Should I have popped it?

[SoreArms]

When I was 22, I dated a 20 year old Virgin. After months of dating, she fell inlove with me and wanted me to pop her for valentines. I wasn't in love with her so I felt I would be doing her a dishonor by being her first so I didn't go through with it, after that, we stopped seeing each other. About a year later, I ran into her and we went out again a few times. Turns out, after I wouldn't hit it, she just wanted to be popped so a few months after we stopped talking some college dude got to bang her. She told me it sucked and it was meaningless. I felt bad when she told me that, maybe if I would have done it she would have atleast had a good memory of her first time. Anyways, she turned into a slut after that and you bet I hit it then.

You guys think I did the right thing by not doing it or hindsight being 20/20, should I have done it and in turn gave her a good memory of her first time?

 

[Becoming]

Anyways, she turned into a slut after that and you bet I hit it then.

yep definitely should have bro... and the turning into a slut thing always happens after the seal is broken... at least you could have gotten some clean new stuff...

but instead you got only seconds...

PWNED by self 098509275/075/098432/93

 

[gonelifting]

Maybe you should have told her you were`nt in love but you`ll do it anyway. If she goes for it, why not?

 

[Deleted member 33117]

You should have done it. I've never been with a virgin, so it would be an interesting experience. Most guys I've talked to say it sucks though. They just lay there and cry for the most part.

 

[Becoming]

They just lay there and cry for the most part.

Dude that is the fun part....? WTF?











j/k

 

[string_bean00]

Most guys I've talked to say it sucks though. They just lay there and cry for the most part.

Yeah, pretty much.

 

[SoreArms]

Well, aside from the "feelings" involved I also don't think I have the patience to teach or be nice and gentle with a virgin. My first experiences were with slutty chicks and I have accustomed myself to slutty sex. not that all my partners have to be sluts, but they have to be willing to get sweaty and raunchy (among other things). A virgin just wouldn't be up for it.

 

[Buddy_Christ]

similar situation, i was 16. i did pop it, however. no regrets. i didn't have very strong feelings towards her, she knew it, but she wanted to, so at 16, who was i to say no to a piece of ass?

 

[SoreArms]

similar situation, i was 16. i did pop it, however. no regrets. i didn't have very strong feelings towards her, she knew it, but she wanted to, so at 16, who was i to say no to a piece of ass?

at 16, I would have done it too. I hadn't yet been tainted with slutty sex.

 

[Buddy_Christ]

at 16, I would have done it too. I hadn't yet been tainted with slutty sex.

neither had i really.

this chick was something else. i was nice about the whole ordeal, and could tell it was hurting her. i asked her if she wanted to stop, but no, like a trooper she said "just keep going" while wincing and with tears practically running down her face. i was nice and cuddled with her that night when we fell asleep. i couldn't be a total asshole to her, after all, i had just gotten some and was pleased.

got her again about a week later, and she rode me like a champ.

 

[gonelifting]

Well, aside from the "feelings" involved I also don't think I have the patience to teach or be nice and gentle with a virgin. My first experiences were with slutty chicks and I have accustomed myself to slutty sex. not that all my partners have to be sluts, but they have to be willing to get sweaty and raunchy (among other things). A virgin just wouldn't be up for it.

I could turn any woman I`m with into a slut. (in the bedroom)

Why not be the one to make them love sex?

 

[chewyxrage]

Dude that is the fun part....? WTF?











j/k

LMAO

 

[BileStew]

I could turn any woman I`m with into a slut. (in the bedroom)

I thought you said all of your powertools were stolen?

 

[Buddy_Christ]

I thought you said all of your powertools were stolen?

they were afraid to steal the john holmes vibrator hooked up to the car battery. guess the brown film that covered it made them think twice about touching it.

 

[SoreArms]

I could turn any woman I`m with into a slut. (in the bedroom)

Why not be the one to make them love sex?

I've been with a couple of chicks with not much experience in their past and they sucked. They wiggled around all weird and thought that a lot of things I wanted to do were gross. Fuck that. Give me a chick who's as sexually perverted as me and it's on.

 

[Buddy_Christ]

I've been with a couple of chicks with not much experience in their past and they sucked. They wiggled around all weird and thought that a lot of things I wanted to do were gross. Fuck that. Give me a chick who's as sexually perverted as me and it's on.

i think the fun part is making them equally as sexually perverted. to me, it's an accomplishment.

 

[ChefWide]

You fuck the girls. I'll stay with women.

 

[SoKlueles]

Valentines day is a good day to lose your virginity to someone u love..... but if its meaningless, it sucks
you suck sorearms,jk you did a good thing

 

[hamstershaver]

how can you pass up some tight kitty, there is practically no tight kitty left in the world, only large, lip drooping, swallow your cock, kitty left, big mistake

 

[Becoming]

Give me a chick who's as sexually perverted as me and it's on.

So what you are saying is you would be down with one that had a 10 inch cack and liked to rail you in the pooper?

 

[SoreArms]

So what you are saying is you would be down with one that had a 10 inch cack and liked to rail you in the pooper?

as long as she cuddles me after

 

[Werd]

You fuck the girls. I'll stay with women.

And the young guys wonder why women like me prefer older men?



I have never been with a virgin, though I must admit that lately I have developed a fantasy about it. Then I get flashes of the dude shooting his load before he is able to finally nervously fumble his underoos to his knees and I am like, "And I want to do this because.....?"

 

[Robert Jan]

lol Werd not all virgin guys cum that fast, I didn't come that fast the first time.


anyway whats with all the value in virginity? What is this? Victorian England?

 

[Werd]

lol Werd not all virgin guys cum that fast, I didn't come that fast the first time.


anyway whats with all the value in virginity? What is this? Victorian England?

I am only going by what guys have told me about their first times. I have no experience with any man that was younger than 21 so I don't know.

The much older woman who told me "the value" of being with a young boy (16/17/18 y/o virgins) is that they "worship" you. I dunno, but that seems odd to me. Why would I, a grown woman, want to be "worshipped" by A BOY?! I find this idea as repulsive as I do much older men feeling the need to have young GIRLS on their arms. It is gross. Then again, I am considering the source of that information. She was A PIG. A very wealthy socialite who so fucking sexually harrassed the young waiters at the restaurant that we were at I wanted to slap her. If he were a man and the servers were female that sort of behavior would not have been tolerated... at least I don't think it would have been. God, I wanted to vomit. How sad that there are people that use their wealth and status to dehumanize others when they know damned well that those people would lose their jobs if they didn't tolerate their bullshit.

Sorry.... off topic, but it just REALLY pissed me off.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

I am only going by what guys have told me about their first times. I have no experience with any man that was younger than 21 so I don't know.

The much older woman who told me "the value" of being with a young boy (16/17/18 y/o virgins) is that they "worship" you. I dunno, but that seems odd to me. Why would I, a grown woman, want to be "worshipped" by A BOY?! I find this idea as repulsive as I do much older men feeling the need to have young GIRLS on their arms. It is gross. Then again, I am considering the source of that information. She was A PIG. A very wealthy socialite who so fucking sexually harrassed the young waiters at the restaurant that we were at I wanted to slap her. If he were a man and the servers were female that sort of behavior would not have been tolerated... at least I don't think it would have been. God, I wanted to vomit. How sad that there are people that use their wealth and status to dehumanize others when they know damned well that those people would lose their jobs if they didn't tolerate their bullshit.

Sorry.... off topic, but it just REALLY pissed me off.

I was a salesman for 3 years... there are alot more like her. Alot of women in the 35+ range will say alot of sexual things, and sometimes even grope you when you are trying to give them your sales pitch. Its like...damn.. just buy the freakin warranty already and get off of me. Never said that though... if I was friendly and let them get away with it they always seemed to buy whatever I recomended.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

.... and no before the accusations start I don't think that "means I'm a player". It happened to the other guys there also. It happened to I and one of the other guys who looked good, but the other guys I worked with did have it happen a few times as well, and one of them was by no means a player in any shape form or fashion.

 

[Werd]

I find that absolutely disgusting... It is one thing to tease a bit for either gender, but for fuck's sake - isn't it obvious when you are making someone unconfortable? What kind of pleasure comes from making someone feel like they are NOTHING... LESS THAN HUMAN?

I really felt badly for the guys. They were so notwantingthatattention but they had to tolerate it. This woman was very well-known. God, she was disgusting. She looked every bit her age and was just GROSS. Had she been more attractive would it have made it better? I don't think so. I have been on the opposite side of that since I was very young and I was NEVER flattered when somebody crossed the line, no matter how infatuated I was with him. Once it was obvious that they didn't care how they were making me feel I felt equally degraded.

 

[onebigab]

A few years ago I would of said yes. Prpbably would still say yes now. It depends. I find it more stimulating to be with an older woman. I feel that they are more sexier in every way. They do know how to please.

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

I would have

 

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I think you did the right thing by not hitting it then. You had no way of knowing that she would give it up to some random guy.

 

[danielson]

if a girl uses a big vibrator a few times before her first sexual experience does it make it less painful?

 

[Smurfy]

lol

 

[Buddy_Christ]

if a girl uses a big vibrator a few times before her first sexual experience does it make it less painful?

the real question is, if she uses a big vibrator before having sex, will she end up liking the vibrator more than the real thing?