Ran Into An Ex..........so Now What Do I Do?????

[boss]

OK......ME AND THE EX SPLIT UP JUST UNDER A YEAR AGO AND HAVE HAD ABOUT 2 WORDS TO EACH OTHER I THINK THEY WERE "FUCK YOU". NOW....I WENT TO A CLUB THE OTHER NIGHT AND WE RAN INTO EACH OTHER CAUSE I GUESS SHE NOW WORKS THERE AND I HAD NO IDEA. WE AVOIDED EACH OTHER UNTILL THE END OF THE NIGHT WE LOOKED AND STARTED TO SPEAK. WE HAD A ROUGH BREAK-UP AND WOULDNT EVEN LOOK AT EACH OTHER. NOW SHE HAS A SON AND I STILL SEE HIM NOW-N-THEN AT HIS FATHERS HOUSE CAUSE I MISS THE LITTLE FUCKER. I GOT SOME STUFF FROM HER AND GAVE HER ALOT OF MONEY AND TOLD HER TO GET SOMETHING FOR HER SON IF SHE DIDNT WANT THE MONEY AND THAT I WAS NOT TAKING IT BACK!! SO ANYWAY WE TALKED A LITTLE THAT NIGHT AND I WAS KINDA COOL.

I THEN TOLD HER THAT I WOULD BE NEXT DOOR FROM HER THE NEXT NIGHT WHICH WAS THANKSGIVING NIGHT. SHE SAID OK I WILL GO OVER TO SEE YOU. I GOT THERE AND SHE WAS ALREADY THERE AND I WAS SURPRISED. WE ALL BEGAN TO TALK AND HAD A GOOD TIME AND OFCOURSE I WOULD THROW IN A SLAM NOW AND THEN JUST TO BE AN ASS. TOWARDS THE END OF THE NIGHT SHE ASKED IF I WANTED A PICTURE OF HER SON, SO I SAID SURE. WE WENT OVER TO HER HOUSE AND SHE PUT HIM TO BED AND WE TALKED. WE ORDERED PIZZA AND DRANK A LITTLE AND HAD A GOOD TIME LIKE WE ALWAYS DID. NOW THIS IS WHERE SHIT HITS THE FAN......I COULDNT TAKE IT ANYMORE, SHE STILL IS FUCKIN HOT AND WHEN I SAY HOT SHE IS COMPLETELY SMOKEN FROM HEAD TO TOE!! I GRABBED HER AND THREW MY TOUNGE DOWN HER MOUTH AND SHE GRABBED ME AND STARTED TO GRIND THE SHIT OUT OF ME. WELL NEEDLESS TO SAY WE ENDED UP IN THE BED ROOM WHERE SHE DECIDED TO TELL ME SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND. NOW I DONT GIVE A SHIT SO I SAID DO YOU STILL LOVE ME? SHE SAID YES. I THEN SAID ARE YOU STILL IN LOVE WITH ME? SHE SAID YES. ASKED HER THE SAME QUESTIONS ABOUT THE OTHER GUY AND SHE SAID NO TO BOTH. I THEN PROCEEDED TO FUCK HER SILLY!! I KNOW SHIT THATS MAKES HER CRAZY THAT STILL TO THIS DAY NO ONE ELSE HAS DONE TO HER.

AFTER DOING STUFF TO HER THAT I WOULDNT DO TO A RENTED U-HAUL, WE BEGAN TO THINK WHAT NOW?? OUR FAMILIES WOULD HAVE A HARD TIME WITH IT BUT WE STILL LOVE EACH OTHER. I AM GOING OVER THERE TONIGHT TO WATCH HER SON FOR HER AND SHE SAID THAT HER BOYFRIEND WILL BE COMMING HOME WITH HER TONIGHT TO TALK CAUSE HE HAS NOTICED SHE HAS BEEN ACTING FUNNY. SHE DOESNT KNOW WHAT SHE WILL SAY CAUSE SHE IS A BAD LIAR. HE HAS I GUESS ALREADY SEEN ME SOMEWHERE AND TOLD HER HE WOULD WANT NO PIECE OF ME. NOW AS FOR HER WHAT IN THE FUCK DO I DO? WE STILL WANT EACH OTHER BUT THE WHOLE THING WILL BE A GIANT MESS.........PLEASE HELP.

 

[theoak01]

just take it slow and dont jump in head first,dont let the same shit happen twice

 

[Latimer]

How the hell did you have room for pizza after Thanksgiving dinner?

 

[FarBeyondDriven]

That's kewl man. But she left you once and probably will again. Maybe she figured out your the best for her. Hell, who knows, I would nail her again, definetely, just be prepared..

 

[Night Fly]

Well...like someone already said...step back and SLOW DOWN.

Emotions get really fucked up while you are laying there naked and fixing to screw the living daylights out of one another. I have been in this situation before, and to be honest...I told the ex that I still loved him (which I did, but not the relationship kind of love). It was so hard to distinguish between my real feelings and my feelings of lust for him. We had so much sexual chemistry it was unreal...and I was allowing that to fuck with my head.

Like I said...I think you need to step back and SLOW DOWN. See if you can hang out with her some more and not screw her.

That sounds awful..but I think it might help you decide what you really need to do.

Good luck.

 

[boss]

Well...like someone already said...step back and SLOW DOWN.

Emotions get really fucked up while you are laying there naked and fixing to screw the living daylights out of one another. I have been in this situation before, and to be honest...I told the ex that I still loved him (which I did, but not the relationship kind of love). It was so hard to distinguish between my real feelings and my feelings of lust for him. We had so much sexual chemistry it was unreal...and I was allowing that to fuck with my head.

Like I said...I think you need to step back and SLOW DOWN. See if you can hang out with her some more and not screw her.

That sounds awful..but I think it might help you decide what you really need to do.

Good luck.

I KNOW AND TOTALLY AGREE CAUSE THE BIGGEST THING TO ME IS THE WHOLE FAMILY THING. ALSO GETTING HER SON INVOLVED AGAIN, AND IM NOT SURE IF ITS CAUSE WE ARE GOOD WITH EACH OTHER IN BED OR IF ITS STILL ONCE WHAT WE HAD. OK NIGHT FLY I WILL BE OVER FOR YOU TO HELP ME!! LEAVING NOW!!!!............SHIT I NEED DIRECTIONS.

 

[HighIntensity]

night fly is always on point...

 

[Milhouse]

I have seen enough friends family and yours truly ride this vicious circle to say to walk away now.

Didnt work the first time and espec since it was a bad breakup all it is going to take is that first argument(and all couples have tiffs) to bring all the old shit back out again to rear its ugly head.

 

[gotmilk]

Got a hammer?

If he wants a piece...give him one.

 

[boss]

Got a hammer?

If he wants a piece...give him one.

HEHEHE......NO BRO HE TOLD HER ANY GUY THAT HIS SHOULDERS RUB A 3 FOOT DOOR OPENENING HE WANTS NOTHING TO DO WITH. JUST TO BE AN ASS I ALWAYS KINDA GO SIDEWAYS THROUGH DOORS JUST TO BE A DICK!!!.......HEHEHE......IT WORKS. SHE LIKES BIG GUYS SO I HAVE NO IDEA WHY SHE IS WITH HIM.

 

[1911]

OK......ME AND THE EX SPLIT UP JUST UNDER A YEAR AGO AND HAVE HAD ABOUT 2 WORDS TO EACH OTHER I THINK THEY WERE "FUCK YOU

AFTER DOING STUFF TO HER THAT I WOULDNT DO TO A RENTED U-HAUL, WE BEGAN TO THINK...

That's some funny shit man!

Advice about this type of thing is like "opinions" and...well...we all know the analogy there. All I can say is what I would do, take the hump, tuck away another memory, keep your pride intact and walk.

Good luck.

 

[boss]

WELL IM HERE AT HER HOUSE WITH HER SON AND SHE'S OFF TO WORK. NOW IF WE DIDNT FEEL WEIRD THURSDAY WE DO TONIGHT. I TOLD HER WE NEED TO GO TO BOSTON FOR A NIGHT TO TALK AND FIGURE SHIT OUT. GOD I HOPE THIS IS RIGHT DUE TO HER SON. WELL WE WILL SEE.

 

[boss]

your girly friend sounds like a real stupid cunt. with all the guys this slunt keeps leting in and out of her sons life, he is going to be screwed up.

WHERE YOU JUST HERE?????? WE JUST HAD THAT TALK ABOUT 20 MINUTES AGO. SHE CLAIMS THAT IT WASNT LIKE THAT, AND NO ONE CAME CLOSE TO HIM CAUSE SHE DIDNT WANT TO DO THAT TO HIM. BUT THIS IS WHY I DONT THINK THIS WILL GO TO FAR.

 

[twinturbo]

I agree with Vidlak- watch out if she lets alot of guys around the child....I have been seeing this chick for two months now, and I havent even met her kid yet...she is careful who she exposes them too....

For your ex, if she really wanted you she would leave her BF in a second, or at least SOON, why would she keep him around if you were the one she really loves??

 

[boss]

I agree with Vidlak- watch out if she lets alot of guys around the child....I have been seeing this chick for two months now, and I havent even met her kid yet...she is careful who she exposes them too....

For your ex, if she really wanted you she would leave her BF in a second, or at least SOON, why would she keep him around if you were the one she really loves??

100% AGREE........SHE IS GOING TO BE TALKING TO HIM TONIGHT AND WE WILL SEE HOW IT GOES BUT ON THE OTHER HAND WE HAVE GONE THROUGH ALOT TOGETHER. THIS IS WHY WE NEED TO TALK AND SEE WHAT WILL BE BEST SINCE WE HAVENT TALK IN ALMOST A YEAR.

 

[Frackal]

If you get back together she will end up cheating on you, if you don't do it first.

Chance bonne!

 

[Austin316]

Only you can answer this question bro, look down deep if you have to, you know what you have to do, and what we say will have no bearing on it. Peace