Ulcasterdropout said:
blowup doll
I was going to respond via PM, but decided to respond publicly instead.
I remember that thread, and I apologise if you took that the wrong way. It was not meant as a personal jab, I'm sorry if you took it that way.
What is intended to be good-natured (albeit at times a bit on the rough side) ribbing can be mistaken for a personal attack. In real life, my friends and I tend to be quite brutal with eachother at times when it comes to giving eachother guff, but it's all meant in fun. I guess I need to remember that some people don't have as thick of skin as I do and at times can take things the wrong way, esp. given the difficulty of conveying inflection via an internet message board.
Please accept my apologies.
Huge props to you for working around your issues. I know first-hand how difficult it can be.
Prettylittlepest said:
Anyway i personally beleive we all have stuff we go through and that no one has it easier than anyone else. We have life lessons to learn, but we have to chose what we gain from it
Thanks for sharing your story. I'm sorry you had to endure that.
I agree, most everyone has their burden(s) to bear, and some people are more able to deal with their experiences and learn from them than others.
GREGORY said:
Let's just say that the people that really went through stuff would not post on this thread, and i mean really went through hell and back. But those of you that feel you overcame adversity should be congratulated.
Obviously there are things people aren't going to share on here. If someone isn't willing to divulge their stories, they shouldn't feel compelled to do so. I just thought this might develop into something that others could learn from by those who are willing and able to share.
JerseyArt said:
Yeah, years of pretty horrific early abuse turned me into the sweet lovable gentle person I am today
Actually, you seem to be one of the friendlier orbs on this board.
Robert Jan said:
I got picked on quite seriously for a long time for not being a Christian and amongst other things it has caused me to still be very critical of faith.
I don't blame you in the least for being critical. It's very difficult (if not impossible) to see Gods love through His "followers" under these circumstances.
Forge:
VERY well said. Sometimes the most painful experiences in life are the ones that we learn from the most.
Sugarplum: Congrats on your weight loss(!). As far as your spiritual beliefs, they are yours to decide and I do not question them, but I would like to mention something for you (and others) to consider:
Matt. 5:45: ...He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous."
Take it FWIW, I won't bring it up again unless asked to.
As far as some of my own personal experiences go...
I've shared a few things about myself in other threads, but I'll gloss over them (and a couple other things) here as well.
I was sexually abused as a child, I've struggled with weight issues in the past, I've had to deal with emotional issues all my life at the hands of a severely alcoholic father, I nearly became an alcoholic at one point myself, and I watched my manic depressive mother rot from cancer before I was out of my teens. These are but a few of the things I've had to deal with. There's plenty more, but I'll save them for another time.
All these things have served in their own way(s) to make me into the person I am today. I still struggle with certain issues, but my faith has enabled me to deal with things I didn't stand a chance of dealing with on my own.
In some areas I've made total recoveries, and in other areas I'm no better than I was in the past. I've made more than my fair share of mistakes, and I still continue to do so on a daily basis.
As Sugarplum said, "there but by the grace of God go I."
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