said:
Babe, you're still very young and you have plenty of time ahead of you for love. Get things like your education finished off and set your career up before worrying about that.
Bikini Mod
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For the first time in my life I am TERRIFIED of intimacy.
I don't want commitment.
I don't want love.
I don't even want sex.
I just want basic human kindness... and I even find a way to run scared when I get that. It's all good though... I have so much in my life now that is so much more important to focus on.
Someday I am sure that I will allow myself to get close to someone again, but I don't see that happening anytime soon.
I just wish that I could get into casual sex. My life would be so much fucking easier....
I don't want commitment.
I don't want love.
I don't even want sex.
I just want basic human kindness... and I even find a way to run scared when I get that. It's all good though... I have so much in my life now that is so much more important to focus on.
Someday I am sure that I will allow myself to get close to someone again, but I don't see that happening anytime soon.
I just wish that I could get into casual sex.
My life would be so much fucking easier....
bikinimom said:.
I just wish that I could get into casual sex.
It's not worth it anymore. People can usually never leave their feelings out of it. Someone usually gets hurt. But that urge is always there and as a man it's hard to ignore.
Bikini Mod
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I realize that I can NOT separate sex from intimacy so I am left with my toy.
Bikini Mod
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biteme said:
Maybe we oughtta co-miserate! LOL
vinylgroover
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bikinimom said:
I'll play with myself while you finger your ass......cool?
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Heheheheheee
vinylgroover
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bikinimom said:
You dirty little thing........you already had your finger in your ass didn't you
vinylgroover
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biteme said:
Your only hoping that because you've got your hand wrapped around your dick.
Bmom and i have got this telepathy thing going on. I know her every move and thought........so when she puts her finger in her ass, i know about it and respond in kind.......just ask her.
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DUSTY
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it takes time for the heart to heal bro. get over it and move on to the next hot chick.duritz said:
ANABOLICK1
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That post has my name on it !
vinylgroover said:
That post has my name on it !
Bikini Mod
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Biteme, I can't deny it... IT IS TRUE!!! Heheheheheheee
And believe it or not, YES I WAS A DIRTY LITTLE THING!!!
I swear VG baby - YOU'VE GOT MY NUMBER!!!!
And believe it or not, YES I WAS A DIRTY LITTLE THING!!!
I swear VG baby - YOU'VE GOT MY NUMBER!!!!
Puddles
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You should never have to give up doing the things you love just because you're in a relationship. That's just a recipe for disaster in the long run. Not sure what you meant by being accountable, but I know I don't mind where my husband is, he can go out with his friends without me, I just want to know where he's going so that if something happens, like a car wreck or mugging and he doesn't come home, I can find him. I'm a worry wart like that.
vinylgroover said:
You should never have to give up doing the things you love just because you're in a relationship. That's just a recipe for disaster in the long run. Not sure what you meant by being accountable, but I know I don't mind where my husband is, he can go out with his friends without me, I just want to know where he's going so that if something happens, like a car wreck or mugging and he doesn't come home, I can find him. I'm a worry wart like that.
Zander1983
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That's not being a worry wart. And ditto what you said about doing the things you love.
MrsPuddlesFL said:
That's not being a worry wart. And ditto what you said about doing the things you love.
vinylgroover
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that's what happens when you like your freedom to much.....takes alot of getting used to when you have to explain your movements to someone else. I better get used to it again though.
Hope you're well. Your absense has been noted.
MrsPuddlesFL said:
that's what happens when you like your freedom to much.....takes alot of getting used to when you have to explain your movements to someone else. I better get used to it again though.
Hope you're well. Your absense has been noted.
Steroid_Virgin
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bikinimom said:
that's why your moving to france?
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No silly. '
I DEFINITELY wouldn't choose Paris if the goal was basic human kindness... Are you kidding? Parisians are THE HAUGHTIEST PEEPS on the planet.... A FACT THAT THEY DON'T EVEN TRY TO DENY! HELL - THEY ARE SNOTTY TO EACH OTHER!!
I DEFINITELY wouldn't choose Paris if the goal was basic human kindness... Are you kidding? Parisians are THE HAUGHTIEST PEEPS on the planet.... A FACT THAT THEY DON'T EVEN TRY TO DENY! HELL - THEY ARE SNOTTY TO EACH OTHER!!
Steroid_Virgin
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bikinimom said:
Im going to copy this email and forward it to french embassy.. with a link to your website... <wink>
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