Relationship ???

[Stryker1992]

Has anyone here ever been with someone but felt like they were falling for someone else? What did you do? How did you deal?

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

go after/keep the best one.

 

[gonelifting]

I've been with my woman a long time and there have been times where the opportunity arose to be with other women(back in 89 once) loljk You have to be true to YOURSELF before you can be true to your woman. Don't you think your girl has men hit on her all the time? Why does'nt she take those men's advances? Because she WANTS to be in a committed relationship.

I made a promise to her AND myself that SHE is the one that I'll grow old with. Are there better looking girls out there? Sure. Would I jump at the chance to be with one? NO freaking way, because I promised MYSELF and her. Be true to yourself or else you're just living a temporary lie.

Make sure that's what you want though because it's a long ride.

 

[theoak01]

ifinfact you are falling for someone else also I say good luck,someone will get hurt either way,you may lose both, I did

 

[Stryker1992]

I've been with my woman a long time and there have been times where the opportunity arose to be with other women(back in 89 once) loljk You have to be true to YOURSELF before you can be true to your woman. Don't you think your girl has men hit on her all the time? Why does'nt she take those men's advances? Because she WANTS to be in a committed relationship.

I made a promise to her AND myself that SHE is the one that I'll grow old with. Are there better looking girls out there? Sure. Would I jump at the chance to be with one? NO freaking way, because I promised MYSELF and her. Be true to yourself or else you're just living a temporary lie.

Make sure that's what you want though because it's a long ride.

Hey bro, thanks for the advice, it is not just about looks, it seems more like an emotional investment. It may just be that I am posts cycle and that is making things worse, but I have always been "connected" with this other chick, I was just able to ignore it much easier.
I am not sure if I want to make a change or if I am just down and vulnerable or just having one of those moments that you suggested?

 

[*MissFit*]

Don't cut off your foot to save your arm.

Karma always has a way of biting you in the ass and the grass isint always greener.. sometiems you feel your falling for someone lse because things arent as rosey as you would like them to be in your current situation. Think about yuor reasons before you do anything you might regret

 

[Stryker1992]

Don't cut off your foot to save your arm.

Karma always has a way of biting you in the ass and the grass isint always greener.. sometiems you feel your falling for someone lse because things arent as rosey as you would like them to be in your current situation. Think about yuor reasons before you do anything you might regret

Yah, that is what I am trying to do. Thanks for the input, I really need it right now!

 

[Stryker1992]

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[DIVISION]

Has anyone here ever been with someone but felt like they were falling for someone else? What did you do? How did you deal?

Oh man....

What the fuck did you do this time, Stryker?





DIV

 

[dirty~d~]

New adventures are always appealing, at first. What do you see in this new woman that you want to see in your current SO? Spend more time with your current woman; get to know her on new levels. Maybe you'll find what you think you are missing.

 

[Forge]

The grass is always greener....


It's not usually true though. Appreciate what you have instead of dreaming of what you might be able to have. Most people take what they have for granted until it's gone, then they realize just how good it really was. Be careful, bro.

 

[The Angry Mule]

I thought with my dick and not my heart and ended up in serious trouble.

 

[~Lexy~]

^^^^

 

[~Lexy~]

Make a list of advantages and disadvantages if you left your SO. What exactly does the other woman have that your SO doesn't have. Share it with us and maybe we can help a little more.

Is it the looks, education, money, one is violent the other isn't, better conversations with the new one, lust, one listens the other doesn't, sex? etc...

 

[JayC9]

Has anyone here ever been with someone but felt like they were falling for someone else? What did you do? How did you deal?

the way you've worded that im not quite sure what you mean....do you mean that you feel like you are falling for someone else or that you're partner is falling for someone else?

 

[SoKlueles]

I've been with my woman a long time and there have been times where the opportunity arose to be with other women(back in 89 once) loljk You have to be true to YOURSELF before you can be true to your woman. Don't you think your girl has men hit on her all the time? Why does'nt she take those men's advances? Because she WANTS to be in a committed relationship.

I made a promise to her AND myself that SHE is the one that I'll grow old with. Are there better looking girls out there? Sure. Would I jump at the chance to be with one? NO freaking way, because I promised MYSELF and her. Be true to yourself or else you're just living a temporary lie.

Make sure that's what you want though because it's a long ride.

beautiful