I hear ya bro, I am having the same problem with my lady. Are your packages coming foreign or domestic? If they are domestic, then a PO box is just fine. If they are coming from a foreign source, i would use the home adress and get a good idea of when it should arrive. i personally believe that a PO box gets more attention from customs. you could also have them sent to a friends house with your name on the package, as long as your friend is down with that. if it is domestic, you have nothing to worry about.