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Should I cancel the flowers?

Crazier

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Saturday night I had a long talk with my ex, who is also my 4 year old daughter's mom. We have been split up for 3 years now. We talked, and basicly I told her how I feel about her, the mistakes I made, and the person I am now, and what I want for our family. She was a little surprised. We both still love each other, always have, but she is afraid of being hurt again. Opening herself to me would give that potential, in a big way. But, I also know what I've wanted for the past 3 years, and how bad it has hurt being away, from both of my precious girls.
I just ordered flowers that will be delivered tomorrow. Now, I'm nervous that may be too strong. I don't want to scare her. Should I cancel?
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If you are being and sincere with her, then I don't think it is wrong to send the flowers. She needs time to figure out what she wants hun. Believe me, when you have been hurt once, you don't want to go back down that road. This is something I am struggling with right now myself. Unfortunately, I have no clue what I am going to do. Good luck with yours though. I hope it works out.
 
That's great! Let the flowers get to her....if she feels like you do, she'll love them and I'd bet she'll even get emotional..
 
Thanks a lot guys. I needed reassurance. I'm nervous, so I'm getting paranoid. There is A LOT riding on this though... I've seen the two lives, you know like the movie Family Man. I've seen what it's like to be a bachelor, have a pimp pad with a buddy, bang different chics, freedom... but I've also felt what it feels like to be with a woman you truly love. Random sex doesn't compare.
It is different. When she drops by my work to drop off the car seat, or whatever, my heart skips a beat when I first see her.
A warm rush buzzes through my body. Same thing happened to me the first time I saw her. I can't imagine loving anyone more I love her. These are feelings that I've had, and supressed for the last two years. I needed time, but I knew all along, what I really wanted. Now it's time to step up to the plate. Oh, and not to mention I'd see my daughter about 260 days a year more than I do now.

Thanks guys!
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regret the things in life you did... don't regret the things you didn;t have the guts to try... trust me on that one
 
saint808 said:
regret the things in life you did... don't regret the things you didn;t have the guts to try... trust me on that one

It's not always so easy. :( Why do you think I am struggling?
 
It is very important to women for a man to admit his mistakes and appologize. By all means send the flowers! Good luck to you bro, I hope everything works out for you. I bet she will be touched by the flowers.
 
i agree. send the flowers! there is absolutely nothing wrong with expresing your feelings. always be honest with YOURSELF, otherwise you are doing yourself an injustice. and if she feels the same way, she should love it! good luck to you! :)
 
send the flowers, every girl melts when they get them. You are lucky to get another chance, take advantage of it - treat her well.
 
YOU SHOULD GRAB YOUR BALLS AND STOP BEING A BITCH!!! BTW.....HOW OLD ARE YOU? I THOUGHT YOU WERE LIKE 20 OR SOME SHIT!!!



KAYNE
 
DONT TRY TOO DAMN HARD, SHE WILL JUST TAKE ADVANTAGE OF IT. YOU TOLD HER HOW YOU FEEL NOW THE BALL IS IN HER COURT.




KAYNE
 
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