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Serious question for the ladies
- Thread starter pdaddy
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Men try to engage women in logical conversations and interactions because that's where they feel comfortable... not knowing that they're shooting themselves in the foot by doing it! When you start a logical conversation with a woman you've just met, you are basically taking out a NEON SIGN that says "I don't get it when it comes to women" and putting it on your head.
Typical "logical" conversations include talking about work, family, school, and jobs... discussing politics, religion, weather... and anything that has to do with math, science, or intelligence.
On the other hand, if you start talking to a woman and you say "OK, so tell me something... Why is it that all women say that they want sweet, nice guys... but they all date sexy, selfish bad boys?" (and then make fun of any answer she gives) you're having an emotional conversation.
Typical "logical" conversations include talking about work, family, school, and jobs... discussing politics, religion, weather... and anything that has to do with math, science, or intelligence.
On the other hand, if you start talking to a woman and you say "OK, so tell me something... Why is it that all women say that they want sweet, nice guys... but they all date sexy, selfish bad boys?" (and then make fun of any answer she gives) you're having an emotional conversation.
A man that makes me feel pasion is more often then not someone that make me think as well.
OK, let me ask the guys a trick question:
If I told you that you were going to have a date with the supermodel of your choice, which of the following would you choose as a "smart" way of preparing:
1) Find out what her favorite type of flowers are, and show up with a dozen of them so she would be "wowed".
2) Learn about her favorite travel destination so you could discuss it with her.
3) Find out what her favorite type of food is so you could take her to dinner... and she could see that you cared enough to choose something that she enjoyed.
OK, time's up. Which did you choose?
If I told you that you were going to have a date with the supermodel of your choice, which of the following would you choose as a "smart" way of preparing:
1) Find out what her favorite type of flowers are, and show up with a dozen of them so she would be "wowed".
2) Learn about her favorite travel destination so you could discuss it with her.
3) Find out what her favorite type of food is so you could take her to dinner... and she could see that you cared enough to choose something that she enjoyed.
OK, time's up. Which did you choose?
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pdaddy said:
Flowers, but even they suck.
If she's a model, she aint gonna eat. If you talk about travelling with her, you're gonna scare her off if its a first date...although, she may be a gold digger (maybe not, but she aint hangin' wit no broke niggas) and reap the benefits.
ceasar989 said:
Wrong, it was a trick question.
The answer is none of the above. Why?
These three options all seemed logical, right?
I mean, why wouldn't you want to show up with her favorite flowers? Why wouldn't you want to talk about her favorite places to travel? Why wouldn't you want to take her to eat her favorite foods so she enjoyed herself?
Go with me here...
Guys think that they're being clever when they do things like buying a woman her favorite flowers... and bringing them to the first date. Right?
In their minds, they're thinking "I'm going to be the guy who is thinking ahead... and I'm going to show up with the flowers that I know she loves... and she's going to see them and like me more because of it". Makes sense... good math, right?
Well the one teensy-weensy mistake that guys make is not realizing that it doesn't actually take a smart person to think like this!
In fact, any jackass can figure out how to kiss a woman's ass. And guess what? Women know this, don't you ladies? And ever douchebag does this shit. The average guy, in his proud arrogance, will think he's being such the charmer by using this "thoughtful" approach...
...and the woman he is chasing will interpret it as just another dick who's trying to manipulate her.
It's all a bunch of crap.
