No dear, yours. You involved yourself in a situation that you had no business being involved in. If you were to have a problem with someone on this board I certainly wouldn't get involved, unless you pull an Omega and start lording your untouchable COTB status all over everyone.
It is neither your business or responsibility to tell me how to act toward anyone on this board, other than how I should treat YOU. And nothing gives you the right to judge me or my actions. You Do Not Know Me. That's the problem with this country, they don't understand when to get involved and when to mind their own damn business.
You are not HRs husband, boyfriend or daddy. Moreover, she is an adult woman, trained in the art of verbal combat, and should be more than capable of handling anything I dish out. Finally, the fact of the matter is she is a Plat and could have put me on Ignore a long time ago. She most certainly has no need of your intervention.
The person who mis-stepped their boundaries was you.