relationships.

[hookuprx]

First off I need to apologize. It is 9am and I am drunk - mid cycle. I know. I am depressed - just started drinking like an hour ago when I woke up. I need some advice. I dont think I have posted over here before- I always post on anabolic - but I need your help

I have been seeing this girl for like 8 months now and I do everything for her. I try to be crazy romantic, I take her on vacations and to bed and breakfasts, and spend mad loot on her. I have a pretty good job and we live in a highrise apt in downton (grand rapids, mi). Anyways, we started off really heavy - lots of affection, etc - We would kiss for hours literally, and have sex - 2, 3 times a day. Now things dont seem the same and I feel like she doesnt love me as much? I have never been with a girl that I havent been able to arouse or turn on. She doesnt seem that interested in me - Also I am doing fina only, so it isnt like I am wanting sex 5 times a day like test. I just feel really displaced. I want her affection but she isnt giving it to me, and I have never had a girl not be interested in me. It hurts - if you have any ideas please help.

 

[alexiarenee]

I don't know what to say...
Maybe you gave too much, and it has gotten old for her...
maybe she's not interested anymore....
Who knows...
Don't call her for like 5 days......that will make her wake up. Trust me.

 

[Sexual Mustard]

My friend, you are starting to experience what many of the "nice" guys have, and are starting to realize that nice guys finish last. My ex was like that; at the beginning the bitch would complain about how all she ever dated was assholes, liars, and cheats. Then she met me, a nice guy. Needless to say, she treated me like shit and dumped me and started hanging out with the assholes again. Beat her. Women suck.

 

[naturally anabolic]

My friend, you are starting to experience what many of the "nice" guys have, and are starting to realize that nice guys finish last. My ex was like that; at the beginning the bitch would complain about how all she ever dated was assholes, liars, and cheats. Then she met me, a nice guy. Needless to say, she treated me like shit and dumped me and started hanging out with the assholes again. Beat her. Women suck.

agree with everything cept the beating part....

 

[Citruscide]

My friend, you are starting to experience what many of the "nice" guys have, and are starting to realize that nice guys finish last. My ex was like that; at the beginning the bitch would complain about how all she ever dated was assholes, liars, and cheats. Then she met me, a nice guy. Needless to say, she treated me like shit and dumped me and started hanging out with the assholes again. Beat her. Women suck.

LOL... I love ya SM...

You make me wonder if perhaps I should throw in a little bit of meanness? The last thing I would want would be to have my GF just get sick of me treating her nice...

Damn.

C

 

[Sexual Mustard]

Hey, they're the ones complaining about being treated equally! So I'll beat 'em like a man!

 

[Citruscide]

Hey, they're the ones complaining about being treated equally! So I'll beat 'em like a man!

That's why I don't like feminists... they want equal treatment... but don't necessiarly want all that goes along with it... -- ass whoopings, paying for dinner, opening doors 1/2 the time, and so on and so on...

There is a difference between a STRONG woman, and a feminist... feminists, I really don't have a taste for... they seem to be contradictory at every turn in the road.

C

 

[ccc]

First off I need to apologize. It is 9am and I am drunk - mid cycle. I know. I am depressed - just started drinking like an hour ago when I woke up. I need some advice. I dont think I have posted over here before- I always post on anabolic - but I need your help

I have been seeing this girl for like 8 months now and I do everything for her. I try to be crazy romantic, I take her on vacations and to bed and breakfasts, and spend mad loot on her. I have a pretty good job and we live in a highrise apt in downton (grand rapids, mi). Anyways, we started off really heavy - lots of affection, etc - We would kiss for hours literally, and have sex - 2, 3 times a day. Now things dont seem the same and I feel like she doesnt love me as much? I have never been with a girl that I havent been able to arouse or turn on. She doesnt seem that interested in me - Also I am doing fina only, so it isnt like I am wanting sex 5 times a day like test. I just feel really displaced. I want her affection but she isnt giving it to me, and I have never had a girl not be interested in me. It hurts - if you have any ideas please help.

Dude, this happens to all us nice guys. They get bored with us because we dont offer a challenge to them anymore. I hear what your saying, if you cant be nice to someone you love who can you? They all SAY they want a nice guy, but actually they want the energy that comes from them thinking you look at other women and stuff. Think about it, every girl in your past that you didnt shower with gifts and vacations probably still calls you. Why? because they want what they cant have or what comes to them as a challenge.. I wish it wasnt this way, but it has been my repeated observation. Sorry to hear about you situation. Just train harder and she will realize what she fucked up.. Especially, when she gets back with the asshole. Plus, atleast you can live with yourself knowing you treated her good. Good Luck

 

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i say beat her

 

[OMEGA]

i say beat her

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not all guys finish last if they know how to play the give and take game.

 

[daised]

sounds like your relationship is infatuation, not love. or really anything like love. therefore the relationship will not have a lasting effect unless you can move out of infatuation and make it into a loving relationship.

god i am good, i should go into therapy.

 

[RobGuns]

Just don't push it too much, and don't get too stressed about it. The last thing you want is for your G/F to feel she HAS to show affection to you all the time in order not to hurt you. Maybe she is just going through a "Thing" of her own, and your taking it the wrong way. You should discuss it!

"I want her affection but she isnt giving it to me, and I have never had a girl not be interested in me. It hurts - if you have any ideas please help." Maybe your a bit insecure and it is somthing you have to deal with yourself. I am not having a go at you, please dont think I am, It's just this has been my experience in the past. What ever it is , don't avoid it.

RG

 

[BuggyWhips]

First off I need to apologize. It is 9am and I am drunk - mid cycle. I know. I am depressed - just started drinking like an hour ago when I woke up. I need some advice. I dont think I have posted over here before- I always post on anabolic - but I need your help

I have been seeing this girl for like 8 months now and I do everything for her. I try to be crazy romantic, I take her on vacations and to bed and breakfasts, and spend mad loot on her.

Mad Loot...theres your problem right there. Dont spend so much money on her...Even if she didnt get sick of you she would always expect it. And if you married her, youd be working till your 80. A girl aint worth killing you liver over. Alcohol just makes you even worse. If your as good as you say to her then its her loss if she doesnt want you. You sound like a decent guy, go find someone else.

Kev

 

[OMEGA]

god , i should go into therapy.

I'll be there with the clip board and pen.

don't mind me in the rainbow tutu sitting cross legged showing a little thigh.

you just sit down on the pleather couch and talk away.