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georgie24

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we been together for 5 months already. she wants to get married and is very serious about it. im not at all ready to be a husband im only 24 fuck that! we had a fight last night she of course cried and said she was hurt. when our conversation on the phone ended last night she gave me an ultimadum..the only way she will see me again is if i ask her to marry her:confused: this whole wedding thing was her idea to start with. i guess im single tonight eh
 
This is the one that's cheating on you? Or was she?

Don't you think this relationship is turning a little dysfuntional, regardless of the length of time you're been with her?
 
If ever doubt runs through your mind then the situation being pondered is not right, marry when you are ready, tell her ultimatums are not part of a healthy relationship and show disrespect, "disrespect" is not part of a relationship either. peace
 
do what a lot of other people do, marry her , then use her as a tool, swap her out for other women at swapping parties , then its never like your married anyways, she get other dicks and you get all types of strange pussy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
vixenbabe said:
Single tonight? I'd be saying," I'm single AGAIN" right now!

You need to run...and run fast......
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Why are you showing us your IQ number in that avatar, we already know it.
 
Re: yea she's the one

georgie24 said:
yea she's the one...i have not found any evidence of cheating
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Sometimes instinct is as good as evidence brother. Do you have a "funny feeling" that she cheated(or is/was cheating) on you? I find that unless you are one of the ourageously paranoid, that sometimes you just know shit has happened because of her actions, and the way her attitude might have rubbed you to give you such a feeling. You need to get out of this Fatal Attraction before she kills your pet bunny, and you end up having the drown the crazy bitch in your bathtub.
 
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Bite it Havoc.....;-)

Georgie24...I understand it's not easy... But .....How can ANYTHING GOOD come out of this relationship? It's sounds dooooomed from the start. Sad.

Cut the losses and move on. You'll be doing the BOTH of you a favor in the long run....

Good luck!
 
Don´t let yourself get forced into a marriage because it wont last.
You´d been dating for 5months, right? That would be too soon for me to know if it was the right girl for me.
If she uses threats to get her way then what will prevent her from using that method again when you´re married?

If I had the same problem, what advice would you give me?
 
tell the two timing, lying, cheating, manuipulative BITCH "if the phone don't ring, you'll know it's me!"

this.........person......... will make your life a living hell, and divorce you 5 years later, robbing you of all your money and self respect.
 
georgie24 said:
i feel as if she is not leaving me any room walk.. its either her way or no way...what a bitch
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She´s not!
Don´t let her decide you future. If she loves you then she´ll be crawling back to you later.
 
tell her about the "feeling" you had of her cheating on you.. pretend that it is what is holding you up on the marriage thing.. tell her that she has to prove to you that she is not cheating.. make sure to tell her how much you love her the whole time.

Tell her about how much time you spent wondering if she was with some other guy... make it juicy.. she will be backing off in no time!!!
 
havoc said:
If ever doubt runs through your mind then the situation being pondered is not right, marry when you are ready, tell her ultimatums are not part of a healthy relationship and show disrespect, "disrespect" is not part of a relationship either. peace
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Copy and print this..........
 
rnch said:
tell the two timing, lying, cheating, manuipulative BITCH "if the phone don't ring, you'll know it's me!"

this.........person......... will make your life a living hell, and divorce you 5 years later, robbing you of all your money and self respect.
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Heed these words... if she is issuing you ultimatums now, she will be doing it after you are married, hanging the threat of divorce over your head.

Dump this bitch. NOW!! This is YOUR LIFE that is going to be impacted here. This is not a video game. There are no restarts, no time outs, no pauses, no refunds. You only have XXX amount of days to live, never live one of those days in a situation that you do NOT want to be in.

If you call this bitch back and I were to know about it, I would personally come over and break your thumbs. She is poisoning you and you are allowing her to do it.
 
aside from all the retardedness of the cheating issue, what is "i'm not gonna see you again unless you're going to ask me to marry you" all about? lmao that is the most ridiculous bullshit i've ever heard. i'd be saying "Buh bye!" faster than vixenbabe when she's just finished shooting a gang bang porn scene and is late to pick up her daughter. ultimatums don't sit well with me to begin with, but a female *demanding* a marriage proposal after 5 months of dating? lololololol
it's your life and marriage is a biiiiiiiiiig decision. too many couples don't realize how big it is, and that's why our the divorce rate is what it is. georgie georgie puddin 'n pie, you should definitely reevaluate things with this female.
 
supersizeme said:
aside from all the retardedness of the cheating issue, what is "i'm not gonna see you again unless you're going to ask me to marry you" all about? lmao that is the most ridiculous bullshit i've ever heard. i'd be saying "Buh bye!" faster than vixenbabe when she's just finished shooting a gang bang porn scene and is late to pick up her daughter. ultimatums don't sit well with me to begin with, but a female *demanding* a marriage proposal after 5 months of dating? lololololol
it's your life and marriage is a biiiiiiiiiig decision. too many couples don't realize how big it is, and that's why our the divorce rate is what it is. georgie georgie puddin 'n pie, you should definitely reevaluate things with this female.
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BINGO...

unless she is Britney Spears or somthing...
 
Jae said:


Heed these words... if she is issuing you ultimatums now, she will be doing it after you are married, hanging the threat of divorce over your head.

Dump this bitch. NOW!! This is YOUR LIFE that is going to be impacted here. This is not a video game. There are no restarts, no time outs, no pauses, no refunds. You only have XXX amount of days to live, never live one of those days in a situation that you do NOT want to be in.

If you call this bitch back and I were to know about it, I would personally come over and break your thumbs. She is poisoning you and you are allowing her to do it.
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Its my inexperience working against me here
 
Georgie Georgie puddin pie
you kissed the girl now tell her bye
all the pain will go away
and you'll fall in love another day.
THEN THE CYCLE STARTS AGAIN.. BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAA
 
End it, and dont forget to post pics of her tits.
 
Personally, I don't respond well to ultimatums.
but that said...

I can also understand where she's coming from.
She's hears her clock ticking.
She's 24 and has seen the statistics.
If a woman isn't married by the age of 30, she's likely to remain single forever.
She has 6 more years, and her chances get worse each year.

So, are you a serious candidate worthy of her investing more of her precious dwindeling time,
or aren't you ? She needs an indication.
I'm betting if you let her know you're seriously not wasting her time, she'd back off the ultimatums.
And if you are aren't serious, you are wasting her time. Cut her loose.
 
G, are you fucking retarded or something! I understand love is blind and shit bro, but enough is enough. Everyday you post about this fucking soap opera your going through. Is this really how you wanna live your life! Wake the fuck up man, jesus, peace this chick already!!!
 
Her ultimatum is a joke! Just continue to fuck her, while *never* compromising your dignity. If/when she leaves, you will have won. No need to feign interest in marriage! Besides, she might think you are a joke if you actually give into her tactics. She sounds like a girl who needs/wants to be put down once in a while.
 
georgie24 said:
we been together for 5 months already. she wants to get married and is very serious about it. im not at all ready to be a husband im only 24 fuck that! we had a fight last night she of course cried and said she was hurt. when our conversation on the phone ended last night she gave me an ultimadum..the only way she will see me again is if i ask her to marry her:confused: this whole wedding thing was her idea to start with. i guess im single tonight eh
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Don't be an idiot! Do you love her and want to spend your life with the ULTIMATUM bitch?...then marry her.

If not, buddy, start running NOW!!

Ready, set............go !!!!

:D :D :D
 
knight69 said:
do what a lot of other people do, marry her , then use her as a tool, swap her out for other women at swapping parties , then its never like your married anyways, she get other dicks and you get all types of strange pussy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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i think i hate you.. :o
 
georgie24 your a good bro and all but you seem to have little self estem

don't make the biggest mistake of your life, this girl is NOT the one. shes crazy
 
George, get out of this. She is threatening you to get married because she doesn't want to be alone. How can you live with somebody who isn't quite independent and needs your attention all the time? I shudder to think what would happen if you got hitched to her.
 
marry her!!!!!!!!!!!! hell at least its pussy there in bed every nite, and you get tired of it swap the shit out and get something different.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
I anticipate P60 making these exact same posts in about 4-5 years.
 
georgie24 said:
i feel as if she is not leaving me any room walk.. its either her way or no way...what a bitch
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oh yeah.............



SHE'S the one.

:rolleyes:



























Call me crazy but I would be seriously thinking about NOT marrying this one.
 
An ultimatum after only 5 months? I could see if it's been a few years! Do not let her manipulate you! This girl sounds incredibly needy. I doubt even she knows for sure if you're 'the one' after dating for only 5 months.
 
5 months?



It took me 3 months just to find a pepper mill worth buying.
And at least the peppercorns at home weren't nagging me every night.
 
lmao.....
I kinda suspect hes joking G.
 
Holy fuck you're naive georgie lol.....READ THAT POST MOTHERFUCKER!!!!!!!!!!!! It'll save your life
 
Frackal said:
Holy fuck you're naive georgie
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No shit.
I think maybe Georges 14 year old brother has started to sign into Georges account.
 
Eww!!!!

I would never say YOU MUST PROPOSE now!

What fun is that???

1. It makes you weak and she'll always have control

2. It takes all the romance and surprise out of it

3. It's just freaking stupid
 
Pink Space Biscuit said:
Eww!!!!

I would never say YOU MUST PROPOSE now!

What fun is that???

1. It makes you weak and she'll always have control

2. It takes all the romance and surprise out of it

3. It's just freaking stupid
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thats the way i feel...exactly whats the fun and romance
 
For gods sake man, just by the fact that she demanded this shows you need to get the hell out of this, did you read the post or what man
 
vixenbabe said:
Single tonight? I'd be saying," I'm single AGAIN" right now!

You need to run...and run fast......
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Can I get an

A -FUCKIN' -MEN?!

ANY FEMALE that would feel the need to deliver an ultimatum about marriage is PATHETIC!

Yes, you heard correctly:

PATHETIC

If the case were that you guys have been dating for like 5 thousand years and she is like, "Marry me or we are over"... She is STILL PATHETIC IMHO...

When a man meets a woman that he wants to spend the rest of his life with and THEY BOTH wish to make it "legal" there is NEVER a need for ultimatums. I mean, sweet JESUS, don't people ever have normal conversations anymore? :rolleyes:
 
Come on man! You can't be this naive! He was just joking! I'm sure you're a great person and would make a woman very happy some day but this is NOT the way to do it. You should never EVER give in this kind of demand from a woman. If you do, it just means your allowing her to drag you around by your balls until shes through with you. What kind of a life is that? I would rather stay single & never marry than risk that kind B.S.

Good luck man
 
velvett said:
5 months?



It took me 3 months just to find a pepper mill worth buying.
And at least the peppercorns at home weren't nagging me every night.
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Commitment phobic are we???
 
fistfullofsteel said:
she sounds like a loser. not be direspectful or anything. i would 86 her.
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aint got it straight have ya....it's

69 Asshat
 
Although I think that at 5 months, even talk or planning of a wedding is a little silly, I for one as well as many women I know pretty much have to set down the marry me or it is over bullshit...

I think everyone here screaming that the ultamatium is evidence of a sick realtionship, (and I have not read any other post about this guys realtionship, so I am sure I am a tad misinformed) I have been in a realtionship for 2(living together) years, setting wedding dates dealing with controlling inlaws, and finally just said, look if we are not married by such and such a date, it is OVER...After reading this thread, I felt like a immature bitch, but sometimes a girl has to say, He dude, I love ya, but yeah, if you can't commit we have to call it quits..

Then again he kept on saying he "wanted to get married" but something always "CAME UP" and it just felt like he was stalling for time. He is in the military, and I am expected to give up my plans in order to futher him, so the I start planning my life for just me, or marriage helps me include him in the future...We are not married yet, but he says he wants to be, I can't live the next year with that....I am out, and off to school in the southwest, if we are not married...Am I so bad?????

What is wrong with noticing the different values, plans and opionions of a partner, and realizing they may not have the same plans,and you would like to keep your options open to have a fulfilling realtionship with somone on the same page as you...

You don't know how many people I know who were married, or thrown into a realtionship because the chick got preggos, that hurts a lot of people, not to mention the kid when mommy and daddy did'nt even know that each other was a crazy fuck before they concieved JR. and now they are battling each other in court, and using the kid against one another...I have seen some painful shit, and it is not worth it...


Sometimes there is a place for ultamatiums, bikinimom, you are one sassy bright lady, but it is offensive to drop a blanket judgment on all people all the time, and from what I see a smart women in a long term living toghter realtionship is entitled to ask for a proposal after a few years, or to say she is GETTING OUT>
MY 0.2

DON"T lead this girl on, either be SERIOUS about her long term, and tell her so....OR say, I AM NOT LOOKING TO GET MARRIED...No matter what happens don't be a coward, the truth will always rear it's head in a realtionship when lies are told to keep it together out of FEAR of losing someone...Take it from me....hard to recover from that crap....
 
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ariel said:
Sometimes there is a place for ultamatiums, bikinimom, you are one sassy bright lady, but it is offensive to drop a blanket judgment on all people all the time, and from what I see a smart women in a long term living toghter realtionship is entitled to ask for a proposal after a few years, or to say she is GETTING OUT>
MY 0.2
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I can understand what you are saying BUT...

If you NEED to deliver an ultimatum, the relationship IS DEAD IN THE WATER.

I lived w/my (somedaytob exhusband, yes I have been TRYING LIKE A MOTHERFUCKER to divorce him for nearly 2 years now) for 1 1/2 years before we legally married HOWEVER, I moved in with him TELLING HIM UPFRONT that I was NOT "PLAYING HOUSE". He knew full well that the ring should come sometime shortly after we moved in together.

I was not the one that was in a hurry to move in with him - HE WANTED ME THERE. I had a place to live in my parents home but HE INSISTED THAT I MOVE IN. I told him fine, but this was not a "trial marriage". I told him from the getco that as far as I was concerned I was TOTALLY committed to our relationship from the moment that I moved in with him. To me, we were as good as married. He did propose within 3 months and wanted to be married within the next 6. Like AN IMBECILE I wanted to wait because "what would people think" goes to show how immature I was. For Christ's sake WE WERE LIVING TOGETHER! DID IT REALLY MATTER?!... :rolleyes: Besides, I did not want to elope ( big FAT FUCKIN mistake) but wanted a nice wedding. As dates would have it, we ended up waiting another year and some odd TORTUROUS months before the affair took place.

I don't understand why you moved in with your guy if you did not tell him UP FRONT that you fully expected to be married w/in an acceptable amount of time.

Now EVERY GUY I get a little serious with (my honey and I are VERY serious) I will not sleep under one roof with him and my children unless we are LEGALLY MARRIED - PERIOD. See, no misunderstanding, no drama, no bullshit.

So.... if the parties are honest UP FRONT then there are no wasted years of waiting for either party to legally commit.

If a girl so young is pushing this guy for marriage after 5 months then she is WACKED, pure and simple.

....just my .02
 
Georgie isn't dumb, I know guys who were hassled into marriage at a young age and didn't wise up for a couple of years. Man are those guys bitter. Citruscide is all sweetness and light compared to those guys.

There is a certain type of woman (this does not apply to all women). She is 24-26. She really doesn't have much happening in her life. Her friends start getting engaged. They get a nice new shiny ring. They get tons of attention. They start planning a wedding. She wants some of that too. I'd bet any money Georgie's girl has a friend who recently got engaged.

Any man will do. When they get that wedding fever going, women will marry the next guy that comes along who satisfies some rudimentary economic benchmarks (like 2 month salary better be up to par for the ring).

Women are very competitive with each other, and the point is the wedding, not the marriage, they want the ring, the dress, the cake, all of that shit. The man is just a fixture, a cardboard cut-out would do just as well. These guys always have a dazed expression, they are just puppets on a string.

Women get huge social validation from getting married, it's like they have proved their worth as a person to all the other jealous, conniving, backbiting, gossiping, gold-digging, phony, two-faced cunts they have as "friends".

So what do these women do for an encore when all the cunt friends have oohed and aahed over the wedding gifts? They have a kid. They get to be a mini-celebrity again for a little while. The man is not consulted about this either, his wishes do not count when she is looking for more attention. The marriage doesn't last much after that usually.

Oh yeah, these chicks always seem to get fat, and look frumpy and middle aged and wear hand-knitted Christmas sweaters and shit by the time they are 27, or have their second kid, whichever comes first.
 
Yep, they are called predatory females, and all should be burned
 
Doktor Bollix said:
There is a certain type of woman (this does not apply to all women). She is 24-26. She really doesn't have much happening in her life. Her friends start getting engaged. They get a nice new shiny ring. They get tons of attention. They start planning a wedding. She wants some of that too. I'd bet any money Georgie's girl has a friend who recently got engaged...[snip]


Women are very competitive with each other, and the point is the wedding, not the marriage, they want the ring, the dress, the cake, all of that shit. The man is just a fixture, a cardboard cut-out would do just as well. These guys always have a dazed expression, they are just puppets on a string.

Women get huge social validation from getting married, it's like they have proved their worth as a person to all the other jealous, conniving, backbiting, gossiping, gold-digging, phony, two-faced cunts they have as "friends".

So what do these women do for an encore when all the cunt friends have oohed and aahed over the wedding gifts? They have a kid. They get to be a mini-celebrity again for a little while. The man is not consulted about this either, his wishes do not count when she is looking for more attention. The marriage doesn't last much after that usually.
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Damn.

It's true, it's all true.


I was the big loser in my twenties, I didn't want to get married I wanted to travel. All my gal pals got married and I was the one that no one knew what to do with... (Thank GOD I never married - I would have never been able to stay married.)

What goes around comes around - all - yep ALL my girlfriends from college are either divorced, getting divorced or remarried for the second time and they still don't know who the hell they are as a person.

It's a double edged sword either way, get married young you're the hot little wifey and divorced or miserable ten years later. Wait ten years later to get married and there's either no one to marry or he/she's got so much baggage you don't know whether you should marry them or they don't know whether they could do it all over again.

There's really no right way I suppose and what really gets me it that it's beaten into girls that they need to look and act a certain way so they can be acceptable and good enough to marry. Then when they don't they are lead to believe that they lack any worth because they don't have man to make them whole.
 
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