I hate "Will and Grace". Everybody believes it's a gay show. It's not a gay show.
It's a fantasy how straight writers believe straight actors should play a gay person...and get it wrong.
I really like "Queer Eye...". Now THESE are gay guys! I know guys like these!
Plus they figured out a reality show where nobody gets humiliated, and everybody wins!
and yes, you're right, there are plenty of gay slobs that could use the same makeover.