Question for the ladies

[fyxgel2]

Women,

Now one thing that I believe most men care about when they are in the sack, is how hot their girlfriend/wife looks. Somehow the physical attractiveness of the girl correlates with the amount of sexual pleasure the man receives (assuming she isnt a total bore in the sack, and does more than just lie still)

Anyways, I was wondering if the same was completely true for women. I've heard that women are more sexually attracted to the guy, if he contains traits that are good besides appearances (ex: confidence, humor, power, money, etc)

So like is this true? Do women actually get sexually aroused by things other than the appearance of their mate? I would their sexual pleasure would be defined by the appearances of their mate and how good they are in the sack (like the way it is with men)
is this true? if so please explain.

 

[bran987]

sex is mostly physical for men mostly mental for women

 

[jerseyart]

Aren't you a virgin?

 

[fyxgel2]

sex is mostly physical for men mostly mental for women

If this is true, then women are REALLY strange creatures and I will never understand them.

I know a man's sexual needs have a lot to do with the woman's appearances, I guess for women it isnt the same. (or at least not as much to do with appearances)

I cant imagine sex, without the visual importance being as high as it is.

wow, i truly never will understand women, its like they are almost an entirely different creature!

 

[fyxgel2]

Aren't you a virgin?

yes, but I will one day want sex.

 

[jerseyart]

LOL,

so how do you know that your pleasure is primarily based on how she looks. Sure as hell hasn't been my experience

And visual is important to a woman. As well as the size of the rocket bro, especially for some women

 

[jenscats5]

Physical attractiveness is a positive trait, but beauty is in the eye of the beholder.....the size & girth of the man helps, but how they use it matters a whole lot...

Men who are sensitive, caring & thoughtful in bed are definitely a turn-on, and by that I mean a man who doesn't just get it up, shove it in & finish then go to sleep but a man who pays attn. to what the female wants & is concerned about her sexual gratification....

I've heard that men need sex in order to feel loved & women need to feel loved in order to want sex.....and I think it's somewhat true....

 

[starfish]

Physical attractiveness is a positive trait, but beauty is in the eye of the beholder.....the size & girth of the man helps, but how they use it matters a whole lot...

Men who are sensitive, caring & thoughtful in bed are definitely a turn-on, and by that I mean a man who doesn't just get it up, shove it in & finish then go to sleep but a man who pays attn. to what the female wants & is concerned about her sexual gratification....

I've heard that men need sex in order to feel loved & women need to feel loved in order to want sex.....and I think it's somewhat true....

smart girl

 

[fyxgel2]

LOL,

so how do you know that your pleasure is primarily based on how she looks. Sure as hell hasn't been my experience

And visual is important to a woman. As well as the size of the rocket bro, especially for some women

looks are not everything, I just feel that they play a strong factor.

For example, I dont see how I would be able to get it up, if I was with a girl who I thought was really ugly.

 

[The Shadow]

Wpmen will give sex for love while men will give love for sex.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

Women,

Now one thing that I believe most men care about when they are in the sack, is how hot their girlfriend/wife looks. Somehow the physical attractiveness of the girl correlates with the amount of sexual pleasure the man receives (assuming she isnt a total bore in the sack, and does more than just lie still)

not really. had some above average girls that i preferred in bed over really really attractive girls. sure its great in the beginning but at the end of the day, so long as theyre attractive ENOUGH then its not really an issue.

ill agree with you if we are talking about the other end of the scale though

 

[fyxgel2]

not really. had some above average girls that i preferred in bed over really really attractive girls. sure its great in the beginning but at the end of the day, so long as theyre attractive ENOUGH then its not really an issue.

ill agree with you if we are talking about the other end of the scale though

this is totally what im talkin about. yea, above average i can understand, that is in no way a bad situation to be in, lol. but yea, I think they need to be attractive 'enough'

Which sucks for some people, because chances are, ugly people have really shitty sex lives.

I guess some people are just exempt from the pleasures of life.

 

[KillahBee]

Wpmen will give sex for love while men will give love for sex.

When a woman truly loves a man, no matter how quiet or reserved or inexperienced she is, she will be a pornstar for you just because she loves you that much.

 

[jerseyart]

looks are not everything, I just feel that they play a strong factor.

For example, I dont see how I would be able to get it up, if I was with a girl who I thought was really ugly.

Better stated, there has to be an attraction. Obviously some people are more attractive than others, but in the end, it has a lot more to do with who they are and how they treat you than what they look like.

Some of the most "eh" sex has been with really pretty girls. The best is with someone you really care for

 

[fyxgel2]

Better stated, there has to be an attraction. Obviously some people are more attractive than others, but in the end, it has a lot more to do with who they are and how they treat you than what they look like.

Some of the most "eh" sex has been with really pretty girls. The best is with someone you really care for

bah, im so inexperienced. I cant see how any of this makes sense,

but I guess I wont understand it until I'm in a relationship
And unfortunately I'm prohibited to have sex until I'm married, so I wont be able to explore that specific realm until my vows are already set.

Oh well, I guess you can blame God for me being so picky about my standards. (I only get one woman to have sex with in life, and I dont want to be displeased)

 

[d3track]

get a custom ring tone
use i kissed a girl

you'll tap the jungle of love in no time

 

[Werd]

Wpmen will give sex for love while men will give love for sex.

WERD

My current man is NOT my physical ideal at all and though he has always been an extremely skilled lover I never ever thought that I would end up with him because of it. But now that I have fallen deeply in love with him I find that I want sex even more than my usual desire for sex (I have a very strong drive). SHEESH am I motherfucking horny!!

He loves me for who I am (this I know not only because of his words but most importantly because of his deeds) but is absolutely crazy for my external appearance...

So you see, it works out perfectly.

 

[fyxgel2]

i guess women are less picky than guys about physical appearances. I will use that to my advantage and ask out hot women.

 

[jenscats5]

i guess women are less picky than guys about physical appearances. I will use that to my advantage and ask out hot women.

Well, a good personality and a caring, sensitive person can increase someone's attractiveness considerably.....

 

[Sub-Zero]

get a custom ring tone
use i kissed a girl

you'll tap the jungle of love in no time

see my thread.

 

[fyxgel2]

see my thread.

I did, and I am not pleased.

 

[Tweakle]

God's plan is apparently for you die a virgin. don't fight it.

 

[Sub-Zero]

God's plan is apparently for you die a virgin. don't fight it.

id recommend the opposite.

fight it at all costs- buy a puppy

 

[Forge]

Oh well, I guess you can blame God for me being so picky about my standards. (I only get one woman to have sex with in life, and I dont want to be displeased)

You may be a virgin, but I'd say you are already fucked.