Relationship advice needed....No idea what to do.

[biogeared]

Okay ladies and gents here is the situation:

I have been seeing my present gf for several months now, and things have been going very very well.

Well, I recently discovered that a particular girl has a thing for me. So what right?

Not as easy as it sounds. The girl that has a thing for me is one that I wanted to be with more than any other girl in the world. I liked her for a very very long time and always wanted to be with her but never had the chance so I figured I should forget her and move on.

And I did. But now this.

I really do not know what to do?!?!

Well, I could really use some words of wisdom.

 

[bluepeter]

One word.....3some.

j/k Seriously, that's a tough one but I'd go with whoever I lay in bed thinking about at night.

 

[SoreArms]

does your current Gf make you happy, or are you just with her 'casue it's comfortable

 

[from zero]

We can't tell you what to do bor. This is YOUR decision. You have to ask yourself who you want to be with more ...

 

[BO-DEN]

i say date the girl if she is all you hoped for then dump your girlfriend if she isnt you win either way.

 

[casualbb]

The grass is always greener bor. Right now you know your current GF; you know all of the little mannerisms and seen her do many of the little things that are unsexy (like waking up and looking like shit). That's hard to compete with your ideal vision of this new girl that I'm sure you've built up from when you used to dig her.

Keep that in mind: reality has a hard time competing with imagination.

 

[Scotsman]

Keep your current gf. The other girl may only be showing interest in you since you do have a gf and therefore have value to someone else. If things are going very very well as you put it than don't fuck it up. Ruining a realtionship on the offchance this other girl will become something more than you current gf is one hell of a gamble. Just remember the old saying that a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush. I take it to mean that a lifetime of happiness can't be replaced with wishful thinking.

Cheers,
Scotsman

 

[MissJanet79]

The grass is always greener bor. Right now you know your current GF; you know all of the little mannerisms and seen her do many of the little things that are unsexy (like waking up and looking like shit). That's hard to compete with your ideal vision of this new girl that I'm sure you've built up from when you used to dig her.

Keep that in mind: reality has a hard time competing with imagination.

Couldn't have said it better!
I think things happen for a reason...you didn't end up w/ her for a reason. And now temptation is coming your way... now's the test whether you resist or give in.

 

[BO-DEN]

give in.... follow your heart and your penis!!

 

[Becoming]

like casual said, the grass is always greener

like scotts said, the other girl may only be showing interest in you since you do have a gf and therefore have value to someone else

I say this - no matter what you do, you will wish you have done the other... if you dump her you will be sorry, and if you don't you will be sorry... you lose, that is life, it sucks then you die...

so never post on here about your feelings again cause nobody cares...

(where the hell is JH1 when you need him.....?)

 

[bluepeter]

like casual said, the grass is always greener

like scotts said, the other girl may only be showing interest in you since you do have a gf and therefore have value to someone else

I say this - no matter what you do, you will wish you have done the other... if you dump her you will be sorry, and if you don't you will be sorry... you lose, that is life, it sucks then you die...

so never post on here about your feelings again cause nobody cares...

(where the hell is JH1 when you need him.....?)

He's masquerading as The Ejaculator (I think there is something Freudian about his new name )

 

[strongsmartsexy]

Reverse the roles. Say you are your girlfriend. See how it sits with your morals and values.

 

[Becoming]

He's masquerading as The Ejaculator (I think there is something Freudian about his new name )

Damn him... i have to do everything myself around here....

 

[biogeared]

Err...............So much indecision.

 

[jh1]

like casual said, the grass is always greener

like scotts said, the other girl may only be showing interest in you since you do have a gf and therefore have value to someone else

I say this - no matter what you do, you will wish you have done the other... if you dump her you will be sorry, and if you don't you will be sorry... you lose, that is life, it sucks then you die...

so never post on here about your feelings again cause nobody cares...

(where the hell is JH1 when you need him.....?)