I am the same pretty much the same in person. Twisted but good at heart. If you are referring to meeting opposite sex online, its not much different than meeting face to face. The best face will always be put forward, but we all do that.
The dreads do not live up to their personas online, they are kinder and relatively more normal in real life.
By the way, those chicks I met were pleasantly plump, get it right whackers. LOL