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About 1 week ago I have met a very intelligent and goodlooking guy which I have not seen for at least 1.5 years and he has just broken up with his girlfriend maybe about 1 month ago after a relationship which lasted 3 years.

He has been contacting me a lot for the past week and I feel like he wants to get closer. He stopped by my place unannounced the other day which is kind of strange because I just met him again after a long break and it caught me by surprise.

This is making me really nervous and I don't know what to do. I certainly don't want to fall the victim of a rebound relationship.

Should I tell him to call me/ text me less? Or should I just provide him with a shoulder to cry on? :worried:
 
Guys would say anything to sleep with a girl and they appear so truthful too.

Is he trying to use me?
 
Devastation said:
no sex, just be a friend. he's lookin for a rebound
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That is what I keep saying to myself.

I wonder what part of what he says is true and what part isn't. Maybe it is safer to just be friends and keep some distance.
 
_HERA_ said:
Guys would say anything to sleep with a girl and they appear so truthful too.

Is he trying to use me?
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Wrong. Some guys do. The smart guys are straight up about wanting to have sex with a girl. I don't want any girl to confuse me with the guys who are being phony and kissing there ass only to get some.

While we are on this subject......Will you have sex with me. :)
 
Agathe said:
He's trying to do you that's for sure.

What do you mean he;s tryin to use u?
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Use me to unload the pain from his heart like me listening to his break up story. I know that after a long relationship guys want to have a bit of freedom and play around for a bit. This guy is telling me that he has no baggage whatsoever. I call that b/s....I dont trust him...

When should a woman listen to a guy and when should she not?
 
_HERA_ said:
Use me to unload the pain from his heart like me listening to his break up story. I know that after a long relationship guys want to have a bit of freedom and play around for a bit. Yet this guy is telling me that he has no baggage whatsoever. I call that b/s....I dont trust him...

Can you guys tell me when to listen to a guy and when not to?
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walk away.....
 
common things happening commonly, he is either after a rebound or has a big gap in his life and wants company. if you get the impression that you cant trust him, then fine, go with that, but he might just want some company.

either way just be wary and dont take him at his word - but youre already doing that. so chill :) look before you leap, and everything will be fine

and not ALL guys will say anything to get sex. just most of them
 
GoldenDelicious said:
common things happening commonly, he is either after a rebound or has a big gap in his life and wants company. if you get the impression that you cant trust him, then fine, go with that, but he might just want some company.

either way just be wary and dont take him at his word - but youre already doing that. so chill :) look before you leap, and everything will be fine

and not ALL guys will say anything to get sex. just most of them
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I can tell he needs company and that is fine who doesn't. I get the impression that if I get involved, the relationship will just crumble because I suspect he may change after a few months or maybe a year of not having his ex around. :(

:lmao: @ "just most of them" ...
 
well its true! i wont deceive a girl to get her into bed, imo tahts a low thing to do

my mates, however...lol there was this one guy (not one of my mates) who was going around telling girls that he was a pilot, trying to impress them. anyway, it was working, until one of my mates overheard...and set him straight in front of a table full of girls taht the guy had been working on :lmao: lol totally humiliated :D
 
just go with it and have some fun... you never know, he may have been "over" his ex long before the relationship was actually over and thus ready to move on with someone new.
 
He comes up the far side. Takes the shot. Rejected by the goaltender. On the rebound he looks, he shoots. He scores?
 
he doesn't know what he wants.. u wil end up getting hurt if you fall for him...
 
CanadianCutie said:
he doesn't know what he wants.. u wil end up getting hurt if you fall for him...
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you are right, I am getting the same feeling and my decision is to just be friends with him and I will let him know next time I see him :(
 
Who broke up with who in his relationship....him or her?

That has a lot to do with it.
If he got dumped it is very likely he's looking for a rebound.
 
alien amp pharm said:
Who broke up with who in his relationship....him or her?

That has a lot to do with it.
If he got dumped it is very likely he's looking for a rebound.
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I asked him the same question and he said to me that they both agreed to the break up but sometimes people lie to save face.He does speak of her sometimes and also has this dazed look on his face when mentions her name.

That says rebound to me no matter how much he denies it.
 
Just remeber.....NO SEX! Once you do that you'll be a gonner..so just keep it friends until he is free for awhile....but NO SEX
 
_HERA_ said:
I asked him the same question and he said to me that they both agreed to the break up but sometimes people lie to save face.He does speak of her sometimes and also has this dazed look on his face when mentions her name.

That says rebound to me no matter how much he denies it.
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"They both agreed to the breakup" = He got dumped.

You are right.
I'd stay away if I were you, unless you aren't looking for anything serious.

Give him time and tell him to contact you in a couple months, if you're still interested.

The last two relationships I have been in I have been the rebound. I can tell you things go well for a month, then sh!t happens. 1st girl went back to the ex, 2nd girl decided she wasn't ready for anything serious after 1 1/2 months....right when I was starting to like her.
It just ain't worth it.
 
alien amp pharm said:
"They both agreed to the breakup" = He got dumped.

You are right.
I'd stay away if I were you, unless you aren't looking for anything serious.

Give him time and tell him to contact you in a couple months, if you're still interested.

The last two relationships I have been in I have been the rebound. I can tell you things go well for a month, then sh!t happens. 1st girl went back to the ex, 2nd girl decided she wasn't ready for anything serious after 1 1/2 months....right when I was starting to like her.
It just ain't worth it.
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Ohh...you have had your fair share of heart breaks too :( :rose: Sorry to hear that Alien.


GYMGURL said:
Just remeber.....NO SEX! Once you do that you'll be a gonner..so just keep it friends until he is free for awhile....but NO SEX
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Thanks Gymgurl, I appreciate the support.
I won't allow anything to happen between us. :rose:
 
I would stay away from this one for a while... plenty of fish in the sea, why bother with troublesome ones???
 
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