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One of THESE days...

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Do you ever have a day just start out perfect. The weather is nice.. things are moving along good.. then all of the sudden you are hit with a bunch of stuff at once that changes the course of your life.....????
 
starfish said:
dballer,

Do I need to be worried about you??

How are you?

starfish:)
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Damn....nice avatar starfish but there is something black and shiny covering up the view. See if you can fix that. Thanks for your help in advance!
 
My life has been a series of dramas during the last 5 months or so. The latest being my ex coming into town with a wild story.:mad:
 
My friends child has just died. The strange thing is, I have another friend.. last year his child died of SIDS.. the sad part.. it is his sister's child who died.
 
She had twins two weeks ago. Both were premies...

Well they were in rough shape cause their lungs were not developed. But then began to get better.
I was just told that they got a call from the hospital saying that one of the twins has passed away.

I feel soo bad for the family. They just went though this.
 
dballer said:
My friends child has just died. The strange thing is, I have another friend.. last year his child died of SIDS.. the sad part.. it is his sister's child who died.
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When a child dies that has to be the hardest thing in life to deal with. I had a friend, 19 years old comit suicide this past fall. I had a very hard time dealing with that, but a friend told me to remember the good things about her, and not focus on her death.
Try to focus on the little childs life and not their death. There will be a tremendous amount of pain to deal with, but remembering their life will help somewhat.


I'm sorry for yours and your friends loss.

May god bless them.:angel:
 
dballer said:
She had twins two weeks ago. Both were premies...

Well they were in rough shape cause their lungs were not developed. But then began to get better.
I was just told that they got a call from the hospital saying that one of the twins has passed away.

I feel soo bad for the family. They just went though this.
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That is a horrible thing to have happened....:( My heart goes out to them. I hope they will be able to recover eventually...
 
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I have to believe that everything happens for a reason...I'm not saying "God's," or anything like that, it's just that I would not be able to accept events like this if there wasn't...some...reason--although sometimes it takes a while to figure that out...

I don't know what else to say...
 
dballer said:
My friends child has just died. The strange thing is, I have another friend.. last year his child died of SIDS.. the sad part.. it is his sister's child who died.
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Holy shit bro thats horrible!:bawling: I have a baby and I can't even begin to imagine what thats like. For what its worth I'll say a prayer for you and your friend and the baby thats still alive. I don't know you but if you need to talk hit me up at [email protected]
 
Thanks alot ya'll. The hardest part is that I have been friends with this family my whole life. My friend had his 2nd child die of crib death and now his sisters second born has passed at 2 weeks old. all of this in less than 12 months. It is just horrible. He and I are always there for eachother. He and his family have done sooo much for me... and I can do nothing.... helpless. horrible.

Thank you all for the kind words.
 
dballer said:
Thanks alot ya'll. The hardest part is that I have been friends with this family my whole life. My friend had his 2nd child die of crib death and now his sisters second born has passed at 2 weeks old. all of this in less than 12 months. It is just horrible. He and I are always there for eachother. He and his family have done sooo much for me... and I can do nothing.... helpless. horrible.

Thank you all for the kind words.
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Just be there for them, that helps more than most people will ever know. I know what it is to have someone there to listen to you.

That is way more than doing nothing.

I promise.
 
big4life said:




Just be there for them, that helps more than most people will ever know. I know what it is to have someone there to listen to you.

That is way more than doing nothing.

I promise.
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Thanks man.. it means alot.
I see where you are coming from.. but you understand that feeling. There is sooo much I want to do.. but I am afraid of bruising the situation. I am a pretty abrasive person. I know this. When a tender situation comes up.. I back out. Cause sometimes I have a way of upsetting greiving people. I do not want to do this right now. I made an offer to do whatever I can. I think tommorow I am gonna but them a huge ice cream cake. I know they are getting alot of flowers. I don't know what to do.. I just feel like I gotta do somthing. Sometimes being there is not enough.. you know.. just a hard situation for me to deal with. People deal with losses diffrently.
 
Everybody looks for the perfect thing to say during these situations, and there isn't any magical words. Just offer what you can, whether it's a hug, a shoulder to cry on, or just sit with them and listen to them and grieve with them.

God bless.:angel:
 
big4life said:
Everybody looks for the perfect thing to say during these situations, and there isn't any magical words. Just offer what you can, whether it's a hug, a shoulder to cry on, or just sit with them and listen to them and grieve with them.

God bless.:angel:
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Yeah.. that is it. I just wish I could do more.
Thanks Man.
 
Dballer...I understand where you are coming from....

B fold and I have had to deal with quit a bit today also...

Every day is a new challenge. I will keep you in my prayers. You know my number and how to get ahold of me if you need someone to talk to.
 
Night Fly said:
Dballer...I understand where you are coming from....

B fold and I have had to deal with quit a bit today also...

Every day is a new challenge. I will keep you in my prayers. You know my number and how to get ahold of me if you need someone to talk to.
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Thanks!!!!

I really mean that!!
 
It's horrific, and words just don't seem to be enough. Right this minute I have a lady with a 35 week demise in labor. It never gets any easier- except for times like the couple that I saw last week... Last year she delivered a stillborn at 38 weeks; now they're pregnant again and the two of them spent 10 minutes telling me how much everything the nurses and I did for them meant in the past year.

Dballer- At the time I felt just like you do now, like the words meant nothing, that there wasn't anything I could do to help them in their time of grief. It's just proof that your actions/words/presence really do make a difference even though you think they don't.
 
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