Parents, your views please.

[delts2]

I'm at a point where I'm about to tell my daughter's softball coach what I really think. Now, I know, some of you may think of this as pretty trivial, but let me explain the situation. I'm talking 5th grade softball here. This coach has a daughter that is the pitcher and (of course, bats first too), that the whole team revolves around in his mind. I've never seen such a self-serving asshole in my entire life. And although my daughter is just as good in the field and at bat, she doesn't see near the playing time. I've coached both of my daughters in basketball and in soccer, and not once did I show favoritism to either of my kids. Hell, if anything I was harder and more demanding of them. Granted, alot of this is pretty commonplace especially if you live in a small town like I do. It's quite plain to me that if you're not in the "clique", your kid isn't really part of the team. I may lose it tonight, but only when I can see him alone, I would never embarrass my daughter. Oh yeah, and by the way, he's a big fatfuck couch potato........and I might have to flex on him..........lol.

delts2

 

[HamsterHider]

Send him to vegas he'll look good out in the dessert with the snakes and vultures eating him alive

 

[delts2]

Yeah, and then all the snakes would die from the fat content.......lol. No, I think I wanna see if I can piss him off. I'm sure I can.

delts2

 

[HamsterHider]

you should start to cheer when his daughter strikes out then pretend like you made a mistake and quit clapping suddenly. Maybe file an anonymous complaint to the league director that you think he may be touching children because you witnessed it by the porta potties. then say you are scared to state your name cause he said if you tell he would kill you

 

[smallmovesal]

how do the other parents feel? if they feel the same as you, then maybe you all could approach him about the way he's running the team.

or you could just tell him that you feel your child isn't being given a fair opportunity to participate.

is it community or something you pay for?

 

[HamsterHider]

Or just make up anonymous false accusations and ruin his life as he is making a scarring impression on the other children that they are not good enough and only his daughter is.

 

[Juice Moose]

Its not the fault of the coach, it is his spoiled brat of a daughters fault, so have your daughter catch her alone, and work her ass over with a softball bat.

This brings up another subject, the sound of an aluminum bat bouncing off of someones skull, I dont think it compares to the sound of an old louisville slugger, when dishing out a good old fashioned wood shampoo. what do you guys think?

 

[HamsterHider]

Nope definitely the dads fault. Have seen it much grew up in little league baseball and played in HS to. Parents favoritism. Guaranteed.

Let Daddy fry. sewwwwwwwweeeeeee

 

[HumanShell]

When I was like 9 years old, my sister and our neighbor Lindsey were hitting tennis balls with a aluminum bat. Lets just say I was in the wrong place at the wrong time, and my neighbor swung around and hit me in the head with the bat. A few weeks later she was playing over in our other neighbors back yard, and for some reason I picked up this huge stone (to a 9 year old) with both arms, and tossed it over the fence. Well, they were closer to the fence than I knew, and it ended up hitting her in the head. Later that night, after my mom had found out, she told me to take one of my stuffed animals over to her house and apologize. So I did, and she ended up being my first girlfriend and kiss

 

[HamsterHider]

Once my neighbors who were twins were having a mud clump fight with me and the stuff was dry and would incinerate upon hitting us. So one piece didn't and guess what I did a funny and picked up a rock whipped it hit the neighbor in the head he fell down the construction site and never ever tried to win in anything alse we ever played together.

 

[HumanShell]

LOL Hamster...did you ever used to get in water ballon fights? I remember putting some of the water ballons in the freezer beforehand...

 

[HamsterHider]

NO but the jehovah witness church at the bottom of the hill yelled at me for riding my bike through there parking lot when i was like 10 so in the winter i put like 5 pounds of hamburger and sprite in there mail box on the door. I bet it was a mess for service.

 

[satanic goatslayer]

Bite a large hole in his neck.

 

[delts2]

LOL........you guys are nuts! SG, I think you're on the right track.

delts2

 

[WODIN]

Delts,
First talk to your girl about how you see things and see if they agree with you. If she does then work out a solution, If she doesn't see it this way then do what makes them happy.

 

[cm3504jm]

Thats just part of the game. I know 1st hand that lilltle league and softball work like this: There are always a core of 5-6 players that play every inning. All the rest fend for themselves and try to get in when they can.

I always tell my son that no matter how unfair it seems (and it is), never question the coaches decision. And no matter how tempting it may be, you as a parent should never question the decisions. If it really bothers you that much, maybe a change to another team or league would be in order.

I do appreciate coaches taking time out from their personal life to coach, it is a hard job.

I know its bullshit, but so is life and I tell my son to use it as motivation to better his skills and make people notice.

This winter, he wants to build his skills, get a little bigger, and become the best player he can be.

 

[HamsterHider]

Kat come to Vegas again I will show you how to handle this