saying no....

[puddlemonkey]

No is such a filthy word.

 

[blueta2]

why do I feel guilty? I never feel guilty for this kinda shit.

I want to be there for her and support her, but I'm staring to dislike her a little bit.

I feel awful for even thinking about her this way, this sweet girl.

Guilt is a misguided emotion. There is something else buggin you it seems.

We all have a right to be selfish, because sometimes being self centered retains our self-preservation

 

[timtim]

my wife is going through this currently. the wedding is this weekend.

besides being expected to stop everything for this bitch, we have been told:

you cannot stay at the hotel the night before the wedding
you cant use the same hair stylist as the bride
you must wear a shaul over the dress (my wife is pretty lean and ripped, the bride is fat, she said she doesnt want people to see the muscles)
you are expected to be at the hotal at 7 am for a 7 pm wedding

fuck these crazy people.

 

[EnderJE]

Wait a second. You have a problem saying no?

Post nudes.

 

[walliwalibus]

NO. Nah, can't do it. Fuck that, its all the same.

 

[cindylou]

my wife is going through this currently. the wedding is this weekend.

besides being expected to stop everything for this bitch, we have been told:

you cannot stay at the hotel the night before the wedding
you cant use the same hair stylist as the bride
you must wear a shaul over the dress (my wife is pretty lean and ripped, the bride is fat, she said she doesnt want people to see the muscles)
you are expected to be at the hotal at 7 am for a 7 pm wedding

fuck these crazy people.

I know. Brides are getting rediculous

i never did this stuff to my bridesmaids

they also expect it, not appreciate it.

i do not think i will accept another bridesmaid offer

they turn the sweetest girls into something else

 

[timtim]

I know. Brides are getting rediculous

i never did this stuff to my bridesmaids

they also expect it, not appreciate it.

i do not think i will accept another bridesmaid offer

they turn the sweetest girls into something else

this is my wifes last one. waste of time, money, and brain cells listening to these ridiculous demands.

 

[OneBreath]

I have no problem saying no, but it took me years to master it

No you're not bad for saying no.

hmmmm, do you think that's related to the religion thread. I can recall from childhood the preachers wife calling and asking me to play the piano at church. No was not an option.

Its taken me a long time too. Why is it that we let guilt drive us so?

 

[blueta2]

http://www.grape-juice.ca/wp-content/uploads/2008/01/just-say-no.jpg

 

[blueta2]

hmmmm, do you think that's related to the religion thread. I can recall from childhood the preachers wife calling and asking me to play the piano at church. No was not an option.

Its taken me a long time too. Why is it that we let guilt drive us so?

When I was younger, I needed/wanted EVERYONE to like me, so I never said no. I was always the taxi service for my friends (I had a car, they never did), I would lend money etc.
I wanted so bad to be liked.
Well, as I got older, I realized, self preservation was way more attractive to me than caring what others thought so I just one day said "no"

I have less and less guilt as I evolve