relationship stuff... dumped by email... she hooked up... read me

[madbomber31]

well, djane went to tennis camp to teach... and we exchanged a few letters, then last night i have a dream... she tells me she hooked up with a guy (name starts with D)... i wake up in a bit of a panick and get on the computer... well, here it is.. she sends me a letter saying how its not right if she comes here and goes to a wedding with me and sees me for my bday... its next week when she was supposed to come here... she writes me and says she cant cuz she didnt get tickets yet... the camp may not shut down... AND SHE MET SOMEONE!!! but nothing happened, they just kissed... dude, she fucking told me twice she would move with me, now she is in vermont hookin up with some guy??? i have been seeing someone but i am crushed... i had no choice but to date, to protect myself cuz i really thought something might happen when she was gone at camp. it did... i am not protected enough.. my heart is broken again... she was wonderful and everythign i wanted in a person... ugh, so many thoughts and so much anger.. i got nothing i can say to her.. she is in vermont!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Hannibal]

i have been seeing someone but i am crushed... i had no choice but to date, to protect myself cuz i really thought something might happen when she was gone at camp.

I am truly sorry for your loss. However, this not a flame, wasn't she worth waiting for??!

"no choice but to date"????

 

[WODIN]

Madbomber I have been watching your thrashing machinations for sometime and I have to tell you that you created all this on your own. You are always expressing desires that are in direct opposition to one and other. These are not needs that you exercise, but rather wants and desires that you thrash about with in your quest for "God knows what".

You are like a man who was standing in the shade, walks out into the sun and complains about the heat, lamenting his lose. Weird indeed.

 

[Sassy69]

Um, not sounding too promising. How did she respond when you asked her to move in? Maybe not ready for that level of commitment - easier to blow you off by email - kinda lame, but the easy way out. Long distance relationships suck. They might actually work sometimes, but they suck.

'Course you're seeing someone too? Just to pass the time??

I wish you luck...

 

[donutglazer]

women are the devil. well i guess there are always penis pumps.

 

[Sexual Mustard]

I feel for ya bro...... email me anytime you want to talk about this.....

 

[Chosser]

Hey, I am from Vermont, find out his name and I will tell you where he lives. It is a small state, I swear I will know him.

 

[Burning_Inside]

just goes to show you how fast people change and what even small amounts of distance between two people can do.

That's why myself, being a smart person , am waiting till I'm older and most likely done with my changing, and I'm pretty established in knowing what I want, if anything at all, in terms of a relationship.

Until then, the only place a female has in my life is as a friend and a sex partner. And everything's a-ok.

 

[MP5]

My real name is Drew, maybe she likes me.

 

[madbomber31]

fact of the matter is.. the thing that bothers me most is: i got an email.. i understand the other shit, despite the fact that she made a promise to me... as far as i am concerned if you make a promise, you stick to it... but ya, i understand...

how can you go and hook up with a guy from vermont (he is actually from indy) when you couldnt deal with a guy from michigan? i will be annoyed if she can leave her family for him, but not for me... this post was very vague indeed... and their are a lot of things i have left unsaid on this board to protect her.. i didnt want people ripping into the girl, she never deserved that. yes, i dated somone... but i never made a promise to her after that, she made one to me.

anyway, i posted this mainly cuz of the fact i thought i deserved more than an email.

 

[Big Johnson]

MB, women are always "promising" you things. Now, go fuck her sister or best friend and forget about it

 

[TxCollegeguy]

Bro personally I would say a giant fuck it, I'm sure we have all been down that road...I hope I'm a bachelor for life, cause marriages don't last, and love hardly ever does....Of course you deserved more, but what exactly does this show you...Fuck it You feel like getting away and feel like taking a vacation you can always jet down to Central Texas, and Superdave and more so myself will take you out to meet some nice Southern Belles, not to mention show you all the cool shit to do while you chill out

 

[Hannibal]

MB...didn't want you to think I was judging you. Like I said I was just going on the limited info that you posted. Sorry that it went down like that man...good for you for not draggin her name through the mud. Some people should learn from that. Everything gets easier with time.

 

[-SD-]

If you two were so great together you would.......be together.

 

[madbomber31]

its for the best... i have come to grips... i just have a few sticking points...

the email... and the fact that if she was unwilling to move for me, why start a second long distance thing?

 

[lynaghgrew]

'she was wonderful and everything i wanted in a person'

get a fucking grip, she was a dim slag using some guys dick as a toothbrush the minute she was out of sight. or do u believe the b/s about 'nothing has happened'? and has the class to dump u by email ( wow what a lady !!!).

act like a man , go out fuck some girls. sitting around moping is what teenage girls do in response to something like this.

u a man or a teenage girl?

 

[madbomber31]

actually, if i were a teen age girl i'd still be gettin laid... no difference between them and men, except they get dick when they say so...

but if it makes you feel anybetter about my manhood, i'm at the new girls house now

 

[Jae]

MB - I do understand where you are coming from, but sometimes, it is easier to do things by email or via the phone and answering machine because there is pain there for the other person as well. Why did she do something else long range? I don't know, maybe to help cope with her idea of reality that she has about the two of you. Maybe she is hurting and is just using this other guy as a crutch.

I am just guessing without knowing the particulars of the sitiation.

 

[KAYNE]

MB

I'M GOING TO REPLY TO THIS EVEN THOUGH WE HATE EACH OTHER. DONT TAKE THIS AS A FLAME BUT MORE LIKE A REALITY CHECK. NOW I DONT KNOW ANY SPECIFICS ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP BUT I HAVE BEEN THROUGH SOME SHIT MYSELF SO HERE GOES:

YOU ARE SEEING A CHICK RIGHT!!! DJANE IS IN VERMONT RIGHT!!! WHAT IS THE PROBLEM MAN??? WHETHER YOU CARE FOR HER OR NOT, YOU HAVE TO LOOK OUT FOR YOURSELF. THE SOONER YOU START DOING THAT IS THE SOONER YOU WILL NOT WORRY ABOUT HER ANYMORE. GO TAKE A SHOWER, WASH YOUR ACE, GET DRESSED IN YOUR FINEST, SPRAY SOME COLOGNE ON, GO SOMEWHERE, GRAB YOUR BALLZ AND GO GET YOUR ACE A CHICK. LIKE I SAID, YOU HAVE TO LOOK OUT FOR YOURSELF!!!


YOUR HERO,
KAYNE

 

[MaGilicuti]

that is horrible man, sounds pretty bad that she didn't even have enough heart to tell you over the phone. email and the internet is evil. better to have love and lost then to have never have loved at all i guess. good luck with whatever happens

 

[lynaghgrew]

mb , ur banging a new chick????
fucking marvellous.
guys understand, once and for all this is a mans world.
forget all this feminist shite.
we're dealt by far the better hand, if u play the game right although u may lose a round or 2 in the end we come out on top.
remember this guys.
and stop moping over girls, it so unbecoming in an adult.

 

[kat]

Mad, This may sound a wee bit harsh, but I think the only oneof us that didn't know it was over between you two when youmoved back to Michigan was you.

BTW, I have a buddy moving to Ann Arbor to get his PHd. How far is that from Detroit?

 

[Night Fly]

MB---I told you that this was going to come back and slap you in your ass, didn't I? (playing with 2 girls at one time) Well, I guess you will learn from this...good luck with is anyhow...

 

[madbomber31]

AA is one of the burbs... bout 30 minutes or so from the city... 20 minutes from me...

 

[Yellowbomber]

don't think again, that has happenend to all of us,think of it as an act of destiny, she's not the right girl for ya

THE BEST IS YET TO COME

 

[Laserdude]

Sorry to hear that Bro, but keep your other girl friend Rosy Palm in mind, she will never leave you.


Good luck!!

 

[madbomber31]

fellow bomber....

i agree... i also agree that both she and i are to blame, and i also agree that this is for the best... i am 85% ok with it... sometimes i get an image of some cocksucker comforting her about me.... that was my job, but i got fired... i am ok with things, it just made me furious at first, then i thought about it and talked it over with a good friend... and you know when the girl you are seeing agrees with an ex, then you should rethink your stance...