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She has a boyfriend.

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About three weeks ago now I started up a conversation with this incredibly gorgeous girl who I had never met but I've had my eye on for a while. I see her on campus all the time so went up and talked to her. I made my intentions clear...I wanted to go out with her sometime. During our conversing things were freindly. I was informed at this time she wasn't single, but little did this deter me. After she told me she had a boyfriend she gave me her number and told me she would be home, doing nothing that night...hint, hint. call me. I did and to my delight we hit it off very well. She called me the next day and I told her to come over to my place...She more than happily agreed. She came over....we got along very well, matched very well, entertained each other very well, and all this led to physicalities. She wanted a massage...which of course was not only a massage shortly after it started. We stopped short of massaging certain internal cavities with a specialized "massaging rod", but none the less things got hot. She liked me...She really liked me! So I proceed to call her a couple days later and we chat for a few, but she had arands to tend to so she couldn't do anything. I see her on campus a couple days later and ask her if she wants to get together again. She was different around me, reserved, and it was obvious at this point she felt guilty(the whole boyfriend distraction) so she said it wasn't a good idea. But she said we should "study" together. So we are indeed going to partake in educational enlightnment sesions together(next week). Things moved at a blistering pace at first which I think scared her. She is in a relationship after all. So we're going to study together. Maybe this is her way of slowing things down? Maybe she just means study? Who here thinks I should persue this? Slow things down a bit by just "studying" together, but still making the effort to get to know her and get more personal with her. I want to, but is it wise if she's in a relationship...which she has doubts about? This girl is breathtakingly hot and so far fun to be around and we get along very well...so far...but we honestly don't know each other all that well yet, so is this a stall tactic on her part? Should I go after this, or would it be wise to move on?
 
wish the best but i got sorta the same problem so i will pass on the advice, but good luck and dont push it if you are just getting to know her. mine was a 2 year relationship so i can push but you cant.;)
 
Perhaps you should reassure her that whatever she feels comfortable doing, you will support her. She sounds like she likes you a lot but needs to put some things into perspective....such as who she wants to be with.

Keep things casual and everything will work out.
 
You really suck man...she's taken! She sucks even more for messing around behind her boyfriend's back...she's trash! Why would you want a girl like that?
 
I realize that this is a college romance, but do you really want
her as your girlfriend?

It's like the saying goes....If she will cheat with you, then she will
cheat on you.
 
Not sure I consider what she did cheating. She did it for a good reason...I'm irresistable. Seriously though, she told me she was thinking it may be time to move on so she was playing her cards...And I hapen to be in her hand. It does'nt concern me that she "cheated" with me because she did it for a reason that she informed me of. I knew why she was at my place with me. If stud can't give her what she needs then it's his loss. I got the impression she wants to move on, but she is comfortable in a realtionship and is scared. I get the feeling she wants to give me a try, but we have to slow things down so she can rationally think this major decision through. I would'nt mind giving it a shot with her, but I don't won't to feel like I'm forcing her. She was with me for a reason and that's why I think I should go after this even though she's "unavailible".
 
I would say back off but only with one exception.

If her boyfriend is some cocksucking asshole by all means steal her away if you can.

If not then he does not deserve this, she should no better and so should you.
 
Milhouse hit it right...if he's a dick...but how do you know for sure...the correct thing to do is wait until it's over.

If not then your just a fucking dick, with no respect...And shes a cunt whore...A relationship has 2 people in it, at one point she wanted to be with this guy...she probley spent his money and what not...give him his due...

wait until it's over...
 
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What is this fucking shit...if there is truly a good reason for her not to be with him than pursue it, if you really, really like this girl, pursue it, but if she's just a fucktoy, don't mess with her.
 
Bro I respect your knowledge on AAS but on this matter I disagree. You're the type of guy that makes us good guys look bad. If a girl has a boyfriend then leave her alone. It's all about respect. You'd rethink your motives if the guy she's dating ends up being some badass grappling guy or some mofo that kicks your ass. There's plenty other bitches that are single to go after.
 
I was gonna say what Frackal said.

If she'll cheat with you, she'll cheat on you!!! If u get together, and she does, I just don't wanna hear you bitch about it, Ill only say I told you so
 
Well, you can look at it a few ways.

1) I don't care what you all did together...any emotional involvement with someone else besides your boy/girl friend at that time is considered cheating. The bitch needs to just tell her man that she needs some time to figure things out...then she can mess with you. Damn...fuckin' cheaters piss me the hell off. Once a cheater...most of the time...always a cheater.

2) You could just become good friends with her. Go to her house and study...continue to hang out with her. If she sees things in you that she likes and her current beau doesn't have...well then...you did good. Don't fuck with her until she gets rid of him...that makes you look bad, too.

3) You could just say fuck it and go right for it. Then you would be an asshole for trying to get another guys woman, and she would be a slut for not being honest with her man and leaving him first.

Just my .02
 
Night Fly said:
Well, you can look at it a few ways.

2) You could just become good friends with her. Go to her house and study...continue to hang out with her. If she sees things in you that she likes and her current beau doesn't have...well then...you did good. Don't fuck with her until she gets rid of him...that makes you look bad, too.


IMO...the best advice...but then again what the hell do I know??!:confused:
 
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