Not sure I consider what she did cheating. She did it for a good reason...I'm irresistable. Seriously though, she told me she was thinking it may be time to move on so she was playing her cards...And I hapen to be in her hand. It does'nt concern me that she "cheated" with me because she did it for a reason that she informed me of. I knew why she was at my place with me. If stud can't give her what she needs then it's his loss. I got the impression she wants to move on, but she is comfortable in a realtionship and is scared. I get the feeling she wants to give me a try, but we have to slow things down so she can rationally think this major decision through. I would'nt mind giving it a shot with her, but I don't won't to feel like I'm forcing her. She was with me for a reason and that's why I think I should go after this even though she's "unavailible".