possible to start a relationship......

[ex-infantry]

using instant messenger? i met this girl once, a while ago... she lives pretty close to me even though she is away at school right now(which isnt a very far drive either).... but we talk on instant messenger all the time... my friend says i have a shot with her.... but im not sure that using I.M. is the best way to start a relationship... ill admit though, its seems like a decent way to get to know someone. what do you ladies and gents think? help me out here with some words of wisdom.

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

Frackal?

 

[The_Ghost]

Frackal?

Hahahahahaha sorry but I had to laugh.



Why not bro, you can find out a lot about her this way. Some people will feel more comfortable telling you about themselves this way. You will never know though until you see each other in person.

 

[ex-infantry]

LOL..... no skywalker..... not frakal

 

[Big Boricua]

Go for it and then let us know...

 

[Frackal]

Haha ASS...lol...anyway, IM is a great alternative medium for communicating with someone, it's different than over the phone or personal.

 

[ex-infantry]

thanks guys.... but how do you get the confidence to ask her out... i mean, on I.M. i can take my time, plan out what im gonna say.... but in front of this girl, i think ill be stumbling with my words... how do you guys do it???

 

[DcupSheepNipples]

Go for it, but dont be surprised that your talking to a 60 old gay man untill you meet them in person.