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Relationships, Emotions, How we act...

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Was in class the other day and my Interpersonal Communication's Professor was discussing how men and women differ in showing and expressing their emotions in extreme times.

It was her take, as well as the book's, that we tend to either cry or get furious when we get emotional. That most women were the type to show their emotions in a sense of crying where as men would show the EXACT SAME emotion by getting mad and yelling. Both were the same internal feeling but the way that men are socially taught to be...shows trend to the anger instead of the crying...because men are "supposed to be tough".

I think back at times when I am extremely emotional about something taking place in my life and I feel like either crying or getting fighting mad...yet I tend to cry.

Any thoughts on this subject and how men and women differ as well as show our emotions?

B True
 
My sister-in-laws cry for everything, but I'm more likely to get mad and yell than cry.
 
I don't scream, cry, or yell.

I just get really, really quiet.

Fonz
 
well.....when I am REALLY pissed - I am eerily calm....very underspoken and slow moving....when emotionally upset - I tend to avoid the situation until I have cooled down a bit.....I want to be left alone for a while - then I'll talk..if I am slamming shit around and cursing I am just pissed about something meaningless
 
You know I am that way. When I am hurt I am incapable of being angry. I take all the pain in on myself and sort of implode.

No matter how badly someone hurts me, I just take it in and cry.

If it is really bad, it is only after this that I get angry and stand up for myself if necessary... then I calmly let it go and try to see the lesson of it all.

It takes an awful lot for me to lash out. In my adult life, I think I was only this way a few times towards the very bitter end of my marriage.
 
I don't think I've been REALLY REALLY pissed off. I've been pretty mad andsad before, and like Fonz, I just keep it to myself and stay quiet.
 
gettinlarger said:
I don't think I've been REALLY REALLY pissed off. I've been pretty mad andsad before, and like Fonz, I just keep it to myself and stay quiet.

Get really quiet, and then go hit the

IRON

LOL

Nothing like lifting crazy amounts of weight to let go of
anger, stress and frustration.

Fonz
 
What's up Cas? Guess who? I've got to go workout but I'm back on the boards.
 
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