Really geigh question LOL

[Werd]

At what point do you guys call a person that you have been seeing your gf or bf? Is it when you sleep together or is it after "X" amount of dates or do you have a specific conversation with the other person that you two want to be exclusive?

Ya'll know that though I have dated ad nauseum I rarely meet someone that I want to see again let alone someone that I want to sleep with let alone someone that I desire a relationship with so I am curious what determines said relationship status for you?

 

[Dial_tone]

When I start keeping my own toothbrush at her place.

 

[jackangel]

why don't you like any of these guys? are most of them that bad, or are you just very selective...or both? or are all of you just crazy?

 

[Werd]

why don't you like any of these guys? are most of them that bad, or are you just very selective...or both? or are all of you just crazy?

A combination of things - mostly I am very picky because I have been very badly burned in the past, mostly due to my own "fuckedupness" LOL. Been doing a lot of self assessment and getting therapy so as not to make similar mistakes.

I am very unconventional and anything but average so that a very large part of what attracts me to a man.

 

[sigweed]

no fixed amount, you'll know it when you get there

 

[AAP]

When I reach the point that I notice when the phone rings, I am hoping it is HIM.

Or rather, when I stop noticing other single people out there.

 

[string_bean00]

I think a conversation is needed for it be 100% understood by both parties, although you'd both pretty much have known that beforehand.

 

[SoreArms]

I think a conversation is needed for it be 100% understood by both parties

yep

It takes me months to get there