looking to lean said:
i dont know why anyone would juice and not tell there gf. if you cant tell the person that you are supposed to be closest to, then maybe you need a new gf or none at all. not trying to slam anyone here.... IMO it seems like hiding it would to harder to accomplish than just being honest.
Because women are fucking crazy, and most times will use any ammunition they have against you if you begin to have an argument. Thats why people hide it from their significant other.
For example... my wife is Bi-Polar. To put it simply, the bitch is fuckin crazy... period. She will flip out and be the most irrational person you can imagine. When she starts acting that way, i can tell immediately that shes just having "one of those days". Its like she lives in a different reality. She will try and twist any and everything she can to convince herself that I have done something wrong to make her feel the way she is feeling, when most times I havent done a damn thing. And thats the honest to god truth.
So with that being said... I hide my use from my wife. I have been married to my wife now for only 6 months, however we have dated for 10 years prior (if you want to know why we dated so long, its because I wasnt sure if I really wanted to marry someone that fucking crazy...seriously) I don't want us to get in any kind of argument and then her turn around and say its because im using gear. That would make me damn near blow my top Im sure. So I just bypass that entire issue by concealing my use from her.
She and I have discussed it (cycles), and she knows im an educated person who wouldnt do anything without the right research and using properly... however I know from past experiences that what she says almost always isnt what she means, or what comes to be when it all boils down to it.
My gear use is the ONLY thing I hide from my wife, and I feel like I have a good enough justification for it.
I guess it all depends on the people involved and their situations. I agree with you that you should be able to share everything with the person you love... however its just not always best given unique circumstances such as mine.
Anwyway thats my 2 cents. Didnt mean to hi-jack the thread!
