question for men who don't like small talk

[Lao Tzu]

How do you start/initiate/maintain verbal small talk with strange women if you don't like doing it?

i usually talk in a fact based way. I'm not interested in shit like who did what where. If someone has a question & i have an answer i'll give it, thats about it unless i know someone somewhat.

do you just nod your head & pretend to listen rather than actively listen? how do you get them to do all the talking.

 

[WODIN]

You are never going to get laid.

 

[HulkRow]

small talk with strange woman...if ya dont like doin' it dont do it!

 

[plornive]

I don't think what you say matters as much as how you say it. Whether you are speaking factually or just bullshitting, the real communication is body language, tone, etc.

Therefore, your idea of only speaking factually actually detracts your overall logic and precision of conversation.

Having said that, why not find something interesting/offensive/ugly/pretty about a person and use that as a lead. That's perfectly logical and factual. Just don't be too wordy and gay.

 

[Radical Ice]

Hi, I'm ___, I just wanted to apologize for staring at you earlier, but you have the prettiest ____.
However they respond to whatever your opening line is, you'll sense whether or not you should continue. If so, just work in 4 basic subjects 1) Family 2) Job 3) Hobby 4) Kids...
They seem personal, but as plornive says, it's how you say it... make sure you be yourself and don't try to be more professional or more comical or more macho just in case you really hit it off, you'll know she likes the real you. As for not liking small talk, once it's initiated, if she really keeps you going, you'll most likely remain interested. If you sense that she's not going to be worth pursuing, politely excuse yourself with something like "well, I need to get going... or I'll let you get back to what you were doing... I just had to let you know I'm a good guy -- or whatever.
By the way, there is no perfect way, but you will get better and better as you go along.

 

[Testosterone boy]

I'll bet you are one of those people that needs a couple drinks to loosen up. I am wondering if the pursuit of skirts is time well spent. Cosider that you could be sharpening your debating skills here at Elite instead.

 

[bullett]

Watch the movie TopGun with Tom Cruise, and copy the opening bar scene....

and always ask open ended questions, like "How did your hair get so fucked up?"

 

[Testosterone boy]

Watch the movie TopGun with Tom Cruise, and copy the opening bar scene....

and always ask open ended questions, like "How did your hair get so fucked up?"

It helps to look like Cruise and have flight wings.

 

[Lumberg]

The title of this post might as well be "Calling all men!"

JC

 

[Lao Tzu]

there are a vareity of ways to initiate a conversation with a strange woman.

http://www.pickupguide.com/classic/sits.htm

http://www.pickupguide.com/classic/nmp.htm

However, most people are boring, and i don't relish in the idea of bullshitting for hours on end.

no i'm never going to get laid, but i could care less.

 

[HulkRow]

there are a vareity of ways to initiate a conversation with a strange woman.

http://www.pickupguide.com/classic/sits.htm

http://www.pickupguide.com/classic/nmp.htm

However, most people are boring, and i don't relish in the idea of bullshitting for hours on end.

no i'm never going to get laid, but i could care less.

LOL those links are classic,

"the other hand, if you meet a chick, and she is reacting well to you, but
not kino, then maybe this is not her horny day, wait a week or two, and
try again before giving up."

 

[bullett]

LOL those links are classic,

"the other hand, if you meet a chick, and she is reacting well to you, but
not kino, then maybe this is not her horny day, wait a week or two, and
try again before giving up."

tru...

It has been studied and confirmed that women are attracted to rugged, very masculine men (this may let you out) during the time around their period, primarily the week before. This is some primal reproductive drive... During the two weeks or so after, they are evidently more attracted to LESS masculine men (nathan??) I saw the study a while ago on the net, I will see if I can find it. So the premise is true, that if she hasn't actually puked at the sight (or smell) of you, but she is not dropping her panties, just wait a couple of weeks and try again, maybe she will be more attracted at that time...

All this serves well to illustrate the fact that women are STRANGE animals, and we men are very poorly equipped to understand any of it...

 

[HulkRow]

where can i get a calander, that shows womans "horny days" on it?? this would ,make planing alot easier.

 

[Testosterone boy]

where can i get a calander, that shows womans "horny days" on it?? this would ,make planing alot easier.

It's easy....if you are dirty, broke, and totally exhausted, they will be horny.

 

[OMEGA]

the Raiders suck Al Davis felches mint jelly that is all

 

[casavant]

nord, just eat or drink something that makes you talk a lot. Then you're good to go.

And you know this, man.

 

[Lao Tzu]

nord, just eat or drink something that makes you talk a lot. Then you're good to go.

And you know this, man.

i'm looking into that. alcohol seems to work. I'd prefer something that isn't detectible if i need to drive and doesn't impair driving judgement too much, so maybe xanax & a small amount of alcohol. i have both.